To start, you can ask me anything. I'm 15, I turn 16 this Christmas. I really enjoy school. English is my favorite subject. I'm a sophomore. History, Geometry, German, French, and Gym are a few of my favorites really. I want to go to major in psychology and minor in journalism or interior design. I want to go to the summer gov school program this summer for either Russian or Psychology. I love to read and write poetry. I play soccer, football, volleyball, and skateboard, and I'm on the debate team and dodgeball team for my school. I love nature, just being outside, taking hikes, etc. I love stars and moonlight. Moonlight is incredibly romantic and stars and magical. I also love music. I play the alto saxophone and the guitar. I love animals. My favorite animal is the fox, but my favorite pet is Emmy, my beloved dog. I love movies, especially horror films. Saw, the Ring, Donny Darko, etc. My favorite movie is Alice in Wonderland (even though I am 15). My favorite bands are Wakefield and Lucky Boys Confusion. Broken is a great song. Skyler is my best friend in the entire world. He's the only one I can relate to on the subject of relationship prudency. He's a senior at my school and he's on the same level as me. I have more guys friends than girl friends because I feel more comfortable with guys than girls. There is too much drama with girls. Most of my girlfriends have what I call "zero bullshit tolerance" or what you might call a "bitchy attitude". Frankly, they just tell it like it is whether you like it or not. I love them all dearly. I'm a very independent person and I deal very well under pressure. I hate people pressuring me to do things. I stand up for what I believe in and don't let people hold me back. I am my own person and don't change for anyone.
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Gender: Female
Location: Middle of Nowhere
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: TaikaxWitchxElli
Member Since: November 9, 2005
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i was just wondering if this makes me fat.. because i think i am.. im 16 i weigh 107 and i wear size 5 pants.. just wondering what you think please be honest. (link)
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Hun, you're not fat. I'm 15 and I weigh 107. I'm not fat, so you can't be fat. How in the world could you be in size 5 pants? You sound like you should be in 3s or smaller.
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How do you put pictures on myspace? Not for your profile but on the website to display. And how do you get pictures or drawings (from paint or scanning) on the website too? (link)
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You have to upload them to a webhoster, such a photobucket.com, which I use, and then to put them into your profile page you have to put the code .
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You know how people always get those surveys on MySpace? with long lists of questiosn like "do you prefer nestea or lipton?" or "eaten an oreo in the past month?" where do you get those? (link)
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http://www.kwiz.biz/simplesurveys/do-survey.php
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I wnet out with this guy for a year and a day to be exact then i broke up with him because hes much older than i and i like this kid in my grade.. How long before i should date agian?
i was thinkin 4 months?
--13/f-- (link)
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You shouldn't set a limit to how long you should stay single. I'm not saying you should go out and get a new boyfriend now, but you shouldn't set a limit. You should just give yourself time to get over him and don't get into a new relationship until you're over him. Completely over him.
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i have aim and i just added someone as a buddy today and i got this messege saying "{buddy} is idle". What does that meen? Dont tell me im dumb unless you want a 1 (link)
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That just means that your buddy is online but they haven't been online or their computer for a certain period of time.
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Today at school, during lunch, i got bored.
we guys were sitting on the bench outside and they dared me to walk up to a guy and slap him for no reason at all. Being bored, i did it and kinda slapped him harder than I intended. I am not usually a violent or mean person but that was pretty mean. It turns out he is one of those sensitive guys. ( not sensitve as in gay, more like as in easy to fell upset and has plenty of emotions.)Most guys just laugh when you do crap like that, but he almost started crying. I felt bad, and went to appologize to him but he didn't quite accept my appologies. He was saying "forget it" but he still looked all emotional.
I feel really guilty about it now and i want to know how i can apologize to him. (link)
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You need to sit down and talk to him about the whole. It is almost certain that he will ask you why you did it in the first and when he hears it was a dare, it will be up to him to forgive you or not. But make sure he hears you out that you are not usually a mean or violent person. If he hears that and understands he will be more likely to forgive you.
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Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks.. (link)
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There isn't one...Making love was simply a censored version of sex invented to "soften" the term and make it sound more affectionate.
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Can someone explain my boyfriends behavior?I had been out of work for a really long time and i finally got a job as a sales rep in a large superstore. At first he was excited for me and said "well I hope everything works out for you".
Now heres where it gets strange. I had my first shift 3 nights ago and I told him how nice everyone was and I much fun I was having. He didnt sound happy at all and just said in an unfriendly tone "oh I guess things are working out for you". I don't understand , wouldnt he be happy for me? The only thing I can think of is he might be worried I'll meet a guy at work.
Does anyone have any ideas as to what is going on with him? (link)
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He's either jealous, worried you'll meet a guy (as you stated), or perhaps he thinks you're not spending enough time with him? There are a lot of things it could be. It could be that he thinks you're too good for him. It could be he's just in a weird mood. You should talk to him about this and listen to what he has to say.
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Why is my hair falling out?
Growing up I always had very thick and abundant hair. But now it's starting to fall out- and I'm only 14...
I dyed it about 3 months ago and it is just beginning to fall out.
Help... I love my hair! (link)
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Well, generally hair falls out for one of two reasons: 1. you're stressed out; 2. you're hairbands/ponytail holders/hair things/etc are too tight
As for the dying part, that might be a coincidence. Bleaching does have a tendency to tear up your hair, but I've never heard anything of it making your hair fall out.
