ok here we go i have a lot of problems myself which is why i like to help people because to me its easier to help them to help me. my friends always come to me when they need help and i try my best to give as much help as i can.i may b only 14 but alot of poeple say im wise beyond my years.>GOD NVR GIVES YOU SOMETHING YOU CANT HANDLE
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My plan is to work, verry hard.
Im going to workout Before school with a toning video. (5:30am-6:00am)
Then right after school on the tredmil (3:00pm-3:30pm)
Then after my homework,and stuff..(around 6:00pm-7:00pm)
Im going to take all junk away from myself, and my eating. I will drink water, Im going to eat no snacks, and all healthy foods (But i will eat every meal)
Im deterimed, very.. But how much do you think i could loose, within maybe 2 weeks?
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with taht rate i think you are very likley to lose in the range of 5 to 10 pounds. im happy your eating every meal good luck i know you'll be able to do it
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i have a bunch of friends. i guess. i only hang out with a select few of them outside of school and most of my friends from soccer arent my friends anymore. i dont know why and it kinda hurts because i was extremley close with one girl on my team. then to add to that almost all my friends at my school are twofaced. the one that i noticed isnt, her mom HATES me for no reason. she doesnt let her daughter do anything. even if its for school. im sorry this is so long but i hate high school and i dont know what to do about my friends. i try to talk to my guy friends about it because they such better friends. i just if i hang out with them outside of school they think im flirting or its a date ; and if i tell them its not it gets weird and sometimes they dont take it the right way. im in such a rut and i have no one to talk to ( dont refer lifeline..not happening ) what do i do? (link)
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worst thing about girls is we can nvr be friends were always saying something , but guy friends do make better friends most guys are samrt enough to know when its not a date, so as long as you dont give him any signals he'll know .but dont give up girls totally once we hit collage or so i hear we get alot more mature and we suddenly all grow up .lol. good luck
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ok so i am 103lbs 5'4" but i have no muscle. i want to gain muscle and get rid of this roll i have at my stomach. its gross. you honestly wouldnt think at my weight i could have a pudgy tummy but it sits ontop of my jeans and it makes me feel bad. i normally skip breakfast, snack at lunch and just eat dinner. what could i do differently. ive been doing 50 sit ups a day for like 6 months and its not helping anything. what should i do? i want it gone fast in time for spring. help! (link)
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ok i have the perfect thing you can turn that "roll" as you call it in abbs try doing crunches if you dont know hat they are their like situp except you dont go up as far you kinds just lift your shoulders off the ground start at a 100 and work up to 5oo soon enough youll be in perfect shape , you could also try running, but dont skip any more meals
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does any know where i can figures of captain oats and princess sparkle from the O.C.??
Thanks in advance! (link)
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you can draw them or get clay and sculpt them.or you try googling it
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ok there is this guy i have talked about befor and well i asked him out for my friend because we both liked him and he told me to tell her he had a girlfriend so i did then for the next few weeks he keep flirting with me then he like missed a week of school then yesterday at school he was pokeing me in my sides and like we both help the spechel kids and he told me i was comeing with him to a class with the kids so i did then i left early to take one back and he got back and he hugged me witch is weird because i have never ever seen him hug some one what is up with him (link)
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well didnt she ask him out when she knew you liked him , and if she didnt know maybe you should tell her how you feel about himyou shouldnt keep serects from your best friends ,ask her what she would do if he asked you out
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i used to have a lot of friends and allt he guys liked me. but this year we went to the new school and everyone hates me and talks about me and i pretty much have no freinds and i didnt even do anything, i even lost my best freind and people only talk to me when certian people are around. It sucks so much what should i do. (link)
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i know you want to run away dont you cant always run away from your problems . try to be how you used to be before you went to that school , show everybody taht you arent going anywhere people will learn to respect you alot more .also dont let people talk about you if they start to stop them say something like grow up and stop being so messy and if you feel you cant do this at least try tomake friends wit though you would have never been friends with , it always turns out they become your best friends
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sry if this is long :/ ill rate
k, so me and this girl lex were bffs since 2nd grade (were in 7th grade now). last summer this girl shayla moved in across the street. we were immediatly friends. when school started the 3 of us were all friends and did stuff together all the time. but then near the end of 6th grade and this past summer, they started always doing stuff without me all the time and lying to me. and then in sept, shayla imed me and was like, "you're sucha loser i hate you dont talk to me" so i figured lex would back me up, but it turns out she was with her the whole time, going along with it.(shayla told lex i talked about her all the time, which was a COMPLETE lie) soo now im not friends with them. they're really popular this year and best friends and have all their popular friends. but lex told my sister she misses me and wants to be friends again cuz shayla admitted to her that she was lyin the whole time about me talking about her and feels bad. and i miss her too and wanna be friends but its soo complicated because they're with their new popular friends now and i know that if we were friends again it wouldnt be the same. but still, i miss her and get really sad when i think about all the mems...i mean, come on, we were bffs for 6 years. well i have no idea what to do, so plzz help ! thanks (link)
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you just described my friends i want you to know to no matter how bad you feel theirs people out their going through the same thing . i know how bad you wish you could be friends with her but like you said it will never be the same maybe even though you miss her you could slowly become friends tell her taht you dont want yalls friendship to end how it did before
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sorry if its long - ill rate 5s ?
