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Okay well their is this boy at my school and we have gone out and broke up alot! Well now i think im startin to really like him again and he likes me to ! Im tired of breakin up and all but i really like him! Should i go out with him or say No??
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I've had the same problem. I guess it depends if he is the one that keeps dumpin you or you dump him. I wise person told me that if it doesnt work after the 3rd try then there really isnt a connection.
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okay so there is this boy that ive liked for a long time... but yea c hes a mayjor playa and everytime i hook up wit him or w/e he always plays me over but his charm is sooo good and cute that i fall for him no matter wut! how can i just forget about him! and erase him from my life cuz i knoe that the next time i talk to him hes gonna b all flirty and touchy feely to me and then i'll fall for him all over again. please help me get over him.
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Find a nother guy to hang with. It will keep your mind off the playa and you'll still have a good time.
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okay - i know HOW to lose weight but i have no willpower and a major sweet tooth lol ne advice on how to stop snacking?? (link)
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Whenever you want to eat somthing, just touch your stomach so it reminds you of if you do it somthin you will get bigger
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I have had this problem for about 4 years now. My whole body except my stomache is in good shape and I like the way it is and the size. Only problem is my stomache makes me look like im pregnant. I'm 5'3'' and weigh 130-135. I'll try to eat healthy but then at nighttime I'll get so hunfry and want food that I end up getting something to eat like an icecream or sumthing. I know its bad but I don't know how to get over the cravings. Any help on how ot get over the cravings and how to get just my tummy toned. I know your going to say run and crunched but they dont see to help (link)
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Running is the best way cause it not only makes you thinner it also helps you heart, but i use trimspa, it works pretty well. I lost 7 pounds from it (140-133) the only downside to it is that you're sappost to be 18, and it keeps you up at night.
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I really want to be popular. Not popular as in "hello, im stuck up and im better than everybody." I wanna be popular as in BE FRIENDS WITH EVERYONE! i dont know how to start a conversation with strangers. any suggestions on how i can achieve this? (link)
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For me it is easier to go up to someone and talk about things you have in common with them, or complament them. Be like - wow your shoes are so cute... It alwayse breaks the ice and people won't think you are crazy
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okay i have 2 best friends and i have a extra ticket to go too carowinds and i dont know who too take!! one is a girl ive had for 3 years and one is a boy ive had for a year and i love them too death (link)
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I would take the friend because friendship lasts forever while boyfriends come and go.
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Ok im 13 gunna be 14 and i ahve a bf of ova 9 months and my mom doesnt let me do n e thing like evn if his mom iz there or n e thing i mean come on its like she iz tryn amake my life hell i have been goin to his foot-ball practices a lot lately like every night so i called my mom and asked her if i could go tonight and she sed NO!! so surprizing!! u kno cuz we r goin bra shoppin. WOW bundles of flippin fun!!! but n e wayz she was all like o yea when your sisters were your age they only gut to see there bf'z a couple times a week i was like come on man i go and watch him practice then i leave cuz i usually go wid my friend and i leave b 4 he iz dun so i juss watch him iz not like i get to talk to him and chill wid him and stuff like that!!! it makes me so........... MAD!!! i mean when my sista dannielle was 14 she went to her bf'z house when they had only been goin out for a month i mean come on i am almost 14 and i have been goin out wid my bf for ova 9 months so dont u think that when i turn 14 she should definatley let me go ova hiz house i mean hiz mom will be home n stuff man she makes me so mad some times!!!!! do u think she iz doin this on perpose??? and do u think it iz fair????? sry so long (link)
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If your the youngest you'r mom is just tryin to keep you her babygirl. Sooner or later she will let you go out more often just be cool about it for awhile. If you really want to see him talk to her about it. Be like mom i don't know why you think i'm not able to take care of myself. You'r only 14 so you shouldnt be thinkin about sex yet so it's really no big deal.
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I'm going to my boyfriend's house sometime before summer ends..we're both 13..my parents don't know I have a boyfriend because I'm not aloud to..but I'm nervous about going over there..I've never even gone over to a guys house when were just friends with just the two of us! Does anyone have any advice for me, what can make me less nervous? I mean hes never done anything besides hug a girl..which of course was me and I was his first girlfriend, we dated before this. So I don't have to worry about him doing anything I wouldn't want him to do. I mean..im sure we're gonna kiss bcuz he said he wanted to and he said he wanted me to be his first for everything since I already was for the girlfriend and the hug..but any advice? I'll be online for a while on secretAsquirrel..thats not my normal sn but its the one im gonna be using for the time im at my friends house. (link)
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I've been over to a lot of guys house's the past coupld of years, and it's really nothin special. Usually you just watch t.v or do whatever you usually do at your girl friends house. If you do plan on kissing or whatever make sure no one is around or can walk in on you too cause that will break the vibe, and he will be emberassed around you. Just play it cool like you've done this a million times.
