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hey..im 13 and i live in new yOrki really haven`t been throuqh ThaT muCh
but i can still help ya i quess...i`ll
do my` best LuvV ya alWayz mariia
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Hey, I have a gf, and she says she loves me, and we have been going out for about a week. The only times she says "I love you" is on the computer. I even say it when we are in person and she doesn't say it back... she has told me her feelings and she says she really loves me, and she is like crazy about me, but my question is: How come she won't say it back?
don`t worry about it, it`s only been a week buddy
my boyfriend is awesome on the phone and stuff but then in person hes like distand he doesnt hold my hand, put his arm around me or anything like that...he hugs me when he says good bye and soemtimes kisses me ..i know hes not prude or anything like that because ive seen him with his ex girlfriends and i know hes not a virgin but i hate it like i hangout with my friends that are dating and theyre all over eachother and im lonely which is pretty sad when i have a bf what should i do
hey, wow that was exactly like my ex- he would never do anything but kiss me goodbye. yeah it was fine but i felt lonely. tell him how you feel or you make the first move. he may be shy. you never know.
I went out with this guy for 5 months and then me and him broke up, but I still love him, but now I'm going out with this other guy. Well, me and him broke up too because I told him how I felt about the guy that i dated for 5 months. Now I dont know what to do because now that I'm not dating either, they both want to date me again and I don't know what to do because they are making me choose. What should I do? Please give me some good advice!
go out with the one you dumped the second one for. it happened to me. believe me, go for it. he`ll get over you.
okay.... i have a crush... well more than a crush on this guy. He is so so nice and really good looking. he has the best abs and body. The only hook to this awsome guy is he's...well.. my brother. What should i do? Should i tell him my feelings or should i keep it hush, hush?
Please Help Me.
wow. that`s gross honey. seek medical help.
i like this kid but idk if he likes me we flirt sumtimes but he seems like he flirts w. alot of people and i dont kno wut 2 do ne suggestions?
2 words. Ask him.
I don't think I react to things the way I should,
I lost my father in 97 and I didn't cry all the much and I loved my father very much, then in 2002 I lost my Brother to A Car Crash, and I just don't think I was as sad as I should have been I know you guys are probally think I am cold hearted and made of stone. I fear the same I mean I feel regular emotions like LOVE and anger, and Joy. But when it comes to sadness I just kinda of go numb is something wrong with me, or am I just worrying too much?
no.. the same thing happens to me .. i don`t cry that much, i`m usually in too much shock.. don`t worry!!
I don't love my boyfriend but I do like him alot and we're good together. The thing is, we've been together for a month and there have been a few problems to do with kissing. We both want to, properly like full on but before I didn't want to. Now I do and he knows, it's never the right time, we don't see each other out of school a lot and it's hard when other people are there. I really want to kiss him, what should I do?
ha ha i know the feeling .. well you shouldn`t care about if people are there, me & my boyfriend kiss at the end of the day at school .. ha ha corny i know but anyway`s you could go to the movies and stuff like that, guys love it when girls make the 1st moves, and if you`re too scared to do that then just bring it up like online or something say like " why don`t we ever kiss ? " and stuff like that * believe me it works haha xOxo gOod luck !
I've known this guy for like 3 years, and liked him on and off for a while. I like him, and just found out he's going to ask me out. What should I do?
are u ready ... say yes !! -- ha ha
i really like this guy. hes really cute and hes SOOO funny. but people r always calling him fat. hes NOT fat at all so its really weird. hes really cute and his personality rocks. i dont want ppl saying shit about him tho. what should i do?
tell them to shut the fuck up .. *sry bout the language* .. or just ignore it, you should be the only one who care`s =)
this girl had liked me for a long time. and i liked her too. we hung out a lot. then one night i asked her out and she said that sh'll think about it and then 3 days later she is goin out with one of myu friends. what should i do?
forget about her .. she obviously doesn`t care about your feeling`s .. sorry hun
This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel?
the butterflie`s in yOur stOmach .. and the whole sha-bang .. trust me -- yOu`ll know *
um hello. bit curious about something. here goes. sometimes (im a 13 yr old guy) when im around certain ppl, i get really calm, my heart beat steddies, and things are warm and relaxing. it doesnt matter if its around girls or guys, its equal for both. does this happen to others? its been a wide span of ppl its happened to. from the mentally ill to complete strangers. im not bisexual or anything, im only attracted to girls i think guys are the filthiest of beings to stench the earth. anyway, does this happen to others? it doesnt really bother me, im just dreadfully curious.
no. you`re crazy. ha ha no i`m kidding, yeah that happen`s to mE (13.f) but i`m just reaLLy laid back sO it`s nothing bad .. trust me *
Okay, this guy asked me out and I really like him in all but he is shorter than me. Please don't leave well if you like him then it wouldn't bother you. I know that I need advice on how it won't affect me, if that makes any since?! PLease Help!!!
