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I love answering peoples questions! and knowing that i am not the only one having a hard time with life makes me feel good! also knowing that i helped someone makes me feel good too! so if you write me i promise i wont let you down! because you know what they say sometimes you learn from other people! and i have ben through a lot! and even if i wasnt i pretend i am in that position and tell you what i would do! so go ahead and open up to me! i promise i will help you! xox Emily {plz rate me}
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okay heres my story! me n my friend went to the beach together n i took her there for her birthday! and we met this guy who we both thought was hott there..i talked to him first cause she was too scared! and he is realli intrested in me and i'm into him too! but i don't wanna hurt my friend! and i feel bad now cause i told her i would take her to the mall when me n him went but i didn't..we went last night but she doesn't know we went cause i know shes gonna get mad! i don't know what to do cause i realli like him! and i've had rough relationships in the past and he feels right for me! and i don't think talkin is gonna do much good with her feelings so instead of talkin to her what else can i do?! i feel kinda bad..but i realli truely like hiM! he's a sweetie!
ugh! help me please! i'll rate high!
Ps:she is just a friend..not a best friend
okay..well most people wil tel you to "be a good friend and dont go out with him" honestly...how many people do that? like none! so im gonna give it to you str8...i went out with a kid that my friend liked and she was mad for about a day and then she got over it. if shes a good friend she will forgive and forget! people get in fites and people make mistakes but ur friend needs to realize that you need somebody there for you rite now and that you mite not get another chance to be with him! so go for it and i hope it lasts!
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okayy theres this guy that i like and i think he likes me cuz hes always like lets be partners and we do this card swap thing and hes like hey find the card that matches mine and switch with them so we can be together...ha i think he does but how do i know for sure..haha
well did you tell him that you like him? if not maybe he is hiding the fact that he likes you because he doesnt think you like him if so and you guys are as close as you sound then you should just come out and tell him what you told me...that you think he's showing you signals by always wanting to be your partner then ask him if he is doing it to be friendly or because he likes you.
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Well i just found out my friend (D) likes me and i guess i like him to but i like his friend (F) more than i like (D). i really dont no wut to do!!!! Please HELP!!
well dont go out with someone when you like someone else. especially if you like the other guy more! spend some time with both of them and then decide which one is more for you, and treats you better!
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ok......i'm 16 and theres this guy who's 20 that i like alot. he has been wanting to go out with me but my dad wont let me bcuz he says hes to old for me. well my friends keep tellin me i should just dont let my dad find out. what should i do? is there a way to get my dad to let? please help
well i know parents can be tough but did u ever loose your fathers trust? if so thats probably why he wont let you, you need to prove to him that you can handle going out with someone older than you. if your dad has no reason to trust you and just wont let you go out with him no matter what then if you truley have feelings for him then you have no choice but to go behinde you fathers back. the only thing is that if you two have sex and your dad finds out then your dad can sue him! ((that happened to one of my friends)) its sagetary rape. so be careful with you decision!
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xox Emily
Whats like the maximum age difference thats considered normal??
love knows no age! if you are truley in love then age shouldnt even come to mind! especially because when your younger one year seems weird but when you get older it doesnt rele matter since you are talking about the future.
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xox Emily {rate me}
p.s. age is mind over matter if YOU dont mind it dont matter ((dont worry about what other ppl think of your age difference!))
recently i went away to sleepaway camp where i fell for this guy. He was cute nice and funny. I had such a blast with him. We went on a boat together and hugged. But then we had a dance and he and i just looked at eachother. But i seriousley thought he liked me! but then when another girl asked him dance he looked at me with a sad face.! The dance was the day b 4 camp ended and i dint get to talk to him again! He gave me his sn and stuff but hes never online!!!! I really wanna talk to him and find out if he likes me to or whatever. But im so confused does he or dusnt he like me and what shud i do?
well maybe he didnt want to be rude and just because you dance with somebody doesnt mean you have to like them. so you never know if he rele does like you. and if he never is on then when he is you need to tell him how you feel about him and if you dont feel comfortable telling him that then get his fone number and give him yours so you can talk to him more before telling him how you feel. or give one of your friends his sn who you trust because you cant always be online so theres a chance that maybe your friend will be on and he will be on so she can give him your number or get his for you!
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hi ppl . ok well heres my problem . im not bragging or nethng but i think im pretty & hav a good personality but my one thing is , i hav NEVER had a boyfriend . and im 14 . its bothering me b/c all of my friends can get them , and i cant . i talk to guys all the time and im being myself , but it isnt working . nothing is working . i dono what to do nemore . any tips
well one thing you need to know is that you should never change for any guy! bc if he doesnt like you for who you are then he isnt worthy of being with you. besides would you rele want to be with somebody who doesnt like you for YOU plus if you stay together for a long time you will just be living a lie! and nobody wants to do that! maybe the guys are just too shy to make the move so its about time that you make the move! you cant sit around forever w8ing for them to make the move!
