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sorry this question is going to sound weird but when you have sex what do you do during it? like does he just put it up there and you just both lie there while its happeneing or are u kissing during it and stuff? it just seems awkward. (link)
it really depends what position your in when your having sex in some positions you are able to kiss eachother still but in some its nearly impossibleand

depending upon how rough the sex is you might not even be able to kiss during intercourse

but i wouldnt worry about it being awkwaed because when it happens your just so wrapped up in the moment its almost impossible for it to be awkward


Have you ever gone out with someone (boyfriend/girlfriend wise) just for the hell of it? I know a lot of people who simply go out with people even though they don't like them; they just like the idea of being liked.

Is this common?
It seems so weird and pointless to me.

Thanks. (link)
yes it is very common and also very pointless

when your younger alot of kids think that they HAVE to have a boyfriend/girlfriend so they have someone who cares about them and makes them feel important so they date the first person who comes along

and in having this meaningless relationship with someone they really dont care about they dont get what they actually wanted which kinda creates a cycle

but over time we realise its not just about having a boyfriend/girlfriend but having one that you really care about and who cares about you


is it wrong for me to mastorbate im only 14 and i want to get a vibrator but i dont know how to with out my mom knowing help me!

love,
confused =/ (link)
that dave guy is an idiot that gravity stuff is complete bull and dont believe it but i do think masturbaton is okay and if you dont want your mom to know have a friend 16 years of age or older buy one for you


the length of 2 sides of a triangle are 6 and 3. the length of the third side may be? (link)
it deprends what kind of triangle it is if its a right triangle the two shorts sides squared than added together must equal the square root of the hypotenuse (the largest side) and if it is not a right triangle you have to use soh-cah-toa


I know you girls love guys and...

I know their has been this myth going around that asian guys can't get white girls..which is not true,since I'm asian and have a white gf,but I want to know what you girls think

Question1: Would you date an asian guy? considering he has good looks and personality

Question2:Have you ever liked an asian guy?

Question3:Would you marry an asian guy?

Question4:Where does the asian guy stand among the whites,latinos and blacks?Your preference?
Example:Black>White>etc.etc

thank you (link)
i would deffiently date an asian guy and perhaps even marry him as long as the guy treats me right it really dosent matter what race he is although my prefference is black white asian latino but reguardless if your a good guy reguardless of race you deffinetly have a good chance


i lost my virginity, i.e had sex for the first time but i didn't bleed(not even a lil bit). is there something wrong with me? am i alone? im really freaking out here.thanks. (link)
no thats actually completely normal alot of girls have popped their cherry during excercise or just by putting a tampon in so dont worry hun your fine


Does anyone know if it is safe to go tanning while being pregnant? I am not positive and I do not want to hurt my baby. Thanks in advance. (link)
i have heard that it is deffinetly not a good idea along with dying your hair has also proved harmful


is there anything someone needs to know how to be preppy, u know like if your emo you cut yourself, adn if your goth you dress in black, if youre redneck you where boots and huge belt buckles....etc.........whats the thing with the preps.......what makes a prep a prep?!? (link)
i guess techinically what makes a prep is the clothes they wear brands like hollister and abercrombie


I am a first time user of tampons. I actually feel the tampon in me but it isn't really uncomfortable. And I know you are not supposed to feel it in you. Do I have to actually insert the whole tube into my vagina?? It seems like it would be quite painful.
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no your not supposed to leave the whole tube in. my advice for you is read the directions on the box they're actually pretty helpful. it also helps if you insert it at an angle


Ok.
I was dating this guy and i REALLY REALLY liked him. He was 4 years older than me and I liked him more than any other guy ive dated. Well, he entered the army so we broke up because he didnt think it was fair if I dated him because he would never be there for me. But when he left to go to the basic training we continued to write to each other and talked about getting back together. However, one day i check my myspace to see him say that there is a guy friend of his at basics and that he is interested in me. He also said that this guy was inexperienced and was country (which i like). I cant tell if he is just testing me or if he is trying to get me to move on. Please help me out with this!!!
He comes home on December 13th and i need to have my mind made up what im going to do regaurdless of the situation...
thanks so much!!
XOXO
madison
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it kind of sounds like he is kidding. unless he has hinted to the fact of you moving on i dont think he actually wants you to see this other guy. my advice is just wait and see how things go when he comes home and if he seems stand offish maybe you should just try and move on.

good luck
hope i helped


is it bad to go out with someone else if you like the other guy better? this guy A asked me out and i was kind of pressured so i said yes to him even though i like this guy B better i like guy A but then i like guy B more but i said yes to the guy A when he asked me out and i made the relationship secret because of my parents but on the other hand so guy B wont know that im going out with guy A . guy A asked me if he could flirt with other girls and i said "yes you could" and i asked him if i could and he said yes too i let him flirt with other girls because i wanted to flirt with guy B is this all bad...? (link)
well yea it is kind of bad because you bothe seem like your in a relationship just to be in a relationship and not that you really like eachother so if you dont see a future with him dont waste your time and instead go for the guy you really have feelings for