ha ha dOn`t wOrry it happened to me so i knOw exactly what you mean .. it`s kind of wierd but yOu get used to it i guess, it`s really not as big of a deal as it`s made out tOo be *
i used to like this guy now i dont like him any more but he likes me alot wut should i do?
tell him .. ObviOusly he doesn`t know
my sister has become like a secert kind of person lately. we used to tell everything to each other. when i looked at her mail by accident she wrote i love, she told me she is jk around. i saw I LOVE U to all the letters she wrote to him. my parents r also worried about her. what should i do?
just give her space .. sOund`s like she want`z it *
Hi, i'm 13 years old and i'm a girl. I like this boy but he is taken already, By one of my friends. I really like him and i want to tell him but how can i without my friend not finding out?
dOn`t teLL him .. i`m almOst 100% suRe yOur frienD wiLL finD OuT. sOo waIt it OuT anD sEe HOw thEir reLatiOnship is going .. whO knoW`sz yOu miGht geT lUcky!
okay this is the typical boy problem that i'm sure you here every singal day, but i still need some help. I'm 13 and im a girl... okay... last school year i had a great boyfriend and he was the best, and then after awhile i started to like another guy and i felt guilty going out with the guy, while liking somebody else too. so i broke up with my boyfriend. the other guy that i liked i didnt have any chance with, and he was just my friend. so all summer long i was talking to the guy i liked(who i had broken up with my boyfriend for)and at times it felt like he liked me but then other times he was just my friend. so after a while i just gave up. i still had some feelings for my old boyfriend even when i broke up with him. so now my old boyfriend wont go out with me because he thinks that i break up with people so i can go out with somebody else. I dont do that though, I have a lot of reasons. But I always end up going back and forth between the two guys, i mean i cant deside who i like best. I just don't know what to do about it all and its confusing the heck outta me!! please help mee!!!
signed,
confused
he hE .. sOund`s like sOmeoNe i knOw --> me !! ha hA .. yeaH i haD a bOyfrIend anD we nEver taLkeD in peRsOn, juSt oNline anD stUff cuZ we RareLy saW eaChoTHer. sOo suMmer weNt by aNd i sTarteD likinG anOther gUy .. so i brOke up wiTh my boYfriend thEn for thE neW guy whO askEd me oUt .. baD mistaKe .. it lasTed fOr a weEk. SoO i liKed my fiRst bOyfriend a Lot bUT he haD a girlfrienD aNd i haD a nEw bOyfrienD .. soo finaLLy he broke up w/ hIs giRlfriend and i bROke up with my bOyfriend and we taLked to eaChOther abOut hOw we feLt and turNs OuT he likEd me aLL aLoNg, anD we've bEen gOing oUt for moRe thEn a yeaR now !! sOo just teLL him hOw yOu feeL anD what hAppeneD.
** sOrry thAt tuRned OuT tOo bE a StOry! =]
This boy has liked me for a while and he asked me out about 2 weeks ago. I told him I'd give him an answer soon because i needed to think about it. And I really did need to think about it. Well I told him I'd give him an answer by his birthday which is in a few days. I really don't know if I like him or not. I love his personality but he doesnt really have good looks and I dont care wat anyone says, you do need physical attraction in a relationship. Plus he smells kinda weird lol and none of my friends like him. But the big think is I just dont know if I have feelings for him like that AND his birthdays coming up... Wat should I say to him? should I go out with him or not ?
hMm tOugh situatiOn .. weLL whO caRe`s what yOur frienD`s saY, aT the beGiNning nOne Of my friEnd`s eveN knEw who my bOyfrienD was aNd i wasn`t sUre if i LikEd him eitHer .. but we`re aCtuaLLy beeN tOgethEr fOr abOut a yEaR and a cOuple mOnths !! sOo if yOu think yOu neEd physicaL aTtraCtiOn in a ReLatiOnship, thEn so bE it , buT if yOu likE his persOnaLity and thInk it miGht wOrk oUt, Go FoR it !! hOpe ya dO what`s riTe !!
ok my bf in skool told me to chose me or softball but i love him and i love to be athletic and play softball so i dont kno wut to do :-/ plz help
ha ha what a dOrk .. ha .. chOose sOftball withOut a dOubt .. yOu shOuldn`t have tO chOose between the twO .. if he lOves yOu enOugh, he wOuld suppOrt yOu and yOur decisiOns .. so gO with sOftball--definately !
i think i might have something wrong with my lungs. i get out of breath WAY too easy. i don't think i have athsma, cuz i've never had an attack, and i don't smoke, but my parents do. i'm getting bad grades in p.e. because i can't run. i COULD run...if i could breathe, because it doesn't tire my legs at all...but anyway, how can i tell if there's something wrong with me, or what do i do?
i`d say check with a dOctOr first and see if it`z anythinq seriOus!