I am 16 years old. I am currently studying to take my A+ certification in Computer Maintenance Technology.
I have been through so many different things in my life, some more so easier to deal with than others. I got through it all, and I'm here to give you helpful, safe advice to help you get through them also.
I'm very open to any type of questions, I will help as much as I can. I'm also very easy to talk to, understanding, and non-judgmental. So don't be afraid to ask anything.
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Location: Waynesboro, VA
Age: 16
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What are the best kind of condoms to use for the first time? - preferbly the best feeling for the girl & the best protection from getting pregnant.
Also whats the best/most romantic position for the 1st time?
And how do you know if the girl wants to be on the bottom or top? (link)
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Honestly I dont think there is any "best" kind of condom. I think they all feel and work the same really. Ive tried some that are ribbed and bumpy but honestly they dont feel any different either, the ones i used anyways.
The best position for the first time i would say is the guy on top. sometimes girls are really uncomfortable and dont want to be exposed. If she doesnt feel so uncomfortable ask her about going on top.
If you have any other questions feel free to ask =]
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so i read one of your questions, and you said you were pregnant. i hope you dont think im being nosy, but what was it like? were you taken out of school? and did you have the baby? and how did your parents take it?
thanks (link)
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yeah a few weeks ago I had an abortion. I was 6 weeks and 1 day. When I first told my mom she didnt react as I thought she would. She was calm about it, and asked questions. She wasnt mad just disappointed. Me and her actually got closer from this. I felt sick all day when I was pregnant I only threw up once though. But no I stayed in school. I was 4 weeks pregnant when i found out.
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is it ok to still be taking birht control if ur already pregnant? ive been takin it for a year and if i get preg. is it ok to still be takin it? (link)
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no it is not okay to take it if u are pregnant
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When you masterbate or finger yourself can that break your hymen? can you tell if its thick or thin that way? Or is it to far up? Sorry about all the questions, but I'm curious. (link)
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yes you can break it if u are forceful
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Can you get pregnant before you have your period? Is it normal to not ahave started when you are fourteen and weigh 95 pounds. (link)
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no you can not get pregnant before you get your period, and everyone is different and get their period at different times
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is there anyway to tell if a girl is pregnant after the first couple of weeks after sex?
i'm only sixteen, i would love as much information and advice as possible, please. (link)
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the only way to find out soon is to take a test.
i was recently pregnant and i had the feeling i was. i was peeing frequently. thats really the only sign ive noticed
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female
ok, this is kinda weird,
but down there, like where my vagina opens up,
like i have a longer flap of skin on one side than the other. does anyone els know what im talking about?
like also if a guy were to be eating me out would that bother him?
thanks (link)
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dont worry its normal
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13/f
well ive only half wayed finger myself
im scared im going to cut my uterus if i do
and also..
im not thinkin about sex
im just asking...
when the guy pops your cherry...
does blood come out right away?
or later? (link)
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dont worry youre not going to cut your uterus.
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ok heres the thing me and my bf have been going out for about 2 months now. It's kinda got sexual weve only had sex once and that lasted for 30 seconds. my bf and i do kinda bump against each other. I can feel his hard on though my pants!! have i moved to fast with him? I'm so confused! I wanna do this kinda stuff with him i just wanna know if 2 months is to soon. (link)
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no hun. as long as youre ready. and you think its right. and he isnt making you. its fine. you havnt moved to fast.
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i want to strip my hair of its color. i reread over and over this hair color removal online stuff but my sister is 23 and was like "never buy that stuff offline". and so is there any thing i can use that i can get at like kmart or some store to get the dye out of my hair? (link)
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go to a beauty store, or maybe a store like Kmart. But get a bleaching kit. It does dry out your hair. and itches youre head. Id go to a salon. Much safer. But if u do it your self it might irritate your head.
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Is it better to take a bath or shower ? That might sound dumb but is one better than the other? I notice when I take a shower the water hitting my face like makes my face turn all red and my face itches for some reason but when I take a bath it doesnt. (link)
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well, in my opinion, I take showers. Because, all the dirt and stuff will wash off and wont stay on your body. But a good relaxing bath is always good sometimes. =] But thats my opinion. It doesnt really matter which one. Nones better than the other. Which ever is more comfortable for you.
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Ok. I shave my "girlie parts" and I guess I am really sensitive down there because I keep getting bumps. I have been shaving down there for about 6 months now and the problem dosen't occur every single time, just sometimes. I always have a good razor, I always make sure to go really slow, and always use soap before and after every stroke of my razor. Any suggestions on how to prevent this? (link)
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http://free-beauty-tips.glam.com/pubichair.html
that should give you some good information
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Okay. i discharge. a lot. like heavy. so i'm always really nervous and think it's my period.
and i know it's normal, but do you have any suggestions about how to make it feel not so heavy? (link)
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you cant change the way it feels or the amount that comes out. just wear a liner. so it wont feel as gross.