"never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love"


i have a friend in italy, and he said that he was 6 feet tall....but in know that they use a different math ststem than us...is their any webstie that can help me convert that into the system that we use? so i can know how tall he is in america?

thanks (link)
he already converted it for you

feet inches and miles are all in the US system
centimeters meters and killometers are metric


like im a black girl but i tend to like a lot of white people too.. usually guys with longish brown hair and blue eyes. is that weird? like i dunno.. I like black guys too but a lot of them are dicks, especially here in america. people say its okay to like.. like or date people of different colors.. but idk.. like what my parents would think of that since i've never talked to them about it.. and theres never been like biracial people in our family since they were born in africa and all their relatives lived there as well. we're the new generation that gets to live in the u.s. um.. so any thoughts? its not really a question or maybe it is but im kinda unsure.. like cause im not limited to only liking black guys and i like other guys too, especially since theres a lot more white guys at my school than black. and well other races too (link)
no thats not weird at all go for the kind of guy your attracted to and who treats you well it really dosent matter what race they are and as far as your family that really dosent matter either yes you might want to mave your families approval but as long as they see your happy and that he is good to you they cant be too upset about it

good luck


My dad`s been saying since he decided he was going to divorce my mom as soon as I graduated that we are poor. First of all, we live in one of the most expensive neighborhood to live in out of the whole county so that`s not true. Plus, my dad`s job has an extremely high payment. Half of the time, he`s yelling about money or cussing at us or telling us how stupid we are. The other half of the time, he`s not even home or is off with something with his work somewhere. He won`t EVER buy me ANYTHING rather I really need it or not. Anytime I want something, I have to take money out of MY savings account to get it. I was thinking earlier and I finally understand why he`s freaking out about how we supposedly have no money. In one year, the place where my dad works is moving to Indiana or Louisiana or something. Apparently, he thinks it`s an easy way for him & my mom to separate? Anyways, knowing how selfish he is, he`s not going to even bother looking for a closer job & he has his mind set on leaving us to go live in Indiana. Well, obviously he would need a house, so he`s been putting thousands away each month that my family needs for things & cutting us short on everything, which is extremely unfair to all of us. He won`t admit it, but I know that`s he`s putting all of that money away so that he can afford a house when he leaves. I don`t understand it though. He told us all a few months ago that he`s leaving us & we`ll have to sell the house & while he`s off in Indiana somewhere, we`ll have to live in a tent here. But, how can someone do that? I mean, how can he lie about it & how can he just treat us like this? My mom has no job because she`s been devoted to us all these years, so I don`t know what`s going to happen. Is there some legal thing that says he HAS to send us money or something to take care of us when he leaves? (link)
when i divorce happens you have to have equatable division of assets and that includes money so unless you mom signed a pre nuptual agreement you and your mom will recieve some money i hope i helped


i have a gorgeousss black silk dress, but its a few inches too small. if i bring it to a tailor, could they possibly add onto it to make it bigger? (link)
if theyre is enough room they can rehem the dress to give you a couple moe inches talk to your tailor before hand and find out how much room of adjustment you have


How old should i be to have it (link)
whenever you ready and mature enough to handle the consequences and also when you find someone you really trust im not saying you HAVE to wait till marriage just find find someone who cares about you


my boyfriend wants to finger me but ive never been fingered before and i know him well so im sure he will be rough .. when he starts to make it hurt what should i say to make him slow down a bit?

and please dont tell me not to do it- or talk to him before. thanks! (link)
dont be too worried about it you'll be fine. and if he does end up getting a little rough i find it best to kind of slow him down with your hand he'll get the hint. good luck


i met a guy one night and we have talked since. we are really sexually active but havent quite had actaul sex yet but we always talk about it. but everytime we see each other all we do is like everything with each other but i told him im not sure about sex yet- idk what i should do cause i really like him and like playing around with him but i know if i have sex with him then i will probably get emotionally attached to him. so what should i do? and is what im doing totally sluttish since we're not dating or anything and i like still make out with other guys? (link)
i personally dont think there is anyrhing wrong with what your doing. its ok to have a physical connection with someone. i also think that you dont sound ready to have sex with him and in not doing so you feel like you have more control. so i say keep having fun and dont do anything that your not completely comfortable with


So lets say Bob is in my chemistry class. me and bob sit next to each other, he is a year younger than i am. he has gone to school with me for a while, but we never really talked. So bob will like kick me, hit me with his id string, hit me when im trying to take notes, he will try and knock my stuff (books and papers) off my desk onto the floor, he always takes my papers but gives them back after, and he was going on about how many things he has (like a boat and a car), and sometimes hes not that annoying. Today he kept stabbing me with a pen, and he asked me for my number and was like yeah we can text each other all the time. and he wrote his name on my notebook. like the front. so would you say that bob likes me? or is just friendly/annoying?
thnx in advance. (link)
this boy sounds really immature but i would say that he does like you and all the little things he does to mess with you is just his way of getting your attention


I have region choir auditions in the morning - so what are some good things I can eat/drink tomorrow morning before I sing that will help my voice, and what are things I need to avoid???

Thanks!!! (link)
well one of my friends is a professional singer and i hear that salty food alctually helps before shows and lots of fluids ... good luck




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