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I asked two questions about uti's and stuff, well, I went to the doctors today, and they said I do have one, but she also said I might have herpes. I'm really freaking out. Is herpes like, treatable? Can or will it go away? She didn't tell me anything on that. I'm really scared. (link)
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Im sorry honey , but nothing can make herpies go away. There is a way to keep them from being or getting so bad but once you get herpies, your keeping them.
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14/f
this guy wants to ask me out and i want to say yes
but i know especially with his past girlfriends (by the way ive never had a bf B4) he likes to hold them and kiss them and everything. but i hate public displays of affection, any kind. how would i tell him, and if i did what if he doesnt listen? and questions something like
"want you dont want people to know were together"
like i guess i dont wanna make it up front in front of people, just for people to find out about it slowly so they dont relaly care and make it a big deal. know what i mean? (link)
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See , you just dont want that [ now ] . Thats totally fine . Tell him that you just need time to get use to everything like that boyfriend/girlfriend thing and you dont wanna take it too fast untill you feel confortable with showing PDA ya know .
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I really want to lose some weight over the summer. I'm thinking about starting a gym membership but I'm not sure if I'll be able to. So far now I'm stuck excercising by myself. I really wanna lose the fat on my stomach and thighs. And I wanna tone my butt, arms and calves. What're some good excercises for those particular areas? And how much should I do and how often? Thanks in advance! (link)
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A good way to stay active and tone EVERYTHING all at one time , is swimming . That works every muscle in your body .
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ok so i have been having sex with my bf(not for long at all like a week)
and we have been using protection and the condom hasn't broke or anything that would make me think that i could be pregnant.
but i should have my period by now and my boobs are huge(i have all the signs of my period but no blood?..does this mean that i could be??
i don't know if i'm just being paranoid or something could really be wrong?
is there anyway to tell if i am or am not without the anticipation of waiting to get my period?? (link)
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You are just paranoid
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This year I am captain of my jv cheer squad. I am a sophomore. For next year, I'm captain again on jv, and I will be one of the oldest. I'd say I had a pretty good year as captain, my team listened ok, but I feel like they didnt listen to me respectfully, like they didnt always seem to respect what I said. I know that comes with being captain..but anyways for next years squad, its a bunch of new girls idk, except for 2, so i want some advice on ways to make my new squad respect me and know that im captain, but that I AM going to be reasonable and not a huge b*tch like everyone things captains are. What Im really asking is basically just give me some advice for the new squad that starts next month..we are also going to camp this year for the first time, and my coach wont be there so shes really counting on me. but i want the girls to listen and respect me like they should. and im not one of the captains that think im all that, i do respect everyone elses opinions, i just want more respect myself. thanks!!!!! =D (link)
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You need to address your point as being captain to all of your team mates or squad. Let them know why it is important to you that you are captain.
You have to come across as to some one who can laugh and joke around with them , but also someone who takes their position seriously when needed. Get to know the girls and let them see where your coming from
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13/f
im am currently 172 pounds.
i desperatly need a dieting plan.
help help help help!
i need to lose a lot [50 pounds]
before may 23
please and thank you (link)
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Hate to burst your bubble , but there is no way you can lose that many pounds in that short time . There isnt any key dieting plan either . Dont eat after six , do lots of exercise & make your food portions smaller & drink water, water , water !
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does discharge freak a guy out? (link)
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hey ; im not a boy , but i asked my boyfriend. He said no because that would be like us saying sperm is nasty , when its natural
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ok, so.. im thirteen and i can get REALLY horny... i know about every sex term there is. can anyone help me on how to control my horniness? im a girl, if that helps. (link)
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I know its hard, but we or you cant help the way your body is feeling . You are right at that age for your body to be changing and hitting that stage . All you can do is just keep your self AWAY from situations that could end up making you regret .
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Okay so I have a boyfriend who recently hit his mom..Okay more like bruised it up.. and he might be heading for boot camp this summer. and he threw a plazma Big screen tv at his 12 yr, brother.
he says his brother was throwing a chair at him though. few months ago he got sent to his dads cause he did somehting wrong then him and his dad got in a fist fight.. he says he "Beat the s*** out of him" which isnt all that good sense he got searched, hand cuffed and taken down to the police station.. should i be worried? hes not abbusive right? just a temper? (link)
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Ofcourse you should be worried . I dont think you heard of the saying " If you want to know how a boy will treat you , look at the way he treats his mother". If he didnt have a problem doing this to his own mother , what makes you think you are any better for not getting hit. You really either need to help him , or break it off because no one needs to be in a abusive relationship.