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My boyfriend and I broke up after
he told me he liked another girl and
they had been flirting and stuff.
Well, I had to end it with him because
I did not want to go on with him if he
liked someone else.
How do I let go?
When I see him I want to melt into his
arms again, but I know I shouldnt.
And now, when I see a guy, it takes everything
I have not to just grab him and try to
hold on forever.
.. please help.
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i know what youre feeling. What you gotta do is try to forget about him. you wont be able to right away but you gotta try. think of it this way, youre better off alone than with someone who has feelings for someone else. you will find someone eventually, someone way better than your ex. and i mean it when i say that!
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I read that you should never IM a guy first if you like him. Is that true? Is it bad if you do? Cause I want to talk to the guy I like so I do IM him first if I see he is on. Is it bad if I do that? (link)
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no! go for it. sometimes chances are he is afraid to IM you! just dont IM him like the second he gets on. or he might get annoyed. just IM him say Hi see if he talks back. but whatever you do, dont seem desprite!
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I'm going out with this guy and hes nice and all but I don't love him I only like him as a friend. I want to dump him but I'm to afraid if I do he'll tell everyone this horrible secret I told and trusted him with and this is a family secret. I really want to dump him because I really like this other guy and I think he likes me back. But the guy I like is my brother's friend who's one year older! What do I do? How do I make my boyfriend not tell anyone my secret? And how do I go out with the guy I like without making things with my brother and all?? (link)
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okay as for your bf, talk to him, tell him things just arnt working out, and that you'd like to be his friend, and that you still trust him with the secret and would like if he didnt tell anyone.
and for your brothers friend, maybe next time you see him with your brother talk to him a little, flirt with him, compliment him. smile at him, see if he smiles or looks back.
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So my first real boyfriend.. we went out for a long time. He didn't treat me right and for some reason he didn't really notice that.
So we were friends with benefits on the verge of a relationship again cept not. (link)
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oh my gosh.. haha i thought i was the only one who had problems like that. first of all. if "ex1" hurt you dont bother with him. and tell "ex 2" not to bother with "ex1" you dont want anything to do with him. BECAUSE!! everything will get worse! You can write me back and be more specific if u need more help.. haha it was kinda confusing
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im 14 and my penis is only 4.5 inches when erect and 3 inches when limp why is it only that big and will it get bigger soon (link)
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youre still young. i wouldnt worry about it too much. and honestly size doesnt matter. its the love that counts if thats what youre worried about!
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During lunch, I sit with one of my best friends. She's nice, but when she eats, I can see every since crumb of food in her mouth in mushed up form, and she talks while she is at it too. I can't help but want to stop being friends with her for this. One time food even spit out of her mouth onto me! She doesn't even realize how vulgar I feel watching this! It's hard to ignore when she sits right infront of me. What is a nice way to approach her about this? (link)
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joke around with her, say it in a nice way,
"You need to close your mouth and stop talking while you are eating" and just laugh or something. dont say it in a way she is embarrased.
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Okay me and my boyfriend have been going out for 11 months, and we were talking about a dream i had and then he started to tell me about his dream but then he stopped. i had to force him to tell me because he kept saying no, but he shouldnt have to hide anything from me. anyways he told me his dream. it hurt me so bad, i didnt show it because he seemed pretty upset and bothered by it also and ashamed but it realy hurt me , his dream was ; he was in his room or a room idk , with two other girls. having sex with them and stuff them doing stuff to him and stuff .......WHY W0ULD HE DREAM ABOUT THAT .. I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY THAT WAS IN HIS HEAD . he said he didnt know who the girls were, that they werent anyone, i want to belive him on that but i dont know . i dont know it hurt so bad to know that he was dreamin about fuckin two other girls. and i mean wht if this isnt the only time, i kno its just a dream but dreams mean something....does anyone know what this means?=/ (link)
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Dont stress about it. Hes a guy, guys think about other girls. Every guy does. haha. It will be okay. just try not to think of it. i know it hurts but it was definitely just a dream. If you notice something strange with him, signs of cheating, flirting or liking other girls, tell him about it. tell him how you felt about the dream also. just talk to him about it. it will make you feel better. i always talk to my boyfriend about things that bothers me. and everything gets worked out. talking is better than arguing, and misunderstanding things!
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