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I've been talking to this guy on the internet for seven years and we've been on cam before and shared pictures with one another. Now its been a year since I've seen him and he refused to send me a picture of him. It didn't bother me at first, but when i would ask him he would make up an excuse. Like, ' I don't look good right now ' or ' I have acne' and 'i have a black eye, ill show u when it disappears. This was two weeks ago he said this and i don't know, doesn't a black eye go away in a couple of days? Should i stop talking to this person? Because it seems like he is hiding something from me now. Part of me thinks he is scared to show what he looks like now for some reason, but i don't even care :S (link)
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Well personally, I'd give up. But that's just me. I don't know what to tell you.. I think he might have just changed his mind about wanting to talk to you. I'm really sorry, don't take offense to that, because honestly, I could be 100% wrong.
I don't know him and I don't know what he's thinking. That being said, neither do you. I'd just wait.. eh.. maybe a couple more weeks at the most. But if this continues after a month then DEFINITELY talk to him about and tell him to BE HONEST. Also tell him that his HONEST answer wont hurt you, because that might be his reasoning for not sharing.
Like I said, I could be 100% wrong about this because I don't know him at all. But just keep this little tidbit of an answer in mind.
I hope this works out for you! And who knows? Maybe he did get a black eye and has acne. :)
Feel free to inbox me if you have any more questions :)
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Are there any songs that talk about a girl who is so emotionally scarred and broken from the past, that when a new guy comes along she cant open up or let him love her? Or at least something along those lines? Thanks a bunch. (link)
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Definitely listen to
* "Catch Me" by Demi Lovato.
* "Adore" by Paramore. (definitely).
* MAYBE "You" by Evanescence. (kind of).
I'm sorry but that's all I can think of right now. "Catch Me" and "Adore" are pretty much I think what you're looking for. Maybe some other songs by those artists?
I hope this helps :) xx
feel free to inbox me if you have anything you need help with.
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hey i am a girl and i am gonna b in the 8 grade in 3 weeks and i want to b a prep really bad nt becus i wanna popular or somebody else no i just have always wanted to be one bt never knew how so if u cn help thxs. no rude comments! (link)
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Hmm. Well try to be friends with some of the girls in your school who you consider popular. If you're friends with them, then you'll be considered popular.
You sound like me, really. I wanted to be popular when I was your age.
But seriously I prefer NOT being popular. Just saying. I know that's not what you want to hear, but it's just my opinion.
But yeah just try to be friends with some of the "popular" girls at your school. It'll help.
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Ok so my friends keep telling me i am really pretty but i am not sure i believe them....i think the are just saying that because the are my friends.
So i want your opinion....i will give you the details.
I way 43.0 kilos, i am around 50 and 52 centimeters tall, i have a more round face, i have medium 2 long curly hair, i have Blondish brownish hair, i have green/hazel eyes, medium length eye lashes, i am not skinny but not fat,i am more average. I have tanned skin, freckles on my face, my ears are pierced,i have quit big hips, am an 10AA in a bra but are close 2 fitting a 10A, i am a 8 in womens shoes, 10 in womens tops e.g, a 6 cut a bit shorter in womens jeans/pants e.g, my mum is from Germany and my dad is from Australia, i am from Australia, i have got all my adult teeth, my teeth aren't very white but not really yellow either, more in the middle.
thanks so much plz comment.
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I can HONESTLY say that you need a picture of you for anyone to decide. Maybe you added a link to a picture of yourself then we'd know what you meant.
You sound pretty though.. like being tan with light hair and green eyes. I think that sounds pretty :)
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I met a guy back in October.. told him that I wasn't ready for a relationship. Then somehow by staying friends and hanging out.. we are now a couple. He tells me that his life would be bleak and crushed if I weren't in it. I don't feel the same. HE is 29 and I'm 32 years old.
The BIGGEST issue(among others)is I have no physical attraction to him, just void for me. Now when I do see him.. I am constantly getting sick to my stomach because I just can't handle being around him anymore.