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I'm a freshmen and during my first three weeks 3 guys have showed interest in me. I really like the personalities of all 3 but theyre all so different! Okay..guy #1...he is also a freshmen, he's hot, and hes a good christian and everything, but ive never seen him get really crazy and i do that sometimes and i like to not be the only one ya know lol....guy #2 hes a sophmore...hes funny and really nice to me..he doesnt make good grades though...he is susposed to be a junior..or maybe even a senior im not 100% sure, he rides my bus and hes not the hottest guy but hes DEFINATELY not ugly...hes kinda like eminem..he doesnt look ANYTHING like him but hes on the same level of hotness...guy #3...hes a senior..it would be really cool to go out w/ an upperclassmen..i could probably meet new upperclassmen that way as well..well, neways, i REALLY REALLY REALLY like his personality...hes a good guy..but he isnt very good looking...i know that sounds shallow and i dont mean it to be im just trying to give pros and cons here...hes not incredibly bad but hes got dark brown hair and glasses..hes not very "built" and he doesnt really have the same style as most of the people i hang out with...so if you were in my position what guy would you choose? can you give me your reasoning too? also, i was wondering if you all could put them in order like "this guy 1st, this 2nd, and this 3rd"...sorry this is so long!! you deserve a 5 just for reading this!! lol so i will definately rate you good! (link)
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Okay well to be totally honest guy #2 sounds like a loser if he smokes pott and doesn't make good grades. He may be cute and nice, but if your looking for somthin more than just a fling then i wouldn't pick him. guy #3, protection to me is a big deal. I like the feeling of knowing i'm safe while i'm out, so i prob wouldn't go with him. guy #1 sounds like your best bet, nice hott and smart. he might not be that exciting all the time, but you can change that. He could just be shy around you. And you wrote about him first so that has to meen he is important to you. So if this was my problem i would go with guy #1. Hope this helps.
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i feel like my friends at school might not be the right friends to be hanging out with but i dont know many other people there beacause i'm new. what should i do to find good friends? (link)
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It depends on what type of person you are. Jock, drama, skater, etc. If you dont like the friends you have now then look around to people you would like to be friends with and just go talk to them. Say hi and try to find somthin in common or someone to talk about. Don't be shy cause you will never meet anyone if you just sit on your behind. Hope this helps.
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Ok my bf duznt like my bestest friend and neither duz his friend and it iz hard cuz my friend talks shyt bout my bf then i oviously stick up for him then when my bf talks shyt bout my best friend i stick up for her and im sick of bbein stuck in the middle it aint a nice position to be in i mean im not gunna like not be friends wid her juss bcuz my bf duznt like her and im DEFINATLEY not gunna liek break up wid my bf cuz my best friend dont like him it juss really sux and all my friend duz iz complain bout me alwaiiz talkin bout himn shyt but wat duz she excpect im flippin IN LOVE wid him and i can NEVER get him off my mind!!!! so how can i get them to not like talk bout each otha n try n get along n shyt like dat??????? sry so long (link)
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There is oviosly a reason why your friend doesnt like your bf. Talk to her about it, get her to tell you the truth. I was in the same position last year, my friend was being mean to my bf. it turnes out that my boyfriend was really a jerk, but i didnt see that at the time cause i was or though i was in love with him. So i guess just talk to her and have her open up to you. Hope this helps
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ok there is this boy i like his name is justin. and we go to highschool together, and im kinda new and dont know anyone. but ok, so i like him, like i cant say yahhh im so madly inlove with him but i like him. and we are both freshmen, yesterday we were in this room and it was his class and my class and i was in there and he whispered something in his friends ear and then he pointed at my feet and goes them are some sweet shoes i like ur shoes, and i smiled and said thank u and then he walkd round the corner and so did i then after that he just like glanced at me like a few times. and then yesterday night my friend calld him and he said heyy did u see that girl with the pink n black on and he goes yeah and he goes well she likes u a lil, and he goes well i got a girl friend, and then my friend goes oh..and then he goes well mayb u should talk to her and then he goes yeah ill talk to her. and then today at lunch he has my 2nd lunch i seen him and he saw me, and he usually sits at a table with all his friends but for some odd reason his friends and him were all standin where i was standing and i was like..ok..and me n my friend were talkn and she knows i like him, and her friend overheard and went up to him and goes heyy and he goes hey and she goes can i talk to u then she pulled him aside and asked him if he had a girlfriend and he sai yeah and she goes how long have yall been going out and he said a year and a month, and she goes ohhh ok..and then he lookd at me n smiled and i smiled back...and so i was wondering how do iknow he likes me, and does he even like me, and if so what should i do...cuz i have his number and i have no clue what to do..or what to say! cuz im like really quite at school cuz i dont know anyone, but goosh how do i know...please help!
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I know it sounds hard, but i would call him. Just talk to him about school and different things you too have in common. when the right time comes I would ask him if he thinks of you as just a friend, cause at times you feel differntly about him.
Hope this helps.
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This question is gonna be long so moderators, please don't delete this question. I need to explain myself a little bit before I can explain my question. I'm a 14 year old girl, I'm 5'6, and I weigh 113 pounds. For all my life, I thought I was ugly or below average looking. I have never had a boyfriend but now I think guys are gonna start liking me and then I might get a boyfriend. Well lately, I've been getting great comments like I'm hot or really pretty. Today, I went to the beach with my mom and my sister because we had "to bond more" lol yeah right. When I was walking to the car to go home, a few African Americans and white guys hit on me lol. They said "Damn girl you're fine and you gots a nice ass and legs". After what happened today, I'm feeling more confident about what I look like. I'm going into the 8th grade soon and I think I might get a few boyfriends during the school year. I am done growing in height wise and I think my beauty phase is coming in lol because now people think I'm hot and stuff. Ok for my question, do you think I might get my first boyfriend this year because of what has and is happening to me? If this question isn't too difficult for you, I would really appreciate it if you can answer it. Thanks (link)
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I'm sure you will get a boyfriend this year. Just watch out for the type of guys that are "players". During school keep in touch with your friends during the uglier years because you know they are your true friends.
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