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Hi I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and have been best friends with this girl for 4 and they kinda get along, but i mean they aren't best friends or anything. But my boyfriend one day made her really mad by saying that she cant come eat with us at prom and now she is mad at me because I can't change his mind. I dont know what to do about either of them! Please help!! (link)
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This is so commen when your trying to juggle friends with boyfriends. You have to talk to her about it , without your boyfriend there because that will Only build tension even more. If you want her to go , you put your foot down to your boyfriend and say look " there is no problem with her going to eat with us ". But if your trying to just have a nice time with just you and your boyfriend , your friend should understand that she cant come all the time . Also it could be the way he said it & why you going along with what he said is makin her think your choosing him over your bestfriend , trust me i know . Have a talk with both of them ,b ecause the last thing you want to do is haveing to choose .
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I'll start with the basics, 18 year old female with boyfriend. 2 nights ago my friend Eddy texted me. He was asking me for pictures of myself and i told him no because i have a boyfriend. he said he respected that. well, eddy knows that my boyfriend likes me more than i like him. it said that somewhere in the text messages. Well, last night i asked my boyfriend to hold my phone while a friend and i used the restroom. I assumed he wouldn't go through my phone just because i thought he trusted me. well i guess not because he went through it. he doesn't know that i found out he did this but the person with him told my friend, who told me. My question is, should i confront him about this? I have nothing to hide because i didn't send eddy pictures. (link)
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You have to look at it both ways , Im pretty sure he might feel hurt because it said " He likes you more than you like him " . A relationship is suppose to be 50/50 , not 75/25. If you do confront him, ask him why he did it because yall were in a trusting relationship and you were being faithful and told him you had a boyfriend , Just talk about it & get his opinion too .
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ohkay well i have this boyfriend and i have been with him for a year and i really do love and care for him but i ran into my middle school crush the other day and it turns out he is a major hottie. and i was up talking to him almost all night. i think i kinda like him.
i love my boyfriend now, but how do i know if i wouldnt love the other guy just as much?
what should i do? jeeez....
17-f (link)
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Its normal to think you like someone else , Because your use to the same things with your boyfriend & the normal way yall carry yalls relationship . Right now your probley thinking what if this happend with my middle school crush or what if that . Stay with your boyfriend , never leave the one you love for the one you like , because the one you like will leave you for the one they love
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Ok soo my sister said she did something with one of her firends I forgot what its called and I'm not going to ask her because she will kno I'm ging to tell my counselor I'm not telling on her I'm jus going to talk to my conselor about it and he's really cool he won't get her in trouble he's just going to have a talk with her and she really looks up to him and listens to him she won't with me though but anyways she got high with a bunch of her friends by her friend would smoke and inhale it and then blow it in her mouth as if they were kissing or something so she could get high faster...what's tht called? (link)
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I have heard of it as a " shot gun "
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okay im 14/f and my bf spent the night at my house, we made out big time. i sat on his lap facing him, and he went hard, i think he might have spermed but he doesn't know, i was wearing sweat pants and so was he so is their a posibility that im pregnat? (link)
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Girl , come on . Your not pregnate .
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ok my boyfriend and i had sex almost 2 weeks ago, it was 1 week after my period.. we didnt use a condom, im not saying i am pregnant, but ever since then, i have been feelings weird, like dizzy, and hungry a lot.. i have been pregnant before so i know the symptons of being pregnant, but they shouldnt come this early.. they shouldnt be happening right after, right? do you think maybe its all in my head, cause me being paranoid cause we didnt use a condom, that im just paranoid and thinking i may be pregnant.. or do you think there are chances i could actually be pregnant.. but the reason i think im not and just paranoid is because im feeling this way ((dizy, sick like wanting to throw up, hungry, and tired)) is because im being paranoid and making up the symptoms in my head, but they are not really there.. just in my head.. because would it be way to soon to be feeling that way? doesnt all that come around 1 1/2-2 months of being pregnant.. not days later..