k so theres this girl that ill call janet well .. during the summer i invited her and my other friend "lisa" down to my beach house and they came. so recently she has been saying to me like ohooh i got a beach house i cant wait to invite you down this summer! maybe i can invite you and lisa down at the same timee and stuff .. and like she mentioned it to me a lot. so then i just found out bc i saw this note she asked me to pass to her friend .. i saw a glimpse of it i didnt read the whole thing but it said that for her party she was gonna invite her and all these others girls and lisa down to her beach house. but my name wasn't on it. idont know hwen they are going but this makes me feel like crap. what should i do? i mean i know i cant like say anything to her because that would be mean but .. idk. why would she do this ? i thinks she uses me bc in some classes she alwyas begs me to be her partner and be in her group and stuff but then like outside and in this case .. she doesnt even think of me. it makes me feel really bad so .. what should i do?
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dont even sweat it that girl aint worth your time dont be in her group either let her know your hanging out with somebody already chances are shes trying to make you mad and to see you crumble whatever you dont your strong so show her how strong you are and how much you dont need her . i think shes going to be alot nicer in the end
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ill rate 5's - sry if this is long.
ok so .. i am not the skinniest person in the world but i am on this diet and i am loosing weight. i've already lost 10 pounds and im continuing so by summer i should be able to look good in a bathing suit.
heres my problem. last summer i wasnt really comfortable in my bathing suit. i only wore a bikini becuase everyone else did and i thought people would idk if i didnt so its hard to explain.. so ithink my friends talked about mebehind my back and stuff wehn i wore one because they are like skinny as anything and theyve never had problems with weight.
i dontknow what to do.. i mean i know i am trying to get skinny by summer so i will look good. but why would my friends do this? andhow do i talk to them about it beca use i dont want to just be like so you think i look bad in a bathing suit...
ill rate fvies thanks soo omuch (link)
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first thing how do you know your friends talked about ? is it a gut feeling if it is i totally understand ask them about last summer say something like remember last summer and bring up cute bathin suites and how they looked. then decide if you trust to be their friends or not
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my name is Rachel and iam a 16 year old girl from georgia and my mom's making me break up with my boyfriend Donnie just becouse she says since he's 18 he's to old for me and becouse he smokes,but I still have feelings for him what should I do? (link)
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my friends mom told her to break up with her boyfirend but she didnt she just kinda kept ot more of a serect . sometimes its ok to have secerts but if you want to be totally out in the open tell your mom how you feel make her understand why you like him.
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I like this guy... and he confuses the hell outta me. yeah. Last week we chilled monday night tuesday night and wednesday night. All three of those nights it was me and him fliritng back and forth and i was always sitting with him and when he said goodbye he would be like can i callyou tomororow and give me a kiss on my cheeks and my lips. Then he wouldnt call the next day he would make my other guy freinds call. Then other days if we hang out he'd act all differnt. Another problem is my friend joe likes me alot well idk if he got over my yet but im pretty sure he still likes me. The kidi like told me last wekek how much my friend joe likes me and asked me why i wouldnt consider joe and if i would ever see me and him together. HE also told how joe talks about me 24/7 and why he thinks that. He responded sayin " well i understand why. Your goodlooking, you have a good personality, your nice, you're everything." When he told me that i wanted to flip I just like.. LIKE LIKE him ALOT. I dont think he realizes how much. I think hes with some girl but honestly i dont think he likes her from the way he was acting with me. I really cant read him hes so confusing. what do you think? how can i tell if this kid likes me like i like him and wants to get more involved or is just scared of me? or doesnt want to because joe likes me? what do you think? please give me your opinion
thanx xoxoxoo
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well joe and him might be friends so he may be a little reluctant and first but if he has feelings for you hell go with you . honestly i think you should tell you like him mayb you know if he brings up joe work in how you dont like joe because you like someone else and say his name see how reacts .
