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Everyone says American Eagle is the best store, but personally I hate it. All of their t-shirts are basically the same things with different words and colors. A lot of their clothes are really bad quality. I bought a cami from there once and I only wore it once and a HUGE hole ripped and I wasn't even running around or anything. It may be a little cheaper then Abercrombie & Fitch or Hollister, but atleast if you buy something from A&F or Hollister, you know the clothes are going to last. American Eagle's clothes arn't the most attractive things, and they look cheap. What do you think about AE? (link)
Hate them


Okay so im ushally with my moms side of the family a lot just because they live clother than my moms side. i really love my moms side of the family. and i used to hang out with them everyday. but lately it just seems as if im nothing to them anymore ever since like there has been problems with the family. pretty much everyone in the family is telling me to die. i wanna say something back to them but its just rude to do that. im not sure of what to do.Should i tell them or someone how i feel or should i stop talking to them? (link)
Just tell them off one good time. Then if that does not work ask them why are they being such donkies


is there anyway i can get my music from my old computer's iTUNES to my new computer's iTUNES???

-greatly appreciated♥ (link)
there is a computer CD called EZ trasnfer. It might work for you


Me and my mom are very open with eachother and she was telling me a lot of stuff. She's 44 now and during her whole life she's NEVER worn a thong, never shaved her pussy, never fingered anyone or gave anyone a handjob or blow job, never masturbated, only made out with someone 3 times, and she's only had sex 2 times in her whole life and those 2 times were when me and my sister were born. I can't believe it because my mom seems like the type that was a slut when she was younger, no offence to her but its the truth. I wear thongs regularly and shes never even tried one on. I really think shes prude. Do you people agree with me? (link)
I think your mom is just trying to set a good example for you by saying she has never done those things. I think she has (not to put her down).


i have a dog that gets out of the house alot how do i keep it in? (link)
1. Put up doggie fences
2.Close the doors and/or windows


okay so this boy i really love just wants me to send pictured of my boobs . i dont want to but i told him that and he just got all mad i told him that i honestly love him for him he doesnt love me for me but he doesnt care hes telling people my secrets! what do i do? helppp (link)
you should not send him a picture of yourself nude. What if you break up? He could so use that pic against you!


Im 14yrs old almost 15 and my height is 5'1,and too small for my age{i know}.My weight is 121pounds and I think im fat !.I dont want to eat anymore because I dont wanna gain weight.I exercise 3 TO 4 TIMES a week but is not working plz help me! (link)
you are so small!!! Dont worry.


My boyfriend tends to lie to me about stupid things..like money. If he has 100 bucks he tells me he only has 50 and such. And I have caught him in his lies so many times. He told me that he woul d stop because he didn't know that i cared that he lied about stupid stuff like that.But in my opinion if he lies to me about small things than he's lied to me about more important things.What should I do to get it through his head that I don't appreciate him lying to me all the time. (link)
1.Lie to him and then tell him you lied and have him explain to you why it is a bad thing to lie
2. Dump him (not the best option, I know)
3. Point blank ask him what is up


okay me and my boyfreind have been going out for about 4 months and i really like him.at around the second month i told him i was a little uncomfortable with him telling me he loves because i know he didnt meen it because where to young to know what love is.(where both 13).well last night he told me he needed to tell me something and i was like ok and he started off by saying do you remember that time you told me i was to young to know the meaning of love is and i was like yes and then he said well i love you and ive never felt this feeling befor and i love you with all my heart and i want to spend the rest of my life with you.and then he asked me is my heart beating really fast and i was like no and then he said because mine is beacause i was afraid to tell you that i love you. at this point to tell you the truth i was a little scared because i think he was really telling the truth.dont get me wrong i like him alot but i dont think i love especially not as much as he seems to love me.im just so confused on what to do.i really dont want to brake his heart and tell him that i dont feel the same way.should i just end it befor it gets way to serious?please help me.i badly need some advice, (link)
Yes he likes you.
No, you do not have to end it just keep telling him what you have been about being to young to know.


okay so i am known as the BIGGEST slut in my whole entire school . well thats waht i have heard. like theres a group of kids that are calling me a slut and saying i got fingered and gave a bunch of guys blowjobs . its really getting on my nerves because i havent done that . i have made out with only THREE guys . and most of them have lost their virginity . how can i prove that im not a lsut? (link)
You do not have to prove anything to anyone.
But if you must...
Wear conservative clothes
Do not speak of sex related things
Do not act sluty period


OKAY, here it goes...! K, i fell down the stairs at my school last week, on Monday. I dont think i really broke or sprained anything, but i hit my head really hard on the tile floor, and the stairs( i was at the top and fell to the bottom). Now, almost a week later, i feel lightheaded, and dizzy... is it from the fall? should i consult my doctor?! (link)
Yeah I would go to the daoctor. It could ba a concussion.


okay well i have a few really close friends . and i had alot of other close friends but then they started spreading rumors about me and it just got really annoying and they would always try to b***h me out during lunch and im a really sensitive person so i wouldnt fight back i just cried and walked away . i was really close to my school counselor about this because i would always go up there and just talk about my problems and sometimes when it got to be really bad she would bring it up with the house principle and he would talk to the girls that started this stuff and they never stopped . and they would send me threatening text messages . what do i do? those girls got everyone mad at me . really i have like 5 close girlfriends and the rest are guys (link)
I think you should just maybe back off for your safety and theirs. Ask them why they are treting you the way they are.


If you run away and get caught, what kind of trouble could you get in? (link)
Umm. Your parents/gaurdians would probably punish you. That is I cn think of.


Okay I need some major help here:

I have really skinny little boney legs.. and I want to make them normal sized! They're soooo skinny it's embarrassing! My arms are skinny too, I've just always been this way. I eat alot and whenever I eat, I eat until I'm full. I don't eat many vegetables, mainly fatty things...but it's weird because it goes to my stomach and nowhere else! Is there something wrong with my metabolism or something? Because it seems like my food doesn't distribute properly...or is there anyways that I can build up my arms and legs? Is it just a muscle thing, or an eating thing? Thank you so much for any feedback!! (link)
Eat protien. Lift weights.


16/6

I have a bump 'down there' but Ive already eliminated possibilities. Its not an STD like genital herpes - Im a virgin. Its not razor burn because I dont shave. It hurts when I touch it and I just noticed it maybe 3 days ago. Its the size of a pimple. Is it possible it could be a pimple? Im worried..What could it be? (link)
Yes. It could be acne. Acne can occur anywhere.


I think I'm gonna pierce my own ear.


I have it pierced twice and my cartilage...but yea...how do I make the needle or w.e clean? (link)
do not pierce your own ears, that is almost garunteeing problems.
If you do, heat the needle over a flame and use run=bing alcohol


In the Caesers song "Jerk it Out", does it really mean to um... jerk it out? Sorry, I don't want to sound vulgar but I was singing it and my mum asked me if it meant that. (link)
it means like masterbation (sp?) so yea that guy is singing about freaking himself


People talk about how i stink at football when i kno im so good in m y have cause i catch 85% of my passes so r they just jealous.. (link)
most likely


could i put a playlist on my myspace (link)
you could copy and paste the titles and artist and stuff but it probably would not play.


I was about 7 when i first fingered myself; obviously, i didnt have my period then. I also used the pool jet to masterbate. I didn't know that's what it actually was called or that it could lead to problems later in life. I heard that it can give you cervical cancer. I'm really really scared. Is that true, what is the risk, and would I know if I have cancer by now if i'm 14. (link)
that does not cause cancer. Seriously. No worries




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