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i have white discharge like a day after sex usually. is it just my dudes cum or could i have an infection? (link)
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It could be your normal vaginal discharge,if it is milky white and does not have an odor then it is normal but if it is itchy with a fishy smell and an either white or yellowy tint colour to it then it could be vaginal thrush,dishcarge can increase when ovulating,breasfeeding or after sex or sexually ecited
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ok so me and my friend are supose to date soon but we couldnt this year because of broken hearts and so on but anyways she told me that shes a nympho which is a sex addict and shes cheated a lot in the past and for the past week i keep askin myself wat if she cheats on me? that is the last thing i need the past 2 years have been pretty rough on me and my heart can't take much more but i really love her and i want to be more than friends what should i do??? (link)
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you have two choices..either have a physical relationship which i think it wrong because you already love her and will only lead to heart ach.the other choice is to talk to her and put it all out on the table.she needs to know that your scared shes going to cheat on you.you cant go into a relationship having doubts and not trusting her.im sure you trust her with your secrets but its obvious that you have second thoughts about her cheating on you.lay it out and tell her that you really like her and dont want to be hurt
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Hi i recently shaved my vagina because i saw brown spots on it but then once it was shaved and i started scratching at the brown spots they peeled off i'm wondering if maybe they were just dead skin? or something? and now my vagina is itchy as hell is that normal? and it's all stubbly cause i missed some spots... :( PLEASE HELP i am 13 (link)
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its ok dont worry its very normal sweety.If your not used to shaving the area, the itching is probably caused by irratation. The best way to shave that area would be to take a bath not shower, soak in the hot water to open your pores and soften the hairs.
If you want a close shave, continue sokaing and use the INTUITION razor and shave in different directions to get the close shave you want, and yes by the next morning it'll probably feel stubble like a five o'clock shadow.. the hair just grows fast but id suggest waiting another day before shaving again till your used to it.
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I am 13 and a 7th grade girl. I have never gone out with a guy. There is this guy that I really like and I know that he likes me too because my friend asked him if he liked me and he said yes. He is always really sweet and I love to talk to him. I also like to talk to his friends. The only problem is that my friends think he is a nerd. He sort of is though but I'm ok with that because I'm pretty smart too.(straight A's) The only problem is my friends or other people will probably make fun of me for going out with someone in the "Nerd Herd". What should I do? (link)
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go for it!!!seriously nerds are the ones that are going to have a decent job and become doctors or engineers and get all the money.Being ssmart is not a bad thing,if you like him then nothing else should matter.if they make fun of you then theyr not your real friends.they should support you and be there for you.if they moc you then you tell them how you feel!
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What do you do when your daughter is trying to turn your son against you with lies? She tells him that I say and do mean things to her when he is not around. This is completely false. She has talked him into selling their home and moving to where her mother lives. It is like she is trying to make my son want to leave without feeling bad or something. I have no problem with them moving if that is something they truely both want to do, but does she have to make it on bad terms? (link)
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wow sounds like shes very immature!!remember your the mother dont ever forget that,stay strong and stay being the adult.if shes the problem then you need to fix her.maybe you two argued about soemthing?i think you both need to talk about why she is acting the way she is and try sort it out.apologise even if you think shes the bad guy.suck it up so that you can move past this.call her and ask her to have coffee with you.be calm and nice,if she starts yelling remember that shell only yell louder if you start to yell so be mature and professional.stay calm and try to resolve the problem.it will be hard but dont give up,keep trying even if you feel sick to your stomach doing it
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My mom refuses to go grocery shopping. Its been this way since i was in like...fifth grade. I am now 19. I remember as a child going to school, and not having lunch, or any lunch money, and just sitting there starving while all of my friends ate there lunches.
Were pretty well off, we have a large house and plenty of money, so I dont understand what her problem is. Just know i asked her if we were going to go grocery shopping anytime soon, and she told me to go buy food. Its getting pretty rediculous. My little brother is still in school, and he has to buy his food himself. I just dont think this is normal. We all have jobs, and normally I go buy my own food, but she never has dinner on, and if she does its the smallest portions ever.
What should I do? My car broke down so I dont have a way to go buy food, and I havnt eaten in 2 days.
