Okay...this is gonna be kinda long, but i really really need help. There's this guy I know, Alan...and he moved here from Utah, and I had a crush on him when i first met him, we go to the same church. well, i was real close to telling him, but one of my BEST friends took him. Then dumped him 8 months later. my mom invited him and his sister to come with us to Great America, a few months later. well, i finally got the guts and told him, and he told me he didn't really really like my friend like he does me. and we held hands on the ride home, and I'm only 13, and our religion says we arn't allowd to have a relationship until we're 16. and so i was really nvervous, esp. since his little sis (10 y/o) was sitting right next to us. It's been a year, and he keeps trying to hold my hand and kiss me an stuff, and i really don't think it's appropriate, and I've told him time and time again, that i think it's not right, and that we should wait a few years. well, he won't stop, and now we're in highschool. I'm really uncomferatable around him, esp. when we're alone. How do i get it through his head, i've tried just ignoring him, and i've tried talking to him. I dont' know what to do. His family moves around a lot, and i really don't want to let him down, cuz i know his past, it's been really rough for him. what do i do, I don't know how long he'll be living here. so I dont' know if I should just let him go, and tell him i don't like him, or just to put up with it until he moves again.
PLEASE HELP, i Rate really really High!
Signed,
Confused and stressed
I will give you my personal opinions and you can use them but i really think you should do what you think is right... but what i think is that you sound like a great person... i am not religous or anything but why do something wrong just for a guy that may move soon.. i know you dont want to be mean but you sound uncomfortable and you should never be uncomfortable so i personally think that you should just stick to what your religion says!! hope i helped!!
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ok well this guy his name is kevin and we've hung out like 2 times with other people and the first time we played ghost in the graveyard and hes like i got becky (me) and he kept like picking me to be it cuase i wasnt playing and then the second time we were at park with my frend sarah and these 3 other guys and like we were there for a long time and if i said something funny he would always laugh and like he would look at me and he is absoluatly HOT and i like him alot and i dont know if he likes me ... cause im not the girl who would go out with a guy i mean i never have so what do i do?
By what you have it sounds like he may like you!!! you should deffinately like try to go out with him and if you dont like it you can always break up with hinm!!!
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Ok i keep trying to answer a question and this site keeps signing me off.... Its get aggervating because ive tried a few times and it keeps telling me too log on when i am.... Like it keeps signing me off........ ANy advice why??
You might wanna try restarting your computer or even getting a new account!
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Ok im 14 and i never got my period. i just want someone 2 tell me what happens b4 you do
Much luv thanx
Bloating, cramps, you tend to be crabbier and annoyed easily, and you crave things usually like salty things and chocolate!!
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Hey. I hugged another guy. I have a boyfriend (of over a year a 6months) and my boyfriend who I love soo much got mad, and he doesnt trust me.
what should I do? we are still together, but things are shaky. I know he still loves me coz he told me he did, when he came over to my house to hear the whole story. So that has to mean something.
What are some sweet things I can do?
BTW i have no idea why I hugged the other guy! I wouldn't ever date him! crazy! When I hugged him, I got the worst feeling in the world, it didnt feel good. I got a stumach ache, and wanted to run away. And I felt like I was gonna puke. It was @ work. and after I hugged him, because I felt so bad I ran out of there!
-thanks a million!
I'll rate and leave feedback!
-Kelsee-
hunn, hugging is not bad!!! hugging is jus like a handshake only nicer and friendlier i mean its not like you love the guy cus of it... you need to talk to you boyfriend cus he obviously has jealousy issues!!!
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I know this is kind of a stupid question to ask because I shouldn't care what people think, but I'm new to my school and I want to fit in and not get made fun of so I was just wondering if Etnies and DVS shoes are just for "skaters" or what. I don't want to be called a poser - and I know I shouldnt care what people think - but like I said, I'm new and don't want to get made fun of. Thanks in advance.
Well I am not sure what the school is like but you know everyone is wearing those kind of shoes and i dont think you will be called a poser for it i mean maybe you could like look at someone who like lives near you and see what kinda shoes they are wearing. i mean i know at my school everyone has those shoes and no one is called a poser only a few times by the real skaters... so ya i think it will be fine since they are in style right now!! hope i helped!!
