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I want my sweet sixteen party to be huge. I know who I want to come and who I dont. I know when and where I want it. I know I want a huge band like Panic!At The Disco or Kanye West. One problem I need a theme for my party!! Help me and I will rate high. Remember Good Girls always get there way!
try a tropical theme (always hot)or an 80's theme also hot or you can go way back to the pink poodle skirt days tell me how that works out for you babe o and you are right good girls always do get there way.
hey umm i smoked weed the other night nd i threw up n my heart was racing . . . is that normal?
No its not normal to throw up but it is normal for your heart to race to me it sux and i dont do it becaus it can mess you up. Your performance in school, sports and other activities will suffer when you smoke it problems with memory and learning;
distorted perception sights, sounds, time, touch trouble with thinking and problem solving, loss of coordination and increased heart rate, anxiety, panic attacks. this is all stuff that happens when you smoke it
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Can anyone tell me a little bit about all the religions they know and what they are about? I don't know which to pursue. Thank you very much. I am agnostic as of now. I thought I was atheist. I'm not so sure anymore.
Well I am Christian and most people think that we are all goody goody and don’t sin but they are wrong. We try to love as much as we can and I try and love Jesus as much as I can but it is still hard. But I believe if some one were to ask me if I believed and they had a gun to my head I would still say yes. And I don’t really care what any one thinks of me. The reason why I am telling you about me are because my faith is what makes the religion so great and powerful. Because I can still for give people that harm me. And I can talk to Jesus when I need advice. Sometimes I will be thinking about something that is bothering me and god will settle my heart by telling me through someone ells like my dad or mom or a good friend. Like I will be thinking and the phone will ring. And they will tell me that they miss me or want to see me that’s how god works he is so amazing he can help people. But some people wonder why god lets people suffer to understand fully is impossible for me but I am told that with out suffer there is no compassion it is still hard to comprehend I no but I take Jesus as he is. this is pretty much what they average Christian thinks and feels I am not good at explaining what happened to god and who he is but you should try going to a Baptist church for a week to check it out you seem like a pretty opened minded person thanks for asking this question please get back to me you don’t have to rate me just tell me what you think about it. To me telling about something I love dose not come at any cost I like doing it that’s why I don’t care if you rate me.
How often should you change your pads?
I get my period heaviest the first two days.
Are tampons comfortable? I'm petite.. and I dance so I think using a pad would be uncomfortable while I'm dancing..
Should I use a tampon when I'm dancing? OR can I just use a pad?
Can you swim with a pad?
well no you cant use a pad to swim only tampons and you should change your pad when ever you feel you need to really it depends on how heavy your flow is and in dancing you can use a pad or a tampon tampons are kind of hurtful the first month but it gets much easer.
I know this is sorta a kiddie question, but I'm really into dogs and I was wondering if anyone knew if they sold Dogz5 for Nintendo DS?
Omg I love that video game there is a demo and I have also tried to ask around look on line and go to a game dealer maybe you will get better luck then me I gave up at the video game store.
what do you do if you realllllllly realllly like someone but then you kissed them and they were horrible !!
well if you realllllllllllllly reallllllllllllly realllllllly like them then maybe you should work on kissing together tell him that you would like him to work on it for you try it again and see if maybe he was just nervise that happens some times.i hope that it works out for you hun get back to me.
I’ve been having issues with my parents lately. I have a different problem for each of them. I guess this is a two-part question.
In order to fully understand my situation, I think a little background information is required . . .
My parents met one another while they were in highschool. They started dating soon after and eventually my mother ended up pregnant with me at the age of seventeen. It was completely unexpected and unplanned - I was a ‘surprise’, if you will. At the time, my grandmother was a very traditional woman. The idea of premarital children just didn’t sit well with her. She managed to convince my parents that marriage was their only option. They married three months after I was born.
Because my father came from a wealthier family, he graduated from highschool and was able to attend university. My mother, on the other hand, dropped out of highschool four months before her graduation so she could get a full-time job in order to support me and father while he was in school.
It’s not really a surprise that my parents are divorced now, they have been since I was five. But that’s not the issue. I live with my mother and stepfather now and she often talks about how she wishes she hadn’t been so careless when she was younger. She’s always warning me not to ‘throw away’ my youth like she did.
I know she doesn’t mean it, but sometimes I feel as though she resents me. I can’t help but think about how much better her life could have been had she not had me at such a young age. I know this is all in the past, and what’s happened cannot be changed but I would just like to know how I can get past this feeling of “I ruined my mother’s life”. I'd like to be able to stop feeling like a mistake.
Any and all advice is welcome =]
And that’s just my mother. . .
Now for part two - my father.
Like I mentioned before, my parents got married and then divorced at a fairly young age. I live with my mother so I only see my father once a month, if that. I wouldn’t exactly say we’re close . . .