This really sucks. (link)
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oh dear!does she not buy grocery food because she thinks you have money and is able to buy your own?thats mean and selfsih of your mother to not think of her son that is still in school!This is how children start to steal and get in trouble with the law...are you able to bus?or walk to the store??maybe ask if you can borrow her car since she doesnt want to go get food herself?have you asked your friend for a ride?or soemtimes you can order groceries online and have them delievered to your house.im not sure where you live but in New Zealand some grocery stores will do that for you...let me know what happens
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I'm babysitting my cousins alllllll day everyday, this summer. I just need some fun things to do with them. Anything would be appreciated. Thanks! (link)
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you have an advantage because its summer!go to the beach,build sand castles with them,go to the park,ride your bikes together,play hide and seek in the garden,have a water balloon fight,do some baking,read to them,watch movies together...it can be fun if you make it fun :)
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My boyfriend is 19 years old. He's very innocent, well... Not exactly. I just call him innocent because he's the type of guy who is disgusted by porn. He does not know what exactly turns him on. He said only when he makes out, some what touch me in some places, and sticks his tongue in my mouth. That's basically it. He says that only turns him on halfway or somewhat. What is something that I can do to fully turn him on? (link)
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i agree with the other person,maybe even try being rough with him like push him against the wall and press up against him while you are making out...some guys even like it when you scratch them when you have your hands up his shirt...not too hard but just enough to turn him on like run your nails over his skin but not lightly so thta he can feel it.
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I went for an interview at this place today that is a health club. the job is. basically "coaching" people towards a better and healthier lifestyle, and the mean time they lose weight. the way that i get paid is by selling this certain brand of nutrition products. it is a very reputable brand, the company sponsors many olympic athletes and is the nutrition brand of many professional teams. so i am not questioning the products.
however, i dont know if this is right for me. to start you have to pay 65$ for the certification to sell the product, or you could buy the 99$ package and get the certification plus $100 of their products. i just don't know if this is worth it. the club brings in cleints so i wouldnt have to worry much about that. i start off making 25% of my sales and quickly work up to 50%. can anyone please give me some advice on this! (link)
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any job that forces you to buy their product so that you can work for them is...oh whats the word?a rip off!unless you need and would use the product continuously then dont take the job.Sounds like it wants to eat your waages...mayeb try selling clothes,or shoes...if your unsure about the job already then its very likely you wont like the job when you start.
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15/f
im moving 530 miles away from where i live now. since i am going to a new school soon i would like to find new clothes. my favorite store is forever 21 but i want more of a selection as well. i love the 20's and 30's looking fashion, not 70's and 80's. so does anyone know websites where i can find cheaper vintage clothing? thanks. (link)
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http://www.lavintage.com/maincategory/womens/30
They have soem neat things but it might be costy.i dont like in the US so im not sure
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I play soccer a lot and I noticed that I sweat more than most, not only under my arms but on my back. Im a 14 year old girl, not even close to overweight, very in shape. I sometimes sweat just when it is hot too.. It is so embarrassing. Over-the-counter deoderants don't work and I don't think it is normal. Any advice? (link)
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some people sweat more than others and sadly im on the more than others side.i used this antipersperant called Odaban adn its really good.you spary a tiny bit on a cotton bud and wipe it on your under arms before you go to sleep.when you wake up have a shower.make sure than its a tiny bit your putting on!
do some more research and see what you think.its worked for me :)
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I heard that you can get hurt from stroking your vagina for masturbation. How can you end up hurting yourself? (link)
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your clit is a very delicate peice of skin. if you rub it too hard then you can risk ripping it. Due to this it may result in a stingign feeling when you pee or when you wipe etc
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So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year.
The thing is, sometimes we'll have a shitload of fun together and I'll be the happiest human in the world. Those days, we'll have good conversations, probably spend a lot of time together, and just have a lot of fun wherever it is that we go. But then there'll be other times when things between us are just tense and we'll just have a very heated argument about stuff that's barely even important (probably because we're both stubborn and refuse to change our minds). Or on weekends, he won't even bother communicating (calling, AIM) for days in a row. On those days, I'm just asking myself why we're even together.