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im a freshman and all the senior guys are all over me. its great but its kinda bad ya no. this really hott guy invited me to a party and there will b drinking drugs sex and everything there and i dont want any of the guys to expect sex or a hj or bj from me. do u think i should go to the party? thnx
well before you go anywhere with any guy u need to make sure you know them pretty well. also if you do then you need to tell him that he cant expect you to do things with him and if you dont feel comfortable saying that to him then maybe you shouldnt be going to this party with him. also if you do decide to go and you feel even a little uncomfortable then you should have a good and loyal friend with you and make sure you tell her to not to leave you alone with him.
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xox Emily {rate me}
ok so i got those glasses with the plastic frames last year cuz i liked them (at the time). they r blue with sparkles. i got them from da adult section cuz they werent in the kids section. at the time i didnt realize that they were too big for my small face soo i never wear em anymore. im afraid people will make fun of me, so i dont risk it. im only supposed to wear them at school and at home watching tv or sumthin anyway but sometimes i feel like i cant see anything without it being blurry. i dont want to wear the glasses at school cuz they look bad on me but i need to c the board. last year i got bad grades cuz i couldnt see anything. please dont nag me for getting the glasses in the first place, i cant fix that now. its already been done. please, i dont want to wear them cuz i made fun of enough but i need to see. what should i do?
well why dont you ask one of your parents to go to the eye doctor and get a new pair or pretend that you lost them and tell you parents you NEED new ones. or if you dont want glasses at all or dont have the money then just ask your teachers if you can sit in the front so you can see the board and wait till you parents planned on gettin you new contacts because they couldnt have expected you to wear the same pair forever! or get contacts!
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My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :(
you say you dont want to hurt anymore but if your not with him then wont you be hurting if your not with him? thats why if you give him another chance maybe he truley has changed and then you have a chance to be happy and with him. so give him a chance and see how it goes!
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why do guys always go for the girls that look like hoes? why is everything going great until some girls boobs knock on the door or another girls ass walks in??? i hate it its like ur invisible when theres other hott girls around
hey! ik how you feel! i like this kid and he likes a girl who looks just like me...but she has a bigger ass and bigger boobs! ik how you feel and unfortunatly a lot of oter grls do too! but guys hormones basically take ovr and they cant help but b attracted like us gurl r wen a hott guy walks in w. a good body! lol we cant help but look! once he realizes shes just a piece of ass and ur more than that he will probably come back to you and appolagize! make sure it doesnt happen again! xox Emily {rate me}
how much do u think i should get paid for babysittin for 5 hours
atleast 20 dollars ((it kinda depends on how many ppl you are babysitting)) but like 4 or 5 dollars an hour. xox Emily {rate me}
i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel?
hey! i think u did do thr rite thing by telling him. you cant keep your feelings bottled up inside you forever...but you mite hav shocked him. give him some time to think about it all. has he ever showed any signs that he likes you too? does he flirt w. u? write back to mi page and give me some more information about his personality xbellaxobambinax69
xox Emily
hello ppl. when i view my advice column it says i've been rated once and im rated a 5. well, when i check view feedback at the top, it says i've been rated 3 time, a 5 each time for different advice each time. but it still only says ive been rated once on my column. do i have a problem with my column or something? or does it take a while for my davice to show up. btw, to check this out, go to -*-frecklymatty27-*- and see for yourself. thanks for answering! i rate ^ _ ^
hey when i view my advice column it says i've been rated 5 times but when i check view feedback at the top it says i have been rated 9 times i dont think somethings wrong but i dont know why it does that. you can check mine out too xbellaxobambinax69 xox Emily {rate me}
hey im a columnist on here and i had music on my page and its gone ... whats the little code for it i need help please help asap i'll rate 5's
its www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xanga_music
hope you get it back! ;-) xox Emily {rate me}
do gurls care bout the size of a boys penis?
