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Question Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 7:55 pm

sorry this question is going to sound weird but when you have sex what do you do during it? like does he just put it up there and you just both lie there while its happeneing or are u kissing during it and stuff? it just seems awkward.

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BellaItaliana166 answered Saturday December 8 2007, 12:32 pm:
If it seems awkward to you, you are NOT ready to have sex. The person you lose your virginity to should be someone special...maybe even someone you can see yourself with for the rest of your life. Do whatever you feel like doing and dont think about it...just go with the moment. Good luck with everything!

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CaliDaniels answered Thursday December 6 2007, 7:00 pm:
This really depends on the people. If you are really close with this person, it shouldn't be awkward at all... You should feel comfortable with them. Some people kiss during intercourse, and some people don't. Some guys may kiss your neck. It can also depend on what position you're in.
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D2junkie answered Thursday December 6 2007, 1:28 am:
If you haven't had it, please don't lose your virginity over it.

I'm a guy. And supposedly all we do is run around screwing girls over. Maybe that's true with some guys, but frankly that's a generalization.

It can be soft, it can be rough. I'm not entirely sure about particulars; I've never done it before. But I know enough to know this - it is an intensely pleasurable experience. I would say save it for when you're married, and only for the person you're married to. Unfortunately that's frowned upon in these parts, because we're strange conservative Christian extremists. Not necessarily. To be able to have a great sex life, it's absolutely essential to having a guy who cares about you and wants you to have all of him. It's that kind of care that allows you to have this intimate affair completely guitless and happy. He doesn't just "put it up there and you both just lie there," a man becomes a part of you at that point, putting his full trust in you and you in him. That's why I encourage you to put it for the guy you want to spend your life with - so he knows that you're all his. It's extremely intimate and it will feel incredibly good to be in each others' arms, kissing during the act, touching, etc. But I can't say it will be much fun when you've got a baby on the way if you are NOT married. It's just risky.

That said, it's amazing. But I'm waiting so I can show my girl that I'm hers, personally. :-D

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icey0990 answered Wednesday December 5 2007, 11:48 pm:
hey dont worry, it wont be awkward because it feels so amazing..and especially if its with the right guy who cares about you and you care a bout him. while your having sex he doesnt just push it up in there..there can be kissing involved,touching, holding one another..but in some positions it isnt possible to be so intimate, but it feels amazing so as long as you are comfortable with each other, it wont be awkward.

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tttina answered Wednesday December 5 2007, 11:35 pm:
it really depends what position your in when your having sex in some positions you are able to kiss eachother still but in some its nearly impossibleand

depending upon how rough the sex is you might not even be able to kiss during intercourse

but i wouldnt worry about it being awkwaed because when it happens your just so wrapped up in the moment its almost impossible for it to be awkward

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