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Love is a BATTLEFIELD....... SERIOUSLY!


Question Posted Saturday December 1 2007, 9:19 pm

Ok.
I was dating this guy and i REALLY REALLY liked him. He was 4 years older than me and I liked him more than any other guy ive dated. Well, he entered the army so we broke up because he didnt think it was fair if I dated him because he would never be there for me. But when he left to go to the basic training we continued to write to each other and talked about getting back together. However, one day i check my myspace to see him say that there is a guy friend of his at basics and that he is interested in me. He also said that this guy was inexperienced and was country (which i like). I cant tell if he is just testing me or if he is trying to get me to move on. Please help me out with this!!!
He comes home on December 13th and i need to have my mind made up what im going to do regaurdless of the situation...
thanks so much!!
XOXO
madison


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tttina answered Sunday December 2 2007, 1:05 am:
it kind of sounds like he is kidding. unless he has hinted to the fact of you moving on i dont think he actually wants you to see this other guy. my advice is just wait and see how things go when he comes home and if he seems stand offish maybe you should just try and move on.

good luck
hope i helped

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VIOLETshroom answered Saturday December 1 2007, 7:27 pm:
hello darling,
you can never know. since you have never met "this guy." then you never know if they are lying to you or not. you have to trust the guy you dated because he shouldnt even think of lying to you. go with your gut.
-violet shroom

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Brandi_S answered Saturday December 1 2007, 3:01 pm:
You need to decide if you want to try this new guy out, or if you want to stay with the guy that you REALLY REALLY like.

When he comes home, you should ask him what he meant by that- trying to hook you up with some other guy. It could be that HE wants to move on, but you won't know that unless you ask him to be truthful with you about it.

ygs-29/f

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