well i am a girl and i dont care about the size...i mean i wouldnt not go out with a guy just because he had a small penis! it doesnt hurt to have a big one...but a small one is fine! xox Emily {rate me}
i dont live with my dad.my dad is mad at me.I dont want anything to do with him anymore. his friend tim from highschool is his best friend. and he is afraid to stick up 4 me. heres the story.... tims daughter (chelsey) and i have known eachother for 12 years.. just recently, we got in a BAD HUGE FIGHT. bad language was involved. and i got blamed for everything that we both said. and i told my dad its not fair that i have to get punished 4 somehting we both did. so he said he was gonna do something to me. so i refused to go with him. and my mom is stickin up 4 me.she is the only one i have. and like 3 days ago i got a call from my dad. he was tellin me i got grounded and i didnt. he told me to stay off the internet. he also asked y i said i hated chelsey and didnt want to be her friend any more. and i said i hate chelsey cuz the things she does to me. and i also told him i didnt want anything to do with him and he got mad at me and called me names. he also said im never welcome in his house anymore. he told me he would get me someday and hurt my mom.. what should i do? i have no clue. i dont want anyhting to do with my dad he gets into trouble with the law and i dont want anything to do with that or him. i think he hates me and i dont trust him anymore.. what should i do? this girl chelsey has also been tryin to be my friend but i dont want to be friends with her. she is also telling everyone she hates me and all her other friends filled my hole. now i hate her. im so confused and my dad makes my life miserable!!! help me please!
~Confused~
13,female
wow this is serious...i kno you said you dont want anything to do with the law but if you dont want anything to happen to your mom you have to tell someone with higher athority about how your dad said that...what he said to you was a total threat! something needs to be done about this a.s.a.p.!! and if this girl chelsey has only messed up that once she deserves a second chance! i got in a fite with my best friend last summer and there was bad language involved too and she showed her mom the conversation and i got in trouble too but we became friends again and i love her ((like friends))...just try to remember all the fun times you and chelsey had together! but if it isnt the first time you got into a serious fite then you need to completly cut her out of your life...especially at a time like this! xox Emily ((p.s get help soon!)) {rate me}
arite..well when i was about 5 or 6 or maybe even younger ihad a best friend and he was a boy..he lived around the block frum me but directly behind my house!! i juss used to hop the wall and go walk in his house...our parents wer good friends too....i went EVERYWHERE with them and we wer best friends...we did karate together, we juss went eveywhre...swimming lessons, soccer, erything...we wer best friends...and i had a lil brother who we never really liked to play with wed hide frum him, lock him out, nvr invite him newhere etc....and then one day we wer about 7 or 8 i think idk...but my brother n *chris* the guy friend...got in a fight about POKEMON...how dumb...and it juss caused a big argument!! i wasnt allowed to see chris and r parents stopped talking...but now r parents talk alot over the wall and chris mom juss had a baby so id use that as an excuse to go see chris but we nvr really would talk...wed say hi...but nothin else.,..and he is shy around gurls so hes nvr really had a gf...and i was his best gurl friend!!!!! and he was my best guy friend it wuld b s0o0o awesum if it was like that now...and hes s0o0 hott now and im not bad lookin either...and his mom always says she wants us to b friends agen n stuff bc we nvr really got in a fight but it messed ery thing up...it wuld b s00o awesum to hav a best friend thats a guy...who i could talk to...who lives s0o0 close wat shuld i do?...im goin over ther to see the baby tonite i think....wat shuld i say?? hes really shy...and hott...but wat shuld i do?/ plzz help!!!! i miss him!!! it wuld b awesum!! omg plz help me on sumthing i shuld say to him
okay tell him that you really want to be friends with him again because you miss all the fun you guys had together and that it was stupid for you guys to stop being friends because you two never really go into a fight. start to hang out more and more...remind him of all the good times you guys had together! xox Emily {rate me}
well i play soccer a lot and my friends always bitch and stuff because im always busy...yea it sux...also i like this guy but wen i talk to him he doesnt take it seriously, and idk wut to do...my life sux right about now help!
okay well you need to stand up to your friends and say "i really enjoy playing soccer and im not gonna stop just because of you, and if you were my real friends you would support my interests" and about this guy...tell him exactly what you told me! that you really like him but whenever you talk to him you feel like he doesnt take you seriously. start to hang out with him more so he can see what a great girl you are! xox Emily {rate me}
hey chickz so ive been so-called "dating" a guy for like 3 weeks, and iv liked him for about 10 months... i used to think he was soooo hott and i was dying 2 get with him, but he had a girl.. so they broke up like 4 months ago, and then he asked me out 2 months later.. after 2 weeks he broke up w/me cuz he still wasnt "completely over his ex, and not ready for a relationship yet" he sed he still wanted 2 be with me later tho.. then i told him 2 make sure hes completely over her.. he asked me out again just 2 weeks later, and told me he'd liked me since september when we met.. well he had a g/f from july thru like march, so he liked me while he had his last serious g/f... so that makes me wonder.. is he gonna like other ppl while we*re goin out? that really bugz me.. should i keep goin out with him? i know 2 follow my heart, but my heart is confused right now
i think you should stick with him. but talk to him about how you feel...tel him exactly what you told me! ((but i know what you mean its not like hes going to admit if he is going to like other girls while he is dating you.)) so just to be sure...keep the relationship interesting...be spontanious and dont always do the same things when your together! xox Emily {rate me}