Anyways, a few days ago, my mother told me a story about my father that really disturbed me. She told me that three days before their wedding, at his bachelor party, my dad had cheated on her. And even though she knew about it, she still married him. I was completely shocked when I heard this. I can’t help but be angry at my father. He doesn’t know that I know about this yet, but I would really like to confront him about it. I’ve talked to my mom about it and she doesn’t want me to say anything to him. She suggested that I just let it go. However I know that I won’t be able to do that. To me, this isn’t something I can just forget about. I would like some sort explanation from my father, even though I know he wont have one for me.
I’m supposed to have dinner at his house Monday night and I plan on confronting him then. My only problem is that I don’t know how I should go about this.
Any suggestions or any advice whatsoever would be greatly appreciated =]
Sorry this is so long =/
Well part one of your question is simple. When you were born. You were born for a reason. See you might not be a religious person I don’t really no but I am. And I always thought I was kind of a mistake to. But I realized that I have helped people in the past. And if you have ever helped someone than you no that you and that person feel good after word. Well we were all born for a reason. And without you that one person that you helped would of hurt longer. Your parents did not make a mistake by having you. They made a mistake telling you that you were there mistake.
Part two if were you I would plan it out write it down talk to him about how your mom was telling you something about the past and then bring it up make sure you tell him that you will always love him that will make it easier for him to tell. You
I want you to no that people do make mistakes but when it comes to childbirth there is never a mistake in that.
i am doing a major school project on the broadway musical RENT, and i cannot seem to find who originally played Mimi Marquez. can someone please help?! [and i need to know who it was in the play-not the movie!]
thank you!
Daphne Rubin
if you like someone but have a bf/gf is it considered cheating? jw.
No not really but if you go out with them it is if you like them then you need to break up with your b/f g/f before you go out with them k.
So this is a last minute kind of deal, but I have a friend who is supposed to come over. My mom went out for a while, but i have no idea when she is coming back, or any way of calling her. Last time I talked to my mom she said if my friend comes over she'll have to get a ride. My friend found a ride, but I don't know whether I should tell her to come over or not. My mom DID say she could come over.
Then what’s the problem if you want her to come over then let her if you don’t want her to and you want to be alone then tell her maybe another time?
Lizzie Gracie and Nermonie are in a big fight. Nermonie and Gracie are on the same side. Nermonie got a hold of Lizzie's diary and photocopied the page that had all the guys she'd love to date on it then made flyers with her biggest secrets and that list and handed them out to everyone in our grade. It didn't stop there. Nermonie and Gracie made a rumor that Lizzie and her sister masterbate together and finger each other. Everytime Lizzie walks down the halls all the guys hold up a finger and say " Hey Liz, we worship you, " or something like " Finger your sister latley? " Its gotten way outta hand. I asked gracie what her deal was, and she said " Nothing, Lizzie didnt do anything. I just dont like her" Lizzie is my best friends, and I wanna help her. She cries everyday, shes sucha strong person, and very sweet to everyone, but with everyone giving her the dirty looks, holding up the fingering sign, talking bad about her to her face she just cant take it.
I wanna know what I should do to help, everynight I called her and she cries to me for hours about what somebody did to her that day. How can I end this, she never did anything. Please help
They need to tell the principle and tell them that Gracie and Nermonie are sexually harassing that pore girl and tell your parents to call Lizzies mom so she can call the other girls mom there is nothing wrong with telling on them she should not have to go through that tell Lizzies I will pray for her and you should to it will help allot thanks for caring so much for your friend get back to me k bye.
I'm 15/f, and my mum has a lot of problems including alcoholism which I won't go in to, but she split from my dad when I was 7.
They never told me why but by the time I was 11, I'd worked out she is gay. It scared me so much, I convinced myself I was insane so I wouldn't have to deal with it. And no-one else knew. Then, about 18 months ago, my mum told me and my brother that she's gay. It hurt to hear it out loud, but was a bit of a relief too.
We've never ever spoke about it since, but I know she has a current partner, and she's becoming more... open with her partner in front of me. Which I can't stand. I can't tell her how this gets to me, I just can't bring myself to mention her sexuality, it hurts too much. What can I do, apart from walking out everytime they're together?
There are to things you can do one tell her how you feel second never become her and learn from her mistakes if you believe in god you can pray about it every time I pray it helps allot.
so on like myspace i got this riddle and it buggin me cuz i cant find the answer!
I already googled it!!:-p YEP!! sooo
I turn polar bears white
and I will make you cry.
I make guys have to pee
and girls comb their hair.
I make celebrities look stupid
and normal people look like celebrities.
I turn pancakes brown
and make your champane bubble.
If you sqeeze me, I'll pop.
If you look at me, you'll pop.