To make matters worse.. he's a truck driver at the place I work.. so I'll see him at least twice a week no matter what.
What do I say to break it off without actually haven't to say that "I'm not attacted to you" or that the physical attraction is missing?? I know he's going to ask why.. plus how do I break up with him and still remain decent considering I will have to see him in my work week?
Thank you for your help from the bottom of my heart. -Christie (link)
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Hmmm. Maybe you could just tell him? I'm sorry if you think this is bad advice considering it's what you didn't want to do. I know you said you didn't want to just flat out tell him. But maybe being honest about it would be the best way to go. I mean, you'd feel bad about it, yes. But I personally think that if you just told him the real reason you'd feel a lot better than lying about it or not telling him. He'd be hurt, yes. There's no denying that. But if you don't tell him why, he'd probably wonder about it and wonder why you broke up with him. Wouldn't it be better if he just knew? Again I'm terribly sorry if you don't like this advice. You can rate it a "1" if you want to. I think that'd best though. Just tell him, get it off your chest.
Also tell him that you're sorry and that you guys could still be friends, IF he wanted to. It will be incredibley awkward, but I can't think of any other solutions to that. I'm sorry. But I hope I helped? Just a little?
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im a girl not a guy she wants to b my friend and i dont know what to say (link)
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I'm sorry I don't know what question you asked before.. but let me know what one it was so I can help! :)
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The other night, I had a dream that the world ended. Is this a sign of something? It was pretty random for me to dream this.... (link)
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I had a dream like that before.. don't worry about it. Like the other person said, nobody knows when the world is going to end. I know how you feel though. After I had my "end of the world" dream I worried for a while but eventually I got over it. Don't worry :)
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Okay so one day im scrolling through my friends wall and all of a sudden i see his thing that says "In a relationship with so and so" and that so and so is my friend, so i commented on it and his mom commented back saying "It has been like that and hes not even friends with this person on facebook there is a problem or something". so im trying to find out the problem on google and nothing came up. Heres the problem:
His facebook says he's in a relationship with so and so. And hes not even friends with her on facebook ... How could this possibly happend? (link)
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That's not possible. If his relationship status says he's in a relationship with so and so, then he HAS to be friends with her. If he deleted her or something, it would just say that he was in a relationship, but not say who with. Is there any possible way his mom could've lied to you about it? That's the only logical explanation.
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I have a friend I've know for about a year. I was attracted to him instantly. But I didn't think he liked because I don't seem like his type and he doesn't seem like the relationship type. So I tried to get over my feelings. But then last night I had a dream that we out with 2 of mutual friends and when they weren't around he kissed me on the lips and we started making out and then when they came back we stopped right away so we wouldn't get caught. What do u think it means? (link)
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Okay first off, you say you don't seem like his type. I know you've probably heard this, but opposites DO attract. Secondly, dreams can mean ANYTHING. Trust me, I know what you mean. I've gotten over guys in the past, but then have had dreams about them, which make me really think about them. I think it means something a lot of the time. I mean, dreams are said to be what you're thinking about.. and you said you got over him? I could be wrong, but maybe you thought you did but you really didn't. Maybe you just hid your feelings, like a mask. Like I said, if I'm wrong then don't listen to me. But in answer to your question, it could mean something; maybe it's just something that's been subconsciously on your mind lately..? I really hope this helps a little and inbox me if you need anything else! :)
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there is this girl who follows me everywhere and i dont really like her but i dont want to hurt her feeelings what should i tell her or say to her because shes allways following me in school (link)
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You have to talk to her about it as SOON as POSSIBLE. Have you told her you don't like her? I know you don't want to hurt her feelings, but if you tell her how you feel, then at least she'll know the truth. Just TELL HER EXACTLY how you feel about her. Trust me. I'm a girl, and I like a guy at my school that probably doesn't like me back. But he didn't tell me if he did or not. If he hurt my feelings, at least he would tell me the truth about it. You know? Seriously, talk to her about it. I mean like, NOW. And even if you don't like her, at least try to be friends. Eventually she'll get over you and find someone else, just like I'll get over my guy. I know you don't want to hurt her, but if you don't tell her how you feel, it'll end up hurting her more. Like I said, trust me. I know how girls feel about this stuff. Just tell her in school or maybe on Facebook if you guys talk on there or anything. I really hope this helps, inbox me if you have anymore questions :)
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Heeeey,
i am 13 years old and i am quite small and 'petite'.
