I've been talking to this guy on the internet for seven years and we've been on cam before and shared pictures with one another. Now its been a year since I've seen him and he refused to send me a picture of him. It didn't bother me at first, but when i would ask him he would make up an excuse. Like, ' I don't look good right now ' or ' I have acne' and 'i have a black eye, ill show u when it disappears. This was two weeks ago he said this and i don't know, doesn't a black eye go away in a couple of days? Should i stop talking to this person? Because it seems like he is hiding something from me now. Part of me thinks he is scared to show what he looks like now for some reason, but i don't even care :S
Honestly, I would give up and stop looking to met men over the internet as it is not a safe way to really get to know someone. Perhaps he doesn't feel comfortable sharing further information with you, Maybe he did at one time and then he thought about. He's making up excuses, Obviously he no longer wants to be in contact. Just move on you don't need to be seeing someone you met online anyway. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
walkonthefire answered Tuesday November 15 2011, 7:23 pm: Well personally, I'd give up. But that's just me. I don't know what to tell you.. I think he might have just changed his mind about wanting to talk to you. I'm really sorry, don't take offense to that, because honestly, I could be 100% wrong.
I don't know him and I don't know what he's thinking. That being said, neither do you. I'd just wait.. eh.. maybe a couple more weeks at the most. But if this continues after a month then DEFINITELY talk to him about and tell him to BE HONEST. Also tell him that his HONEST answer wont hurt you, because that might be his reasoning for not sharing.
Like I said, I could be 100% wrong about this because I don't know him at all. But just keep this little tidbit of an answer in mind.
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