what do you guys think? (link)
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You are just scared and its all in your head. I freaked my self out before because i started paying attention to every little thing that was wrong with me and stretching it out to making my self believe i was truley getting symptons of it. So just chill out and stay calm
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okay so i've had a boyfriend for about 2 and a half years and we've been dating on and off, but the longest we stay broken up for is about 2days. anyways a few months back we weren't really doing to good. we fought constantly over everything, and neither of us knew why. So we broke up and i went out with my friends and i was really mad at him, even though i broke up with him, so i hooked up (we only made out nothing too bad right?) with this kid i'd met before. I knew i wasn't over my ex yet though so the next day i told him what happened and how i realized i only wanted him. he was really mad at me and felt hurt and betrayed. however he said he would forgive me and so we got back together. He hasn't forgiven me yet, he is still really hurt by this he tells me how he feels "broken inside" and i want to make it better, he says that i basically cheated on him since we were only broken up for a short period of time. did i? and how can i make him forgive me and understand i'm sorry? please help me. thanks (link)
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Girl , i was in your EXACT position . The only thing that will work is time . It tore me from head to toe waiting to see if he even would forgive me & cheating made me realize that my boyfriend was the ONLY one for me , He never understood why i cheated to see i really needed him . But enough about mine . You just have to reasure him that your sorry , over and over and over again let him know you love him & your sorry over and over a million times , Be there for him because it does hurt to get cheated on but me and you will never know truley how it feels because we were the Ones doing it . As time goes by things will slowly get back to normal & it may take FOREVER but if its love it will work out .
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i gave my boyfriend a blowjob last night, and i currently have a healing cankersore.
i've actually never performed a blowjob, and he's never received one. i believe he had precum at the tip. we are not "sexually active" until yesterday.
i was wondering, what are the chances of me receiving anything ? (link)
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It is slim to none you will get anything if he has never messed with anyone before , and neither have you so its like -10 % you could catch anything .
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15/f
alright so me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex and well i'm a virgin and he's had sex with two other people and has had sex numerous times(he's a few years older then me). well, basically i'm really nervous and i have a few questions so if anyone can answer any of these i would appreciate it and yeah i'll rate:
1. is it normal to smell alittle down there? like a musty smell?
2. how bad does it really hurt the first time?
3. is it normal for me to have a gooey clear discharge down there and sometimes a creamy white one?
4. well i shave down there and i was wondering if anyone had tips fir getting the cleanest smoothest cut i guess?
thanks in advance : ) (link)
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I have all your Answers honey =)
1) Yes , it is normal because your legs are always together so it creates like a form of sweat . But always make sure you wash good
2) It depends on you , no girl is the same . Some times it hurts some times not at all , Let him finger you before you stretch out your muscles so it wont hurt as bad ( if it does )
3) And yes , its normal to have " goo " , its kind of like " skeet " but in girl form .
4) Make sure when you shave its a NEW blade on the razor & lather up with soap , every time you take a stroke to shave make sure there it soap on it
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ok so me and my boyfriend are both 16.. my last ex lived with me.. so im use to life like that and obviously having him in my bed and everything and spending all my time with him.. well we broke up and now im going out with this new guy its been 2 months and i really like him.. but the thing is his mom is a control freak and wont let me and him be alone together.. my parents dont have a problem with it.. but like we never hang out, outside school we only have like 2 times.. and we were with other people so were never alone and he gets his license in june.. and i want him to spend the night and so does he but.. how can we convince his mom to let him stay? what are some things we could say to her? .. we have even thought about sneaking around behind her back.. like telling her he was staying at a friends and then really having him come to my house but i live like 35mins from him and so thats not the easiest thing to do but my second question is how can we pull that off? what should we do??
thanks any advice is appreciated. (link)
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Oh lord , I have been through this plenty of times. Its going to take some time for his parents to get totally comfortable with their son dating you. The more time you spend at his house , with his family ... The more they will be able to see yall's connection and feel ok about yall being alone. Me and my boyfriend couldnt be alone for about 3-4 months. We Showed his parents that we were both responsible enough and could control what we did. Its all about trust , just give it some time . Going behind the parents back is not the case , one time can turn out to be a back fire.
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ok im having trouble shaving my vagaina. everytime i do it i end up bleeding from getting cut with the razor. i have no trouble going with the grain, but when i try to go the other way to make it extra smooth it gets cut and the next day it gets red and irritated and i think there are ingrown hairs. any advice? i want to be extra smooth and i dont want to wax either. (link)
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a really big part , is the razOr it self . Make sure you use a NEW blade and use soap .
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