i really want to start my first period as all my friends have. i have had all the signs but it just doesnt seem to be coming. does anyone know anyways to make it come faster. now, i dont want any crap like 'it'll come when its ready' or 'your mad! why would you want it? its horrible!!' because i know i will probs regret it when it comes but i just want it now!!
please heeellppp meee...
thank you =) (link)
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I'm sorry I know this probably isn't what you want to hear.. but there's no way to force it. I know some girls get it at 10, and others as late as 15 or 16. And YES that's true, because I know them personally. Sooo I hate to disappoint you, buuuut "it'll come when it's ready."
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18/f, she's 17/f. (never in my life have i ever liked girls like this. i've always been into guys, but she's different)
she came to school at the beginning of the year and i thought she was quite annoying. she thought i was a bitch. recently, we started talking a lot more and we're becoming pretty good friends, i guess. i noticed that i'd get really happy when i see her. i'm always looking forward to having classes with her. i've had a few erotic dreams about her but i never thought anything of them. i never really thought anything about all of this. then, about 2 weeks ago, she got upset during class and started crying. something inside me broke. i couldn't stand to see her upset. i tried to comfort her and get her to stop crying but nothing seemed to be working and it upset me greatly. all i wanted to do was just hold her and tell her everything would be all right. this is when i figured out i was in love with her. now, you might be thinking "no, you're a teenage girl, you just THINK you're in love." and i'm here to say: you couldn't be any more incorrect. i know when i'm in love. i've been in love with two boys my entire life, and i remember when i first felt something for both of them, it was the same exact thing i'm feeling for her, now: i'd do anything for her. literally, ANYTHING. we complete eachother. i care about her life more than mine. all i ever want to do anymore is be close to her.
but the problem with this is i have a boyfriend. we've been together for about 3.5 years. lately, he's neglecting me up the ass. we never hang out. he never calls. i don't have his new number so i can't call him. i'm thinking about dumping him, but i don't want to because what if she doesn't like me back? she's abundantly bisexual, but i'm getting mixed signals. like she'll hang out with me all the time in school and then when i ask her if she wants to hang out over the weekend, she says she'll text me but she blows me off! and i don't wanna risk scaring her away by texting her all the time: "are you there?" "do you still wanna hang out?" "any plans today?" etc. i just really don't know what to do about all this. and on top of everything, I'M STRAIGHT. i've had one other girl crush, but i've always maintained that i could just make out with her at a party or something. to be honest, i really don't like girls at all. they're too much drama and teenage girls are all just a huge wreck. idk what it is i see in this other chick, but i could do anything and everything for her, i would try to be good to her, i'd try my hardest to keep her happy and stay with her, etc. what should i do? (link)
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Woooooowww!! :D I swear almost the same thing happened to me earlier this year. I didn't think I was into girls either, I thought it was just weird! But it really isn't. First off, just let me say that I know this was written a while ago, so I really hope you got rid of your "boyfriend". NOBODY deserves to be treated like that. Second, it would be fine if you asked her if she still wanted to hang out or something. I know why you're worried.. but if you think about it, if she doesn't know how you feel about her, and she thinks you're just friends, then it would be completely normal to ask one of your friends to hang out, am I right? Jeez.. I bet you figured this out already and I'm wasting my time. But I still want to help. All I can say is be there for her. That's the FIRST thing she'd notice, is a friend that's always there for her. Then she'll notice YOU more. She'll think about how much you care about her and want her to be happy, and she'll start to realize how much she cares about you too. Wow I really hope nothing happened already :\ You see, this is why you're supposed to read the dates that the advice was needed BEFORE you start writing 20 paragraphs! haha. But really, I hope everything works out for you!! And if it did already, then great! And if not, I know how you feel. I've already been interested in two girls and I went about those "crushes" completely the wrong way. I hope you don't make all of the mistakes I've made and I hope you have a great life no matter who you end up with!! :D Inbox me if you need help with anything else. :)
