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Question Posted Tuesday November 2 2004, 4:01 pm

my boyfriend is awesome on the phone and stuff but then in person hes like distand he doesnt hold my hand, put his arm around me or anything like that...he hugs me when he says good bye and soemtimes kisses me ..i know hes not prude or anything like that because ive seen him with his ex girlfriends and i know hes not a virgin but i hate it like i hangout with my friends that are dating and theyre all over eachother and im lonely which is pretty sad when i have a bf what should i do

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xbella_47 answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 9:41 pm:
hey, wow that was exactly like my ex- he would never do anything but kiss me goodbye. yeah it was fine but i felt lonely. tell him how you feel or you make the first move. he may be shy. you never know.

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pRiiNcEsS_bRyT answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 7:12 pm:
maybe u should talk to him or maybe get alone with him in a room n see if he makes a move or n e thyng sometimes guys are nervous to make the first move and girls gotta go fer it! try ta ask him if he rele likes u n stuff! good luck hUn<33

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TommiBrowne answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 5:13 pm:
I know everyone sats this but tell him how you feel. You feel as if he neglects you and your relationship with him. All you have to do is tell him straight out and if you do not, it will eat away at you because there will be a need that you are not gtting addressed by him. I know how you feel. I had a boyfriend like that. There's is nothing wrong with him. You said you two have nice phone conversations, chill out. He still has time to get to know you. Maybe he doesn't kow how to act around you. He is still figuring you out. Things will be fine.

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UWishUHadMyHemi answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 5:08 pm:
um..tell him how unhappy you are. maybe hes a shy one when it comes to you. tell him how you feel and tell him its okay to have PDAs. good luck sweetie!! hope i helped

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xotinaxo answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 4:34 pm:
Tell him u need more attention.You no he luvs u but u need reminders every so ofen!(Every grl dose
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LoViny0ux914 answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 4:16 pm:
maybe you should try 2 make some more first moves! and if hes still distant then id say maybe spend some time apart..and that could go one of 2 ways. either you guys will realize how much you miss each other and want to be more "intimate" i guess you could say [im not suggesting sex lol] or you'll realize that you're not right for each other and you can find other people! hope this helps! x0x0x

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BashfulBowler answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 4:13 pm:
Maybe you need to make the moves. Be a lil more flirty with him, like grab his hand or try n kiss him. Or you could always let him know it makes you sad.

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XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 4:13 pm:
well the most obvious answer is tell him how you feel..tell him you feel as if there is some weird distance b/t u..if things dont change or he says he feels uncomfortable making the first move then HELLO...make the first move. other than that then u just might not b right for eachother..hope i helped

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