SO does anyone know the answer!! i really wanna no the right answer! like i hear it was water! but that doesnt make sice!
so i've you know the answer please explain!!
thanks and i right fives for anyone who will take the time and help!!!
thankssss
its eather hidrogen or oxygen
Ok... here's the situation...
I'm a senior in high school (17 female) ...I have a crush on one of my teachers (25 male) ... hes cute and funny and all that... we're really good friends and many of my close friends seem to think he likes me back... but im not sure ... to get to the point ... my question is that would it be considered un-ethcial for us to go out after i was to graduate?
is evil an natural part of mankind or is evil an learned behavior?
is good only a product of the childhood conditioning of existing morals or is good an natural instinct?
Yes it is a part of mankind that’s how god created it the bible said the heart of a man is desperately wicked. And yes being good is a natural instinct but people love adventure and sadly a big form an adventure is breaking the rules. I hope I answered you question
i dont think that my mom loves me the same as they love my older sister can you help
She does love you she problebly just cant show it the same as she does for your sister talk to your mom about it and tell me how it goes k
Ok, I'm 15/f and I was with this guy for 2 months. Well he starting trying to pressure me to have sex with him. And I know this probably sounds stupid but I really wasn't ready to go that far. I know that a lot of other girls have had sex but I just wasn't ready for it yet. So anyway one night we were hanging out and he started to ask me to have sex with him again. I said no and I tried to explain why and make him understand. Well he seemed to understand and I thought that everything was ok. He brought me a drink of water and then I started to feel weird. The next thing I know I'm waking up next to him and now I'm pregnant. My friend said that he probably gave me a drug or something so I would have sex with him. I really don't know and I don't know what to do now. Did he rape me? And what should I do about the pregnancy?
Yes he did rape you need to tell your mom and inform the police. Have the baby please do not get an abortion. If you don’t keep it give it up for adoption. Go to a gynecologist and talk to them and make them check for any STDs. I hope you no you did not sound stupid for saying that you did not want to have sex with him. You sound like a smart girl. I think all girls should wait until they are married. Babe I hope you feel better get back to me ok do all this as soon as possible you sound smart and brave for asking.
ok so im going to be 18 in about 9 weeks time and im thinking all my friends well apart from a few have all had sex even ones who are younger than me am i getting to old and whats the right age to have sex?? I would have had sex but my bf says he loves me but i do not trust him its like when we are away from each other he never contacts me or cares about me my question is shall i wait until the right one comes along to lose my virginity? thank you in advance.x
To me you are so brave me I plan on being a virgin until I am married because then I have something to give to my husband when we are married if I were you I would stay a virgin you came all this way why give it up now once it gone its gone.
I am 14 and all my friends are the same age. (we are not punk rock or emo people, just so you know). A lot of my friends tell me sad things or problems in their lives. (boyfriend problems, cutter problems, ect.). Whenever I hear about this stuff I usually don't care much, it's sadly just not in my character. But when I get home I'll do all the normal stuff I normally do, but I'll end up crying for no reason. I'll feel horrible inside but I won't know why.
So what my question is: How can I make my enviorment less negative other than getting new friends? I can't tell them that they can't tell me their problems. If I did then they would be keeping their problems inside them, and that would be giving my depression problem to them.
My best friend Angela went through the same things see I did not notice that what I was telling her was to much for her to handle its kind of a smaller version of depression you need to talk to your friends about how you are feeling to. Don’t bottle things up k get back to me? P.s you are the same age as me you don’t need to be worrying about all that stuff be a kid
Recently, my brother has been in a serious relationship with his new girlfriend, Amber. Amber used to be one of my really good friends. Until my brother started dating her. But that isnt the issue. The issue is that he has lately been going behind my parents' backs. He just got a job at a stupid joe-schmo computer store that isnt paying him at all. zippo. Well, tonight, the shop decided to close early because tomorrow is good friday and they had nothing else left to work on. So, he decided to stay away (instead of coming home) and went over to Ambers house. Ever since he has been dating her, I noticed a change in his attitude. He has been more "i dont care-ish." He has come home with hickeys on his neck and eye liner on. He has been sneaking away to see her... without permission. He has been lying and kniving. He didnt used to be like this. He just turned 17. Will be 18 in November. He has said that he wants to move in with Amber and has threatened to move out. So, my question is, what can I do? If anything? give me ideas for my parents. We are out of ideas on things to do. Tonight, we are taking his truck away and he isnt getting it back. We might sell it. But, what should we do about his slipping grades? He sits and plays video games in math class. He has lost his scholarship to college. any ideas on what we should do to help him? We go to church 3 times a week. For him it is only 2. He has to work on Wed. Nights. Thanks.
Wow what I would do is have you your mom and your dad all to right a letter about how he is acting sit down with out any one but you and the ones involved to friends or his girl friend and read the letters to him telling him how scared you are for him k and maybe talk to his g/f a different time but make sure she is not there when you talk to him.