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Okay, so i've liked this guy for like legit 3 years. I'm a freshman in high school and he's a sophomore. He's mad popular and really good at sports. He's known that i've liked him ever since he's been in 8th grade and i've been in 7th grade. I like him a lot, and i want him more than anything. And i really wanna get to know this kid, but i'm afraid to say hey to him, or even smile at him. He looks at me constantly, and so do his friends. Sometimes he can't even look away from me, and he gives me mixed signals and looks. What do i do, do i say hi? or no? I'm friends with him on Facebook and whenever he's online i always stare at the screen waiting for him to chat or message me, but he never does. I don't wanna waste my time on him for the rest of my life, i think i may be falling in love with this kid, and i don't even know him. And i see him everywhere. I'm like obsessed, and i don't know why. God gives me tons of signals everyday, but i just am too scared. Is he waiting for me to say hey, or talk to him first? Why would he be waiting for me? he seems like the kind of guy that would never like me, but everyone knows that i like him, even his brother gives me looks. All the girls think he's like mad cute and hot, and he is, but then again other people say he's a tool and such. I just don't wanna believe them. Please help.
sincerely,
a girl who needs answers. (link)
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Well. That's quite a pickle you're caught in. Let me just say firstly that you shouldn't believe ANYTHING that anyone else tells you. If they say he's a tool, if they say he's not a tool; don't you think YOU should be the judge on that? Even if you really don't know him that well.. what if these people are lying? Secondly, I personally don't think it would be a bad idea to say "hi" to him. You might be surprised. If he ignores you, you shouldn't take it personally; he might just be preoccupied. In my opinion, I'd first smile at him in school or something. THEN I'd say hi to him on Facebook the day after. I know you really really like him and you want him to talk to you NOW NOW NOW, but you don't want to smile AND say hi in the same day, he might be a little weirded out. I'm not saying it's bad idea to do that, you can if you want to; I just wouldn't. If he looks at you a lot... trust me, it's not just because you're looking at him. If he's looking at you, he's looking for a REASON. I'm not sure as to quite what that reason may be, but it's a reason, and it's a good enough reason to get him staring at you. If he had no interest whatsoever, then why would he look at you? Why? Because you like him? No. Just no. That's stupid. No. Listen to me. I've learned from personal experience that if a guy (or girl) looks at you "longingly" then there's something on their mind that's about you. It may be good, it may be bad. But you'll never find out what he's thinking if you don't send two little letters to him on Facebook, now will you? You've liked him for "legit 3 years", correct? And what now? Are you going to like him for another "legit 3 years?" What good is that going to do? Haha. There are so many days I REGRET not talking to people I've liked in the past, and TRUST ME. I can't talk to people I like. But I surprisingly did.. a couple of months ago. At first, he didn't respond. I got scared that he didn't want to talk to me. Then I said it again, and he said sorry, but he was on his phone and he didn't get the first message. So even if he DOES ignore you on the first try, like I said, don't take it personally.. I'm glad I didn't. We've been talking for the past couple of months, and things are pretty good right now. Don't you want that to happen to you? Don't you wanna talk to your one and only love? Do it, you wont regret it.
I hope this helps :) And inbox me if you need help with anything else!! :)
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Okay so I met this guy at a concert, and he asked me for my number and I gave it to him. We then went to eat and we talked for like over an hour. Hes really cool and I like him.
He texted me the next day after we ate, but then he didnt text me again. So I text him after a day or so, and he still answers and has a conversation with me when I do text him.
He works 12 hours a day during the week, so I figured thats why he doesnt initiate the conversation.
