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i was skimming through your column and you told this 16 year old boy that he was old enough to be a 12 year old girls father.......... how do you figure. there is only a 4 year difference and my parents are 5 yrs apart so............ (link)
i said that he wasnt old enough to go out wit a 12 year old girl that is wat i said


i have a horse and i really love her but shes getting to much for me to handle my mum says i shold sell her and choose another career and she wont let me have another horse if we sell this one and there doesn't seem to be anyone to help me (link)
well if yur horse is yung it is probably goin through wat todlers go through that one stage were they r to hard to handle so give it time and work with him or her.


luv vanna


My horse started limping yesterday and I dont know whats wrong with her. She is 23 years old but acts like a young horse. I cant afford to take her to the vet because Im only 13 and I already babysit to get her food. i even got her for free! I would really like to know what is wrong with her. (link)
she is old and probably hurt her foot so i dont care that u cant afford it u need to take the horse to a vet right away sry not tryin to be mean but that is the truth


okay this is prolly really dumb but im just wondering when you have sex is the guys penis supposed to go all the way into a gurls vagina? and when you firt have sex does it hurt alot?
as you can tell im not really experienced.

please help me asap
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u should talk to yur frends docter family


My boyfriend and i have been having sex for a while and i got drunk and gave him a blow job, now my face is red and itchy. what should i do? (link)
go strate to the docter duh lol well u can be very sick so go right away


I had sex about 6 days ago, and i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period sometime this week, or at the end of the month! WHat do i do if i dont have my period, i wouldnt kno what to do because i dont talk to my parents about this stuff..pleez help me!!! (link)
u need to go to the store and get a test that tells u if u r pregent or not or go talk to yur docter and make sure yur not sick but if u get a sore in yur mouth or on yur body that isnt painful that means u have sifiles. and if u dont get yur period that means u r pregnet and if u r goin to have sex again wit yur boy frend then u really need to talk to yur docter he or she will tell u bout the diseases u can get and take ma advice were a condom and take birth control but talk to yur docter before talkin birth control


luv vanna


Hey I need advice um..i like this 12 year old girl and im 16 should i go outwith her because she likes me i only know her bout 8 weeks already we barely talk when we talk we see at other at dances i love her so much i kiss her on the first time we meet (link)
okay im sry but u are discustin she is 12 and u are sixteen u are old inuf to be her father if u do anything wit her it is considered rape


Hi, I'm 14 years old. And I weigh around 115 pounds. I don't exactly have a flat stomach but I'm not fat at the same time. I'm 5'2 and I think that I should loose some weight. I've been trying not to eat so much (I don't anyway) But I get light headed when I don't eat. What I'm asking is, is 115 pounds for a 5'2" 14 year old too much to weigh? I also don't feel good about myself because I don't have a flat stomach. Is there anyway I can get a flat stomach? I used to have one when I danced and did gymnastics, but I've quit those so I don't do any excersie anymore and It's hard to keep in shape that way. Also my parent's don't own any excersie equitment and I don't go to the gym. Thanks..*Love Annoyomous* (link)
not at alllllllllllllll


ok recently i've been going out with my bestfriends brother. She doesnt' kno and if she did she would kick my ass! i don't kno wat to do. WE really like eathother. and she knows that he's all i think about! but she still doesn't get it.. im always feeling guilty! should i tell her or should i keep it a secret? i don't kno wat to do... i dont' wanna lose her as a friend and i don't wanna lose him as a bf. i dont' wanna be a bad friend but he really is all i thnk about and talk about she just doesn't understand.... but wen it comes to the same situations with her she doesn't care wat i think and she does her thing wiht them... if she can do it and doens't care wat i think then why can't she except wat i want?? (link)
if u keep it a secret it will get worseescalate into a bigger problem


ok i have a ?...when do u have ur period can u have sex? and if you do will blood be all over the place?? (link)
well if u have sex wit yur period without birth controle or a condomeu will get pregnet or a disease.


luv vanna


Last night.. i was with my boyfriend... and we were in the moment. I let him finger me and then we had sex. I am only 14 and it was my first time. I wasn't really ready, but I was just so much into the moment. What should I do?

He didn't pressure me into it. I just let him do it. He has asked me in the past if it would be alright for him to finger me. I told him I would let him when the time was right.