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I like this guy... and he likes me. yeah. makes sense. were like... together- but I just like.. LIKE LIKE him, but he's obsessed with me. He likes me more than i like him. is that bad? or.. well. he kinda just wants to get more involved right now more than i do. like... well. im just fine being simply 'together'. he wants to get into all of the LOVE life kind of deal. how do i deal with it? (link)
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gosh i so know how you feel i was in the same thing about a week ago. so im tell you how i dealed with it.well first i started to slowly distance myself but it felt like he was just getting clingier so i asked one of my friends to not make it obivious say something like shes not into clingness or right now she doesnt want a serious relationship just for future reference. . mayb this will help but if it doesnt i dont know what else to say .good luck.
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im 16/m. i'm pretty skinny, 155-160 and 5'11-6'0. the past three days ive been feeling sick after every meal. all year long ive been having 2 bagles and apple juice for breakfast. that usually lasts until 6th period, where i have another 40 minutes until lunch time, then im hungry. ive noticed that when i get to lunch, im not hungry. in fact i feel full or that i ate not too long ago. i eat breakfast at 7.40 btw. so i decided to get the foods i usually get, but neither yesterday or today i was able to finish it, and when i tried to i felt sick afterwards for another hour. this happens after dinner too, when usually im starving by dinner time, have eaten less than usual, but feel too full to even finish. is something wrong with me? what should i do? i asked my friend about it and he said it could be just acid buildup in my stomach. if thats the case, is there something i can take for that or no? thanks. (link)
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opps im sooo sry
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Hey, im a 13/f and i was wondering if there were any home-made remidies (sp) for getting rid of pimples and blackheads? If you could help that would be great, thx! And i rate =] (link)
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one time somebody told to try lime ive never tried myself but i heard from a couple og friends it really works
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i was wondering if you guys know where i can get pussycat doll song- dont cha but without the artist saying the words to it like karaoke the only singer that oculd mention suff in the song would be the rapper in it and the background music and their voicese just not the chorus etc
please tell me where to get it cause i dont want to buy the whole song and i need to have it on a cd for a boom box/tape/etc
thanks i will rate 5s
ps please dont tell me to go to limewire, kazza, etc (link)
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well try looking trough websites like xanga , mayspace and search music.
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ok i am 13/f and i like my neighbor who is 16/m and well we are really good friends and everything i really really like him and i tried to not think about him cause if i tell him and he isn't into it then we probably won't be very good friends he is very supporting he went to all my baseball games and basketball and we hang out like evry day i have tried flirting with him but i get mixed messages i dono wat to do should i tell him how i feel or should i just keep my feelings to myself please help me i am so confused i WILL rate really high (link)
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this is a big deal and you dont want o make a wrong decision , it really depends on how long youve known each other its been about a year ,trying using a friend as a example(ex: one of my friends likes this boy who is 16 or 17 dont make it obivious)something like atht if you like his answer tell him about a day or two later . but if you dont well try again in the next tree months or two dont give it.
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I babysit my niece and nephew once a week and when I do they won't listen to a word I say what do I do? (link)
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try being forceful dont let them run all over you, let them know your in charge and thats how its going to stay
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my neck gets soo dirty that i ahve to scrub and scrub and my necks skin is all of and its red!!!!!i dont kno what it is can someone help me see what i ahve to do to get it not to do that !cause i will not put my hair in a pony tail cause everyone will see my discusting neck HOW DO I MAKE IT STOP
ill rate all 5's for any sigh of help !!!! (link)
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maybe try using a cleansing soap you know like you would use for pimples. if it just bothers you mayb you should see a doctor.
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Ok i need help. Every quarter of shcool i have to read a book and write a paragraph about an element of the book. This quarter i chose to read "That was Then, This is now." by S.E. Hinton. I need to write a paragraph on the climax. I was wondering if anyone read it if they could tell me what the climax is cause i'm a little confused. Thanx (link)
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ive never read it but why dont you just look up a summary for it on google . i dont know if you tried this but just an ideal just in case.
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While i was helping my guy friend from work at work he said i was a distraction for him, what does that mean? (link)
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my best guess is that he likes he but please dont jump to conclusions why dont you causally bring it up in a convo and ask him?
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