But, I initiated the conversation the last couple of times, and I'm wondering if me always starting the conversation is strange? Like clingy? I like him, and I want to talk to him, so I just text him. I'm trying not to overanalyze it and just get to know him.
I'll take guys/girls perspective on this. thank you! (link)
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To be honest, I don't think you're being too clingy. I ALWAYS have the same worry when I talk to this guy I like on FB. But think about it. If you WERE being clingy, wouldn't he tell you? Orrrr ask yourself this. If you were being "clingy" and "bothering" him, then why would he continue to talk to you? It's probably just because you know, HE LIKES TALKING TO YOU. Maybe next time if it happens, ask him if you're bothering him.. and tell him to be honest about it. He probably will be. As I said before, I'm going through pretty much the same thing with a guy I like. I ALWAYS start the conversation, and sometimes he doesn't say anything, but other times we end up talking for over 2 hours. And I thought he was ignoring/avoiding me, so I just flat out asked him, "look do I bother you? Be honest." And he said "not really haha." So I thought maybe he wasn't sure about it, so I asked if he was sure, and he said "positive". I hope (if you DO decide to do that) that the same will happen for you, and you'll discover that you wasted about 10 minutes on Advicenators asking about it. In conclusion, I'm about 85% sure you have nothing to worry about it. Just ask him about it. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, then try it out on him. Don't talk to him for a while.. he may wonder the same thing about you, you never know. But I would personally go with the first one.. I really hope this helps you!! :)
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so i liked this guy for a while. not a big crush, but he was freakin' amazing.. then my bestfriend started liking him, and eventually they went out. So they jut broke up.. and i'm over him now, and started liking someone else who i've had feelings for, but not exactly liked since i was in first grade. and guess what.. she likes him now! and asked him who he liked.. and he said her and not me. So what do i do? :( (link)
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Maybe you just shouldn't tell her who you like anymore..? I mean I know she's your friend, and you should be able to trust her, but in this case if she's doing this to you intentionally then you just shouldn't tell her. OR tell her you like someone that you don't like, and see if she dates him. Just to prove if she's really doing this to hurt you or not. If you try that and she DOES date him, then I would definitely talk to her about it. If it gets worse from there, I'm sorry, but I wouldn't have her as a friend. I know it's probably hard to hear/read, but you can't let this go on forever. If you continue to let this go on, she may even take someone that's a little more than a crush to you, and you might not be able to stop her. So right now, don't think about your Bestfriend.. think about YOU and YOUR future. I really hope this helps! :)
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i have been liking this guy for 2 years and im just now starting to get over him because he got a girlfriend but they had been kind of off and on so i think they have been off for like 3 months now. and the friendship between me and the guy has pretty much be non existant since freshman year anyway this guy has been flirting with me a little bit a couple of times. he implied we should go to prom together and that i would look pretty in my prom dress. then one day he said he wanted my number. i asked him if he was serious and he said yeah. so i let him have my phone to plug his number in. so i thought this was gonna be the beginning of a friendship but now hes just kind of being rude to me by making rude remarks and i was confused. i thought that him giving me his number was a sign he wanted to be friends not be a douche bag. do you think he was trying to work on a friendship? what should i do from here? (link)
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That's quite a pickle you're caught in. I understand what you're saying when you say you're confused, because I am too. If he implied that you should go to prom together, has he asked you? Have you asked him? Does his girlfriend know you guys have been talking? Let me just say from experience that if he's flirting with you, then there's SOMETHING. There's gotta be. I know a lot of people think that guys just flirt for no reason because they're bored, but that is NOT true. They flirt because they have SOMETHING for you. It may not be a big something, but it's SOMETHING and yes, that's a good sign. Has he been making the rude remarks in person? Maybe if they were on facebook, or texting, then it might have been his girlfriend..? I know some couples give each other their passwords for facebook, and let them borrow each other's phones. Could that be it? If it was in person, then that is definitely a problem. Maybe he was just in a bad mood or something! I doubt you should take it personally. But if it's happened a little more than two or three times, just ask him why he's been saying that stuff. To be honest, if