Hi my names vicki. I'm 19 years old. I can try and help help alot of people and give/offer good advice. Anything you want help on i will always try never turn away someone in need. xx
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im constantly wet down below im a female btw.i cum home from school and my knickers are soaked thru.im too embarresed to tell ne1 i know so plse help?is it bladder weakness?thanx (link)
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I suggest you go to the doctors and get it checked out. It could be thrush.
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i'm 14 and i think about sex kind of a lot because this one guy that i really really like wants to have sex w/ me but i don't really want to but then again i look at some of my friends that are 14 and they've lost their virginity already but i don't really want to have sex w/ this one guy but then i do..i'm confused and i don't know if i'm totally out of my mind for thinking about this but i don't want to have sex w/ him but then i do..is it bad to even think about it when i'm 14? (link)
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You need to be ready when you do it completly 100% you cant have any doubts so i wouldnt do it until u r ertain and not have any doubts. xx
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I lost my virginity and it doesnt seem like it was what i had actually wanted to happen.. people who arent virgins... can u tell me how it went for you cause im jus really curious now. none of my friends have lost their virginity yet so its kinda hard to talk to them about it. thanks! (link)
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Losing your virginity is never what its cracked up to be. xx
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Okay, well i need help with my room. I'm 13 by the way. Okay, so I'm not allowd to paint my walls, and I just got $6000, custommade furniture. But, the thing is, my walls look really empty...I need somthing coolin my room, im a guy. does anyone hae any ideas (link)
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Try making a collage of pictures that you've taken of you and your friends. It might be a bit girly but i found it works really well. xx
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Ok well yesterday i was playin tackle football with my friends well now i am covered in bruises and i am in alot of pain any suggestions to help me get rid of th pain dont say take advil or anything like that because i tried that like a hour ago and it didnt help so any suggestions to help other than that. Any advice will probably be appreciated (link)
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Try going to the doctors or getting a very very strong pain killer. xx
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my boyfriend said something really mean to me about the way i look earlier today on the phone. i hung up on him and he keeps calling back and i wont answer. he left a message saying "if you ever stop being mad at me call me, ill understand if you dont though" i want to call him back...what should i say? (link)
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Pick the phine up and try explaining to him that what he said hurt you in a bad way and that you want his reassurance that hes not going to say nasty things again.
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I was looking through my closet just to check on my dress that I'm gonna wear tonight to a party, and when I tried it on, I realised it had this pretty big and noticable tear right on the butt! and i dont know what to do! i dont have any other dress options in my closet, i can't leave the house to buy another one, and i absolutely canNOT wear this torn dress! what should i do? because i would rather skip the party than feel totally self-consious....HELP PLZ! ALL 5'S FOR GOOD ADVICE! (link)
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Instead of wearing a dress wear a nice little skirt with a nice casual top.
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I love my bf sooo much, but I have a big problem. My mum hates him and she used to argue with him big time but now she argues with him. I talked to her, now shes trying to be nice, for my sake but I can still she's annoyed and angry. But i really apreciate it
Anyway, I always got upset when he wouldn't come to my house. I always had to be at his house and it always took a lot out of me because that meant I wasn't home much, especially when we have been together for over a yr.
Now I think Im having problems with his family. They have always sed little things here and there which have made me feel unwelcome but I have never taken it to heart. But then a few days ago I think something just clicked inside me. I changed my hair style and they were like yea it looks 'different' and then they started to talk in another language and I understood what they were saying because my dad comes from that country. They weren't saying the nicest of things. They think I dont understand. Then I was playing with his sisters kid and she started criticising me to my bf in front of me about how I was playing with her. I wasnt even doing anything wrong. I was just drawing with her. My bf stuck up for me. Im not the loudest of ppl and they are quite loud. I just felt soo upset and so uncomfortable. I pretended I didnt hear but I felt myself go red.
Do you think I should talk to my bf about it? Now i feel how he feels when he comes to my house. He hates coming to my house. Now I feel the exact same way in his house. (link)
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Try taking to your b/f or try meeting in different places spend more time outdoors its great. xx
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Alright, I moved to this town 3 years ago.. and before i moved her. My bestfriend had just broken up with her bf [Ian] of 4 years, and the next day he started going out with her cousin for 2. I secretly liked him but kept in a secret because i didnt wanna ruin there relationship, but the summer before 9th grade they broke up. I KNEW THIS WAS MY CHANCE. So we started talking alot more, and i slept over his house.. like twice. & we started going to party's together, and basketball games. We were in love & everything was great, untill about 6 months had gone by and i felt like we were never going to go out. so i started talking to a new boy, we went out for like a month and broke up because he told everyone i was just a booty call. But now me and Ian are talking again, and hes all ive been thinking of and im just scared to get back into the relationship with him, But i cant stay away from him at the same time. I dont know if i should give up... Or try one more time
Thank you.
Kristina (link)
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Try again theres no point if you never try. If you dont try you'll regreat not trying. Its better to do it than regreat it. xx
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I'm taking the advice of those who answered my last question; I went through alot of stress dealing with problems wth one guy and a relationship that was almost official but flopped over and blew up in my face. Besides I'd like to have a boy friend.