Do I talk to him about last night.. or should I just let it be and not let it happen again? (link)
talk to him u will know wat 2 say fallow yur heart

luv vanna


umm well i like my nextdoor naboor n well he came to spend the night w. my bro n we madeout n i gave him a handjob n well he weent to visit his mom in NY n well he is coming back in a week or soo n still rele like him m im not sure if he likes me n well i rele miss him n i want to makeout w. him n how do i tell him that i like him n i want to makeout w. him??
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just say hey well u member wat we did i really liked it and i really lyk u and i hope we can mabey go out if u lyk me and make out again. ther u go.



luv vanna


what is wrong with being a lesbian i mean everyone is always making a big deal what is it? (link)
well there is nuthin rong with it ppl just are afraid of sum diferent thats all ther is nuthing rong




luv vanna


i sweat a lot when ever i am working out. so in team practice it gets a little annoying and embarsing...what do i do? (link)
well were deoderent thats all


I have this friend. We aren't going out but he still took my virginity and we are always making out. The last time we made out he asked me if I wanted to try again. But he wants me to be on top. I am scared to because I dont know how and wut if I do it wrong. We didnt do it because I had to leave but I want to have sex with him again but I am scared that he would want me to be on top like he asked me last time. What should I do and if he does ask me... how di I do it? (link)
well u sound smart just do wat u did last time but u will just be on top it is exsacly the same


luv vanna


My friend has a heart condition that she hides from just about every one of her friends except for me. The problem is that she is kind of a party girl. She smokes about a pack a day, gets high about twice a week during the summer and once a week during the school year and she drinks excessively on a very frequent basis. I've really really considered doing a few things but I have encountered so many problems. The first thing is that she absolutely doesn't want to quit even though it could kill her. Her mind set is that if she doesnt live til the age when fun switches from getting messed up, playing football in the rain and then having sex with your latest boy toy, to sipping tea and knocking a tennis ball back and forth, then she's not missing out on too much. Unfortunately for me, I kind of agree with her about that. Anyways, the last time one of her friends talked to her about it she quit talking to him and now will rarely even answer the phone when he calls. Another problem is that she lives 1600 miles from me and I only spend 3 weeks a year with her this year, though im currently saving up $1200 to go see her and my buds there this winter, so I cant really talk to her face to face. I would tell her best friend but she made me absolutely promise not to mention her heart condition to him, so I'm not sure what to do. The rate she's going a person without her condition would die around 40, and with her mind set, I could accept that, but if she doesnt quit soon she could die before I even get to see her again, and to be honest, that scares me so horribly that it was all I could do to write this. Thank you for any advice you might have. (link)
well yur frend is being very stupid she might be depressed bout sum and u should talk to her befor she killes her self or tell her parents depending on her age. and bring her to counsiling or just for her own good call the cops that is all u can do for her at this point.


luv from vanna

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I've known this guy for six months, and we fight a lot. But in all honesty, i care about him more than i've ever cared about someone. I told him I never wanted to talk to him again after our last fight (and I really meant it), but it's hurt him a lot. I can't figure out if things would be better if we didn't talk, or kept being friends. (link)
well mabey u should go to cuple counseling or mabey talk it over and ask him what ticks him off or think about wat ticks u off all in all u should tell him how much u luv him and follow yur heart it will tell u wat is right


luv vanna



PS: if u have anymore ? u now were to find me and tell me how it works out.


waht are puppymills? becasue i read a sign in a petstore that sayd they dont buy from them :\ (link)
puppymills are were people breed alot of dogs and sell them to people and most of the time the dogs are sick cuz of inbreeding witch also means wen dogs mate with ther moms dads or sisiter


What does the term "in heat" mean when referring to animals? I just know it's somthing sexual.. (link)
it means that the animals are ready to mate or have sex to make babbies


Hi im Shelly and Im 14. I have had pets before but they have died. I did at one point have 6 rabbits but 2 we gave to my dads friends daughters and the rest have died. I don't know why thought. We look after them well and dont treat them bad we give them plenty of exercise too but still they died. I have 1 rabbit now and she is 2. I have wanted a dog for ages but my mum won't let me have one. She said its because she doesn't want a dog in the house, but she loves my uncles dog loads. I am starting to think the reason is because she doesn't trust me to have anymore pets. plz help me to change my mums mind.

Luv Shelly
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well yur pets might have died befor for cuz of sum in da ground or the water it could be contaminated with sum so have yur home and land checked and stand ^ to yur mom and say it isnt my fallt my pets died i took care of them very well and loved them very much did u every stop and think it is sum in our land or water i know i can take care of a dog i would love it very much and it isnt fare cuz all ma other pets have died and they could have all been sick and gave ther sickness to eachother so mom give me a chance please i want a best frend to give me uncondishnal luv ther u go.

luv vanna


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