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This boy has liked me for a while and he asked me out about 2 weeks ago. I told him I'd give him an answer soon because i needed to think about it. And I really did need to think about it. Well I told him I'd give him an answer by his birthday which is in a few days. I really don't know if I like him or not. I love his personality but he doesnt really have good looks and I dont care wat anyone says, you do need physical attraction in a relationship. Plus he smells kinda weird lol and none of my friends like him. But the big think is I just dont know if I have feelings for him like that AND his birthdays coming up... Wat should I say to him? should I go out with him or not ?
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If your not sure, then chances are you don't. I think you think that since there's nothing wrong with him, if you turn him down you might appear shallow. I think that you also like him as a friend, but you don't want to hurt him by turning him down. I don't think you should date him. I think you should have a long talk with him about how you feel about him and how you feel, and what he means to you as a friend. I wouldn't make it short and painful.
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don't go out with him just cuz of his birthday because that's completely fake and dishonest and he'll just fall harder when he falls...it doesn't sound to me like you're comfortable being with him, so just tell him that you've decided you aren't ready for a relationship right now or you have someone else in mind
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