My boyfriend REALLY wants me to give him head tomorrow night and I told him I would but I have this coldsore on my lip. I think it might be painful to giving him a blow job when I have this coldsore. Should I still give him oral sex or should I tell him I can't right now? Is it safe to anyway? Because my teacher said something about coldsores being contagious and I wouldn't want him to get sores on his...yeah! Thanks for any/all info!!!!!!!!
I wouldn't suggest you actually use the word "herpes" when you explain to your boyfriend why you can't give him oral. Just say that you have a cold sore, that it is contagious, and you don't want to give him cold sores on his penis. You can then expect his enthusiasm for oral sex to drop accordingly.
sia answered Wednesday May 26 2010, 5:11 am: NO NO NO dont give him head when you have a cold sore because he will then get it!
id wait till it hheals.hell just have to wait unless he wants it on his thingy too [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
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