Thing is there aren't lots of choices. I don't like asking guys straight up front to be with me, I'd rather pull them on gradually. Is this the right way to do it? And is it better to seek someone in your own social group, people you all ready know? I don't like any one romantically right now, but what kind of traits make a guy dateable, and how can you tell he might be made to like you over time? (link)
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I'd widen your serach first dont go with people that are already in your social group look around. Everyones different. There isnt a type that you look for because one person might have one quilaty you want and another have anotehr quality just go with the flow and things will soon happen. Hope its ood advice. xx
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hi, I am a 2nd year student of Nursing and right now I'm really confused if this is really the course for me.
I admit that the reason I shifted to nursing (I already took 2 years of BS Psychology) was because I was attracted to the big bucks awaiting in the states, Canada, etc.
But then, after hearing about how stressful nursing is, after being exposed to some nursing techniques and obligations, and just observing some nurses, I think it is rather a boring and stressful job, something that I don't think I would like to get myself into..
What should I do? I don't think my mom would allow me to shift again and all my relatives are so proud of me because they already think I will be a future nurse earning big bucks.... pls help! I don't know what to do...I realized that life is too short to be unhappy, stressed and live "for the money" (link)
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If its not what you want to do dont do it, youll end up regretting it and its not good for the patient to see a nurse that doesnt actually want to help. If you want to help people try helping people in different ways. If you dont want to be a nurse why dont you do something like police doctor or something like that. Then ur still helping people and earning big BUCKS. xx
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There's this kid that I used to like named Nick. He is one of those kids who lives to annoy you. In Language Arts my teacher always puts us close and he rides the same bus as me (he lives 2 min away). He's backed dwn on annoying everybody else, but he still annoys me. He's started sitting in the seat in front of me on the bus and talking to me.. but in the kind of "we're in 7th grade and i hate you and you hate me" kind of feud. He runned his fingers through my hair when he was passing by my seat and one of his friends told me that he liked me (a popular girl named sarah that i don't really know). He has a gf but he still asks me whats wrong when i seem tired and he taps me on the head with his book on the way into the classroom in homeroom. Does he like me? I think i like him again... what should i do? (link)
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It sounds as if this guy really does like you and by annoying you hes getting your attention. Try and talk to him. xx
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what is a quick way to earn money? besides ponning, stripping, or prostitution. 15/f i need money quick. I've already done work for my mom and her boyfriend, but they have run outta things for me to do. I have a good bit of money saved up, but i need hell of a lot more.. any suggestions would help. Thanks! (I'll rate high) (link)
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Why dont you set up a car wash service with a friend/(s) change for the car you wash advertise it in local shops and see if that works.
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okay, question. when a girl gets "wet" is it normal the next day for it to hurt down there?
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It shouldnt normally hurt. I'd leave it 2/3 days if its still hurting i'd go to the doctors.
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What are some really good exercises that get your heart pumping that you can do when it's kinda cold?? It's in the 20's or 30's. I want to stay in shape for fitness testing. thanx, i rate all 5's.
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Try dancing around the room for half an hour of so to your fave songs. I always have a dance in the morning just when i get it. It starts your day of to a refreshing start and its helpping me to contorl my weight as well. Hope this is good advice. xx
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i used to like this guy kyle and i dont anymore. im goin out with this guy named andrew and whenever i say anything about kyle even if its mean it seems to pissed andrew off... wat do i do? (link)
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Stop talking about kyle because you might end up losing andrew and it seems to me you dont want to lose andrew.
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wat does pop a cherry mean? (link)
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Losing your v darling.
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the guy i like with all my heart is mad at me and i dont noe why. i tryed talking to him but all i got was him cussing me out. then i tryed calling and trying to find out what i did wrong and all i got was him telling me not to be stupid and that i noe what i did when i have no idea what i did. i dont noe what to do?? i am sad bc i really like this guy and this is what i get. i have known him for a year now. plz help ?????? (link)
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Ask his mates if u still come up empty handed forget and move on. You got your whole life. xx
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Okay my boyfriend, Victor, and I have been going out for awhile now. When I started going out with him I knew he had the reputation as a "Player". But he told me that he wouldn't lie or cheat on me. So I went out with him. I grew attached to him. He called me last night and told me that he loves me and he thinks he did something really wrong. He told me that he didn't mean to do this.. he kissed another girl after homeroom. I yelled at him. But I am still with him. All my friends tell me that they think I should find someone else. Because once a cheater always a cheater! I don't know what to do. He promised me that he wouldn't do anything ever again with another girl. But I don't know if I can beleive him now. Please help me.. (link)
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I think you should do what you feel is right on the other hand i'd stay with him as he phoned you and told you, you didnt have to hear it from somebody else. At the end of the day sweetie its your choice.
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I like this guy i work with so much it hurts. He tells me all his personal stuff about his family and and his ex giirl fiend.We have a lot in common. He even gave me a mix CD. I give him free potato chips from the store that i work in. He always seems happy to see me. When he walks in he has a great big cool aid smile on his face. But there is a problem he never asked for my phone #. What's with that. I am way to shy to ask him for his. My question is does this guy like me? Or does he see me as just as a friend what am i doing wrong? how do i get him to take me seriously? (link)
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Try giving him your number the next time he comes in with a note saying fancing a drink or something but do it so he doesnt know you've dome it but make sure he cant drop it. after that just wait and see. Goodluck xx
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