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left out =[ pls help me ;(
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k so theres this girl that ill call janet well .. during the summer i invited her and my other friend "lisa" down to my beach house and they came. so recently she has been saying to me like ohooh i got a beach house i cant wait to invite you down this summer! maybe i can invite you and lisa down at the same timee and stuff .. and like she mentioned it to me a lot. so then i just found out bc i saw this note she asked me to pass to her friend .. i saw a glimpse of it i didnt read the whole thing but it said that for her party she was gonna invite her and all these others girls and lisa down to her beach house. but my name wasn't on it. idont know hwen they are going but this makes me feel like crap. what should i do? i mean i know i cant like say anything to her because that would be mean but .. idk. why would she do this ? i thinks she uses me bc in some classes she alwyas begs me to be her partner and be in her group and stuff but then like outside and in this case .. she doesnt even think of me. it makes me feel really bad so .. what should i do?
thank you so much<3
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well at this moment i am kind of going through the same thing... And yes it is somethign that nobody wants but I have figgured that i have other friends that dont include "her", So I try not to talk about her or even think about her and I have found other friends to hang out with and I am now living a good life!
-BeccaR0o32
P.S.= you,ll get through it,just make the best of it!
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Dear Left Out,
You shouldn't let her make you feel bad and i think you should say something to her and not let her use you like that. If you do not confront her then she will continue to make you feel bad. You could invite other friends to your beach house and have a good time without Janet. Maybe she isn't really your friend if she doesn't think of you or maybe she just forgot to add your name to the list but either way you should confront her. Good Luck!
Alli
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dont even sweat it that girl aint worth your time dont be in her group either let her know your hanging out with somebody already chances are shes trying to make you mad and to see you crumble whatever you dont your strong so show her how strong you are and how much you dont need her . i think shes going to be alot nicer in the end
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Well I think that you should just straight up ask her. If you dont want to do that tho hint to her that you want to know. You could be like so are you ever going to do anything with friends at your beach house or something. That might sound desperate. So id go with my 1st option that i gave you. Cait ♥
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