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my friends tell me i give good advice,
i hope i can help somebody.
i've been more than you think for a 14 year old.

"never judge a book by its cover,inside on those pages could be the best love story in the world"- lea ellen

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14/f... just wondering if 34B is small for my age. Please help - I'm really worried!!!

ima 34c and 34b is perfectly fine for your//our age.

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i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks.

thirteen//fourteenish.. and still a virgin.. and waiting till marrage

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do girls like the smell axe or tag.

i personally hate the smell of both.. but out of the two.. some axes..

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My dance iz comin upp!! i have to choices on wat to wear.. I could wear RIPPED JEANS N A SHIRT or A SHORT SKIRT WITH SOME HIGH HEELS. what would you perfer?

i would pick a short skirt with some high heels. but jeans would be more comfy.

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what are common expressions that you say to the person you love or husband/wife

something like,

You are the _______ in my ________.

or

You put the _______ in ________.

Ive heard those before but I cant remember what the words are.

I need something like that to say to my boyfriend for our anniversary. THANK YOU

sunshine of my life//you put the love in lovely

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Last saturday I went on a "date" with my guy friend Jake. After we went out to eat, we sat in his car for a few minutes and just talked. I've never hugged him, or anything. But we were sitting there, and I put my head down to pick something up when he touched my hair and said, I love your hair. you look so beautiful with it. After that I was like, omgosh he's the best guy ever! Is this normal? Like just from him touching my hair and telling me I look beautiful - like I think I'm really starting to like him.

Sorry if this sounds cheesy.

aww he sounds wonderful. yes that is perfectly normal. you should get to know him better, and DEFINATELY let him touch your hair more..hehe.. maybe more dates with him, will get ya'll alot closer.

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my friend is so chubby and i want to help her get skinny but she wont listen what should i tell her. she thinks shell get skinny when shes older but the truth is if she keeps on eating like this she will be obese for the rest of her life!

i'm sorry to say this, but you can't really decide for her. you should just encourage her to excersize with you and be a good influence on her. just keep telling her that'd you'll always be there when she's ready to get her act together and living her life better.

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what are some pretty,and uncommon names? please dont say things like,jessica,jennifer,katherine,there pretty but they are all to common! thanks for the help! i rate to 5's :)

layla, eliza, lea (pronounced lee)armaneeda(i seriously know someone named that)cici (and that too)maleika,shandra
hope it helps.

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I have had really bad razor bumps under my armpits for awhile now. I have tried everything! I use shaving cream, I have used creams, I have tried different types of razors. I dont know what else to do they're embarrassing. Please help!

when you shave, use oil of olay body wash and use that dove deodarent. it'll make the skin softer.

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My face skin is really dry and the dry skin starts to like fall off. I think its very nasty. Is there anyway i can get my face skin not to be dry?

try oil of olay, its light but does the trick. you can buy it in big or small bottles.

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ive been going out with a guy for two weeks and now i want to dump him because i just dont like him anymore and liked the way it was before but this whole week we have been fighting because i cant seem to act normal around him and i dont kno how to dump him because he gets this look in his eyes and i just cant what should i do to break up with him?i rate high!

ok.. i know this is gonna sound mean,but if you want to avoid seeing his eyes (and i know the look, i've had it happen to me, and i can do it) call him and break up..or write him a note and give it to him as he's leaving school.
just make sure to tell him,that you still want to be friends.

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13/m
There is this kid at my school who annoys me and I can hardly focus on my work in the classes we have in common. I told the adults about the sitiuation and they said I had to deal with it.
Im usualy a calm person but sometimes I get pissed. Can any1 help? fives go out to the best answers.Oh, and by the way, he's still 12.

personally, i'd slap that mother f*cker right across the face.and then continue to beat the livin sH*t outta him...personally of course....
but other than that.i got nothin

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you know the song gold digger by jamie fox and kanye west? well i know this sounds stupid, but what is a gold digger?

a person who just uses someone to get to that persons' $money$.

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Ok last night my sisters bouyfriend raped me. He said that the only reason that he was dating my sister was to get closer to me and that he watched me all the time. I haven't told anyone yet because I am scared and my sister is always telling me how much she loves him and that she wants to marry him. And I know that I should tell her because he is a jerk and I dont want her to make any wrong decisions but I can't because I dont want to break her heart. How can I tell her and my family that he raped me?? Because everyone in our family thinks he is a great guy and he wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone but he hurt me and I don't know if my family will believe me and my sister might think that I am just making this all up because I am jealous. How should I tell them??


Thanks!!!!

oh god. i'm so sorry for you.
you could just sit down with your sister and explain the whole situation and tell her he raped you.
or you could go to a counselor at school and tell them. the counselor mightve gone through the exact same thing. if you need someone to talk to, you can im me anytime i'm on. (my sn is on my column)

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I want a new sn because I have had mine forever...here is some stuff about me to help..

1. I cheer
2. I live in Texas
3. I beleive in love
4. I love silly things

yup, i would definately like some help..

sillytexascheerlover

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hey everyone - my dress for a formal is mainly black with a very light pink ribbon. My question is should i find very light pink shoes? It would be really hard for me because i am already tall so i dont want over a 2 inch heel, and i dont want them to be over 60 bucks. So should i find matching light light pink shoes? or what other colors would work? how about gold? thanks so much!

get black or gold shoes definitly

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what is a really GOOD popup blocker?

i've got an anti virus that has a pop up blocker with it. i believe its microsoft anti-spyware... err something.. hope it helps.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating 3 months. We both have decided that we're not going to throw around the word 'love'. Seeing as most 14 year old couples do. So this is what we do..

When we do say i love you, we agreed we should only say it when we feel the moment is suitable, but we both know that when we say it we mean 'like is too small of a word, but love might be too strong of a word'

Other times we just say like 'I like you a whole lot', but we both know it's not just a normal 'crush' kinda of like.
Do you understand what I mean?

Does anyone think this is a stupid way of going about things?

no that sounds perfectly fine. it actually sounds like the right thing to do for our age couples (i'm 14 too)

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Ok im a guy and im lettin my hiar grow out cus it looks bad when short but its growing out straight so my question is how do i make my hair curl alittle with out specail shampoo or curlers or anything else that guys shouldnt us

personally, i can't stand when a boy has long hair. as for wavy//curly hair... i'd say just towel dry it when you get out of the shower.

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ok i am 18 and i live with my sister (well freind who is so close she is practically a sister) and her fiance. now the two of them are always having sex. like she and i will be playing cards and he asks her to come upstairs. well she comes back like a half hour to an hour later and i knew they were having sex cuz i could hear them. there is no way to drown them out b/c i dont have a cd player and we dont have a tv. and they are so loud i can hear them throughout hte whole house and many times outside the house. it is kinda disturbing, because they go at it multiple times a day, and not even give a shit that i am in the house and am forced to listen to them b/c i don;t have anything else to do. what am i supposed to do? what can i do to block them out or how can i tell her that them having sex is so annoying for me to hear them all the time. its almost as if she is rubbing it in my face that she can have sex b/c i swear they are loud on purpose. and i am a virgin so it is like she is saying "haha i can have sex and you arent". am i reading into this wrong? how can i confront her aobut it? what should i say? please help me out. i am so sick of hearing them having sex.

its totally understandable that you dont want to hear them have sex. and you arent reading to much into this. just.. tell them that you can hear them having sex and ask them if they could be a little quieter or just tell you that they need some alone time.. and when they tell you that they need some time alone, just, go to the mall or a movie or over to a friends house.

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