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boyfriends parents.
ok so me and my boyfriend are both 16.. my last ex lived with me.. so im use to life like that and obviously having him in my bed and everything and spending all my time with him.. well we broke up and now im going out with this new guy its been 2 months and i really like him.. but the thing is his mom is a control freak and wont let me and him be alone together.. my parents dont have a problem with it.. but like we never hang out, outside school we only have like 2 times.. and we were with other people so were never alone and he gets his license in june.. and i want him to spend the night and so does he but.. how can we convince his mom to let him stay? what are some things we could say to her? .. we have even thought about sneaking around behind her back.. like telling her he was staying at a friends and then really having him come to my house but i live like 35mins from him and so thats not the easiest thing to do but my second question is how can we pull that off? what should we do??
thanks any advice is appreciated.
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well dont you think its kinda obserd for 16 year olds to stay the night with each other. it seems that if a parent let you do that it is irresponsible on their part and any good parent wouldnt let their kid do that! seriously if i was this kids parent i probably wouldnt let you be alone with him either bc you are obviously way to experienced and influencing on him!
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Oh lord , I have been through this plenty of times. Its going to take some time for his parents to get totally comfortable with their son dating you. The more time you spend at his house , with his family ... The more they will be able to see yall's connection and feel ok about yall being alone. Me and my boyfriend couldnt be alone for about 3-4 months. We Showed his parents that we were both responsible enough and could control what we did. Its all about trust , just give it some time . Going behind the parents back is not the case , one time can turn out to be a back fire.
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