What the hell do I do? I feel like our relationship has bipolar disorder or something. (link)
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LOL @ your relationship being bipolar...To me it sounds like theres nothing wrong with your relationship.I mean ofcourse after a year your going to be a little sick of eachother and if you didnt have those heated arguements id probably think there was soemthing wron with the relationship. all these things are what makes the relationship real.to me it sounds like you enjoy eachother's company so dont throw it awya because of your arguements.you need to be strong.youv got this far why not work at it a little bit longer?
talk to him and ask him what he wants.do you know how he feels?ask him not to get angry with you because you just wnat to have an adult conversation to see how we both feel and what you both want.maybe even make a list or pros and cons and weight out the odds.are the arguements the only thing thats bothering you?because if so thats not a good enough reason to break up.If you stopped loving him or werent happy and felt that the spark has completely gone then i would question the relationship
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My boyfriend REALLY wants me to give him head tomorrow night and I told him I would but I have this coldsore on my lip. I think it might be painful to giving him a blow job when I have this coldsore. Should I still give him oral sex or should I tell him I can't right now? Is it safe to anyway? Because my teacher said something about coldsores being contagious and I wouldn't want him to get sores on his...yeah! Thanks for any/all info!!!!!!!! (link)
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NO NO NO dont give him head when you have a cold sore because he will then get it!
id wait till it hheals.hell just have to wait unless he wants it on his thingy too
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I am a 20 year old woman and my boyfriend is 21. We have been togeather for 5 years and living togeather for 3 years. He has always said how much easier it would be if we lived in seperate houses, because we are constantly arguing over who's turn it is to clean what, and he drinks quite a bit. Now recently he is saying he feels like he holds me back and i could make something of myself if i never met him. I explain it wasn't him that changed me but at the same time i think he might have. We have to live togeather because right now finacially we can't afford not too, but i have all of these thoughts swirling in my head. I feel as if i am not getting anything but mixed signals. I love this man with all my heart and i know he loves me but i'm not quite sure we are "in love" anymore. The only thing that scares me is this was my first boyfriend and i couldn't imagine having anyone else by my side for the rest of my life. What do i do!!! (link)
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you stay with him and work something out.even if you have to make a roster.this isnt soemthing huge to argue over.it doesnt matter who cleans what.
you have been together for 5years thats a long time ofcourse it wont feel like it was the first time you guys started dating because at that time you were still getting to know him and excited to see him.
go on dates,go out to dinner, watch movies together.try and surprise eachother now and then
just because the hunny moon stage is over doesnt mean your relationship should be over too.to be honest i praise you for being with someone for 5years some people cant even do a year.
talk to him about it.it seems you both have an open relationship so talk to him and tell him you wnat to go out on dates and be surprised and you need to do the same to him
but whayever you do dont breakup unless your reallly not happy
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my bfs little girl has been with us for the last month. her mother dropped her off one week and said she will see her when she can. the little girl says her mom doesnt love her, that she wont see her, and her mom rather hang out with her bf then her. what do i tell her, its all true but of course i am not saying it is. i tell her that her mom still loves her but what else can i say to make her feel better without getting her hopes up that she will see her again. cause right now she isnt going to for awhile
my bf is getting full custody because this is stupid her getting child support and not seeing her child at all. (link)
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How can someone do that!why would you do that to a child :( your such a sweet person!thank you for being so good to her!