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Last year, I was a freshman at a boarding school. I had many friends mainly because I refused to be very confrontational. I let things "slide". The only girl that had gotten in a slight fight with me had unjust animosity towards me.
This year, as a sophomore, I decided I wasn't going to take shit from anyone. My friends walked all over me last year(example: I asked my best friend to talk to this guy about how I had a huge crush on him and she gave him a blow job instead). I've sorta isolated myself from a lot of the steriotypical social interaction and cept a few good friends.
There is one girl who I was very good friends with last year and this year after all the back stabbing she did, I decided I didnt like her. And slowly, Im realising how arrogant and self absorbed she is. I stopped hanging out with her and eventually, I really just stopped talking to her. She asked why I was mad at her, and I bluntly told her I didnt like her because I didn't think that it would be right not to say that to her face.
She recently has been very whorish and got in trouble for getting drunk and passing out/throwing up on a "duty person" in her dorm. So on xanga, I called her a drunk colombian whore (shes colombian). Its one place where I feel I can speak what I think. I've gotten the nastiest comments about it.
Was all of this wrong of me to do? (link)
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It isn't wrong to speak your mind, but it is general a smart idea to either filter what comes out of your mouth or is put online. If you want a place to rant and rave about how terrible people are, since you are at a boarding school and you will be surrounding by these people for a while, it would be a good idea to perhaps make your xanga private or get a new blog such as tabulas and make it private. As for face-to-face confrontation, don't let people walk all over you but don't isolate yourself from everyone either. I know it's hard to stay between the two, but just think about it.
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My AIM hasn't been working for 2 days. When I click on the little AIM guy to sign on, nothing happens for about 10 seconds, then the sign on screen flashes on the screen for like a half second and then goes away. I don't think it's a virus on my computer, because I already scanned it, and it does the same thing on my parent's computer which I don't use very often. Is this happening to anyone else? What should I do? I was considering deleting it, and downloading the newer version. Would that fix it? Please help. Thank you!! (link)
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I think you should either uninstall it and reinstall it or just delete it and install the newer version.
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I was looking through a few questions on religion (Not a darn clue why, I just was) and I was reading a question about a girl who wanted to become Buddist.
An answer she recieved made me a little upset. This person that answered kept saying how she was choosing the wrong religion and that being Buddist is wrong.
I've noticed things like this before, strong Christians (yes, it is mostly Christians) criticizing other religions. They will rant on and on about how it's the wrong religion.
What is so wrong with believing in Buddah? Why do you have to criticize people who do not believe in God? We have the right to choose our religion and the right to choose no religion at all.
Why do you believe that your religion is the only "right" religion? This has been bothering me for a while.
I really don't want any Christians on this site to feel that I am directing this ONLY at you. But what I've seen on this site about 90% of the people criticizing people for their religion are strong Christians. So, I'm just basing my question on the majority.
I'm sorry if this question has offended anyone. (link)
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There is no one "right" religion. Most people, and there will always be people like this, think that their religion is the only right religion and if you aren't their religion their god(s) will come down from heaven and smite you. I, myself am Christo-Wiccan which means I believe that there is only one God but I also believe in magic. Sure, it's changed people's views of me, but it's what I believe. People should know that if it's what you believe you shouldn't care what others think of you and you shouldn't let it stop you from doing what you want to do. There is nothing wrong with Atheism, being Agnostic, Buddhist, Hindu, Muslim, etc. Religious tolerance is just as important as racial tolerance. That's almost like saying "you're wrong because you're black/white/indian/asian/european/etc" and we all know that's wrong. You can't help what you believe.
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um. my boyfriend was fingering me the other day and he ripped.. i think it's called a urethra.. that thing above to vagina... it's been bleeding for a few days now and i have no clue on what to do.. and i don't know if this is a bad thing or a good thing. pleaseee help lol.. (link)
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That's a terrible thing. You really need to see a doctor or a gyno to get it checked out.
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me and my bfs one year anniversary is coming up really soon and here are some ideas i had for it..
- i ordered on line this personalized puzzle that says you complete me love always, sam
- im going to cut out big red heart and put all pictures of us on it and love quotes and such
- starting at 12 days before the day of our anniversary (to represent 12 months) i am going to put how many days there are left hershey kisses in his locker and a little note
are these good ideas and do you have any other good ideas about what i can do or give him? (link)
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First of all, those are excellent ideas. The third idea sounds great to me. The first idea might be a bit expensive for a one-year anniversary, and the second might be a wee bit time comsuming.
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okay well i have a bf and hes gone for about 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him and i barley get to talk to him. but the thing is wen hes not gone we dont talk (well barley anyway)) and the thing is im started to like this other guy. and i dont want to but then again i do becuz hes not shy unlike my bf and idk what to do im so confused right now. please help me. (link)
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I know how you feel. I went through the exact same thing when I went to camp. My boyfriend and I had started to break apart before I left and I started to like a guy I met a camp. Well, I decided to break up with my boyfriend at the time and go for the guy from camp. It turned out to be a great choice. I think the best idea for you is to break up with your boyfriend, no offense, since you seem to like the other guy more and you seem to have a bit more of an attraction to him. Best of luck,
Elli
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