I were you I wouldn't worry too much, but I'd just flat out tell/ask him everything that's on my mind. Maybe sending him a message or something? Just tell him the truth, that you've liked him for a while and you thought that he kinda liked you because he was flirting a little. Tell him you were hurt from whatever it was that he said. Ask him if there's any chance of you two being together. I know it sounds really stupid and ridiculous to do, but it's actually a great idea. Just tell him everything, get it all off of your mind. It will show him exactly what you think, and at the same time, clear your mind. You'll feel better about it after you get it all out. If that doesn't work, then I'd suggest you move on. I know, I know, YOU CAN'T. You've liked him for so long and you don't know how you can get over him right? I've heard that come out of my mouth for YEARS. But the truth is, if he's just going to waste your time/life away, then don't worry about him. Don't let him take up ANOTHER two years of your life. It will all get better in the end. If it's not good right now, then it's not the end yet. Remember that. :)
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i have been liking this guy for 2 years and im just now starting to get over him because he got a girlfriend but they had been kind of off and on so i think they have been off for like 3 months now. and the friendship between me and the guy has pretty much be non existant since freshman year anyway this guy has been flirting with me a little bit a couple of times. he implied we should go to prom together and that i would look pretty in my prom dress. then one day he said he wanted my number. i asked him if he was serious and he said yeah. so i let him have my phone to plug his number in. so i thought this was gonna be the beginning of a friendship but now hes just kind of being rude to me by making rude remarks and i was confused. i thought that him giving me his number was a sign he wanted to be friends not be a douche bag. do you think he was trying to work on a friendship? what should i do from here? (link)
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That's quite a pickle you're caught in. I understand what you're saying when you say you're confused, because I am too. If he implied that you should go to prom together, has he asked you? Have you asked him? Does his girlfriend know you guys have been talking? Let me just say from experience that if he's flirting with you, then there's SOMETHING. There's gotta be. I know a lot of people think that guys just flirt for no reason because they're bored, but that is NOT true. They flirt because they have SOMETHING for you. It may not be a big something, but it's SOMETHING and yes, that's a good sign. Has he been making the rude remarks in person? Maybe if they were on facebook, or texting, then it might have been his girlfriend..? I know some couples give each other their passwords for facebook, and let them borrow each other's phones. Could that be it? If it was in person, then that is definitely a problem. Maybe he was just in a bad mood or something! I doubt you should take it personally. But if it's happened a little more than two or three times, just ask him why he's been saying that stuff. To be honest, if I were you I wouldn't worry too much, but I'd just flat out tell/ask him everything that's on my mind. Maybe sending him a message or something? Just tell him the truth, that you've liked him for a while and you thought that he kinda liked you because he was flirting a little. Tell him you were hurt from whatever it was that he said. Ask him if there's any chance of you two being together. I know it sounds really stupid and ridiculous to do, but it's actually a great idea. Just tell him everything, get it all off of your mind. It will show him exactly what you think, and at the same time, clear your mind. You'll feel better about it after you get it all out. If that doesn't work, then I'd suggest you move on. I know, I know, YOU CAN'T. You've liked him for so long and you don't know how you can get over him right? I've heard that come out of my mouth for YEARS. But the truth is, if he's just going to waste your time/life away, then don't worry about him. Don't let him take up ANOTHER two years of your life. It will all get better in the end. If it's not good right now, then it's not the end yet. Remember that. :)
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What should i do in mmy school talent show? (link)
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Probably something you're really good at..?
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how do i disable my history for good? without having to delete it one by one?> (link)
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Just delete the folder titled "3 weeks ago" and/or see how far it goes back. then just delete the folders, and not the items one by one. thats why i do so my mom cant see what ive been doing haha.
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i want to ask my relative how is going with the new home, do thay like or are they happy with the new home (link)
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then... you should ask them if they're happy.
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