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i need help my x boyfriend which lives in georgia and i was talkin to him on the internet and i was like watcha doin he says listenin to music and bout 2 stab my self i was like y he says life sucks and their is no point of living i dont knw wat to do. than he says the one person i loved broke my heart in2 millions of peices dat nothin can fix i dont knw wat to do someone plz help me!!
you need to call him or call someone that you know would be able to get to him... like a parent or something or sibling even if he really isnt going to he shouldnt be saying that!! so he needs to get help!! you really shoudl contact someone or tell you parents and maybe they can help!! hope this helps!!
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is the motorola v3 razr like a guy phone? and do you guys think its an ugly phone or not? i want some opinions.. thanks!!
i am a girl and i dont think it is a guy phone at all in fact like all my freinds have it and if i had motorola i'd get it too but i think it is kinda cool!! hope helped!!
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i was just wondering what the website or where do you go to download the program or whatever to go on more than one sn (aim) at a time? thanks in advance.
on your buddy list go to the my aim tab and go to manage linked screen names and then a box comes up and you click the button that says link/unlink screen names.
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I don't have much time in my crazy schedule and my boyfriend and have gotten really close lately and hang out all the time... my friends are getting annoyed and are saying that i don't spend enough time with them. i try really hard to do things with them, but it seems that i can never fit everyone in.. i want to stay close to my boyfriend but i don't want to lose my friends either.. comment please!
I went throug the same thing and you know what i chose my boyfriend and i was ruined... all my friends stopped liking me and all i did was hang out with my boyfriend and then my boyfriend and i broke up and i was left with no friends.... boyfriends come and go but your friends will always be there for you.. i mean that is just what happend to me you do what you think but i hope i helped a lil bit!!
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well the other day when my friend slept over it was time to put our pj's on and i usually go into the bathroom to get changed and my friend just started to take it all of in front of me and i got nervous so i went to the bathroom.....does that mean anything?? like did she want to see me naked or somthing?? because she is usually a private person about that stuff
signed confused?
i rate 5's for GOOD answers
PS im a girl
Well my friends and i usually change in front of each other i mean cus we are all girls... i mean do you have issues in the locker room or anything like that.. i'm sure she just thought that because you are both girls that you wouldnt mind... but if this is bothering you a lot you should confront her about it!!! hope i helped!!
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ahh its so embarrasing one of my lovehandles is bigger than the other.. ugh how do i get ride of lovehandles??
i find that crunches and sit ups help and even side bends... running kinda helps but i think crunches are the best!! hope i helped!!
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When I'm giving my boyfriend a hand job or head, how do I tell if he likes it? I don't know if I'm doing it right or not..
There really arent alot of ways to do it wrong i mean is he cumming at the end? if so then you are good and just keep doing it the right way... if you still dont think so then possibly ask him how he likes it like if he wants you to do something different! hope i helpe!!
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i want to get my boyfriend something for his birthday.my problem is that he says he doesnt want anything..so what do i do?
hes turning 15
When people say they dont want gifts they usually really do but you might just want to get him something small like a stuffed animal or maybe if you have any inside jokes between you two you could get him like something to remind him of it or even a pic of you or both of you together!!! hope i helped!!
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I haven't even had my period for a year and it comes like every two weeks and lasts like 5 days... it sucks! Is this normal?
Thanks!
You should either tell your parents or go see a doctor just to be on the safe side!!
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well first i am 14/f, and anyone makes fun of my question in anyway, i will report you and get you banned. and well people who are willing to help, please help i need help ASAP. my problem is this. i am crushing on a gay guy. i just met him and he first denied that he was, but today he told me and my friend that he is gay. but he is fits so perfect for my dream prince. he likes stuff i like, and such. not to mention he is sooo hot.
so please, is there anyway i can turn him straight? i know it will be really hard and i can't help it because its like hormon, but i have heard of few stories that it can happen. but i dont know how, and please dont say give up, because i know most of you will try to do that but i already know that , but i have to try at least!! so please please help me.
i rate 5 if it helps even a little.
Well hun im sorry there really is no way that you can i know just how you feel though because i have like 5 gay friends and they just are like that i mean i ask them what they dread the most and all of them say being straight i mean they like being gay and there really isnt any thing you can do about it! and you say that people should say dont give up but are we supposed to lie to you? i mean what i did when i fell hard for one of my gay friends i just told him bout it and he laughed it off and kissed me just for fun and i eventually got over it... so my advice to you is just to tell him and see how he reacts or just make a move on him and maybe he will end up being bisexual... hope that helps!! adn good luck!!
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