Its so hard because as time goes by shell only ask more questions.you tell her what you have to.Tell her that your sorry her mum isnt here and that her mum told you that she loves her very much.tell her that right now money isnt coming home because she is doing soemthing and if she asks when her mum will be back just say that you dont know.you cant keep covering up for the mum.id probably say some truth but make it sound as if it wasnt so bad.like tell her that the mum isnt going to come home at the moment because she has soemthing to do but told youn to tell her that she loves you and wants you to smile and be the little angel that you always are.either way.whatever you tell that poor little girl itll hurt because at the end of the day her mum isnt coming back any time soon
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my friend told me that she's jealous because my eyes and eyebrows comes off "strong" and "defined" what does that mean? (link)
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it means like your eyes are beautiful and noticeable.like when someone looks at your thats the first beautiful thing they notice about you.Some people have really light eyesbrowls and their shape isnt very nice so i guess she means that yours are nicely shaped and your eyes are big and gorgeous. let me show you some examples
http://www.helpfulhealthtips.com/Images/H/How-to-shape.jpg
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_BH4AkUxj8GY/ScG2W2sPJlI/AAAAAAAAG9U/XaCJ_ozN0Sc/s320/Christian-Dior-Spring-2009-Collection-Backstage-Beauty-Defined-Eyebrows.jpg
http://students.ou.edu/K/Rakesh.Kodi-1/images/039_44797~Penelope-Cruz-Posters.jpg
http://morningbounce.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/kim-kardashian-showing-stuff.jpg
http://www.raptalk.net/images/NicoleScherzinger.jpg
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Like all my friends are so much prettier then me. Like i have one who's super skinny and is just really random and fun. And then my other one is Just plain beautiful. it sucks because since i always hang out with them boys are always flirtin with them and they just look right over me. I hate it. Im like the second choice. Is there anything i can do to get boys to like me or be prettier?? (link)
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everyone is beautiful.God didnt leave anyone out.i mean beauti isnt just from your looks ints from what you do,say,feel,and how you live.lol i promise that will be my only spiritual speech. the only way you can be bautiful is just be yourself.dont be shy just be whoever you are.maybe even try flirting with guys too?touch their arm or laugh with them.just be what you can be.be confident in yourself because if you keep thinking that your ugly or not as pretty and make your friends as your benchmark then your going to be misrable your whole life.even if you dont get a guy today or tomorrow theres always more days to come.life isnt all about boys.i know you know that.dont chase after then just let them come to you and in the meantime all you can do is just be the best you can be :)
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My best bud Lance has been dating this girl Rebecca (aka becca) for about 4-6 months now, and i feel like shes a total snob towards him. I mean me and her were friends a while back, so i decided this would be a good chance to rekindle that friendship with her. And it worked but, lately she has been ignoring me, giving me dirty looks, and talking behind me back. She is totaly agressive and does kick-boxing so she also punches my friends and i. I for one dont apriciate that, and she seems to snap at everyone who talks to her. Like a chihuahua. I confronted Lance about this(in case your wondering) and he said he was going to talk to her about it. And i can tell he did because she keeps her distance now.
I still want to be friends with her, even if i do like her man. she knows i do too. But that has never been a problem until now. Is there a way to keep a calmer, more peaceful friendship going?
-Olie (im 14/f Lance is 15/m and becca is 15/f) (link)
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oh no!i once had a friend that was two faced like that.seriously i know that you want to be her friend but i wouldnt.especially when she does kickboxing.what if she gets older and decides youv pissed her off and wants to fight you?i think ofcourse you should talk to her and even if you havent done anything wrong apologise because you dont want this tension between you two.ask her why shes angry and just talk it out.
then slowly slip away and distance yourself from her.be friend and say hi to eachother but i wouldnt be a good friend with her.
I think she maybe angry because you still talk to her b.f and she feels threatened or jealous.if you wnat to keep the peace then id probably distance myself from her b.f too.you dont want to be the reason they break up fo you?i mean they may stay together forever or they may breakup either way you cant get involved.just be friends but not close firends because he may go tell his gf about what you both talked about and she may get angry or jealous..trust me you dont want to go there bub!
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you have this person whom you know by name only in high school. he migrated to London after high school.. and then you met years later during an event.. constant communication formed after he left... is it possible to fall in love for this guy even though your a thousand miles apart? i mean, by the way he writes his post.. his blogs.. his pictures.. is it possible? because there's something pulling me towards him.. i've done a lot of things to avoid thinking about him.. but my feelings for him got deeper as we talked online.. :| (link)
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its soo very possible!its not as if youv never met him.you know him,youv spoken to him and you cant stop thinking about him.its very normal.for example i have a friend that met a guy online and they had nevr met just chatted and web camed etc and were in a long diatance relationship for over a year and he finally moved to be with her and theyr still together!its very veryy fine.i myself am in a long distance relationship. we had met etc just like you and we started talking online and i fell for him that way.he doesnt have to physically be there in front of you for you to fall for him.if you get along with him and he says the right things then ofcourse youd fall for him.thats how humans are.
the question is.do you think its worht falling for him?is there a chance that you two would be together?do you think he likes/loves you back?what im trying to say is,its ok to love him but what happens next?
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