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Im going out with this guy i really like but when ever we talk on the phone theirs nothing to talk about. I dontknow wht to do it can get akward. Im not shy im far from that anyone would say that but its just i cant think of anything to say can you help?

Talk about anything basically. Say something about what you did today. And then that will lead into things. Talk about his favorite sports. Valentines day like what he wants. Hope i helped!

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can you please tell me how/what/why is ....

mastuerbating (how)
hand job (how/what)
fingering (how/what)
when a guy 'busts' (what/why)
when you pop your 'cherry' (what/why)
or anything else like this im 17/f and totally mature and no one has told me any of these
thanks so much if u can

Mastuerbating is..with a guy he (jacks off is another term) goes up and down and makes him self cum. With a girl its when you finger yourself and make your self cum. Handjob is basically a girl mastuerbating to a guy. She goes up and down on his 'below area' untill he cums.Fingering is when a guy fingers a girl. He can use one two three or how many fingers he wants, it feels good. When a guy bust, its when he gets a hand job, blow job, and sex. He'll bust when hes horny, and has like a boner. When you pop your cherry its when a guy fingers you too deep or yous have sex too hard. You bleed like you have your period. It hurts. Hope i helped any others please feel free to ask!!

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ok well i have been going out with this guy for a while now and every thing is going really good but i want to take it to the next leave and i dont know what to do can anyone help me

p.s. i dont really know how to give a guy head or like how i am supposed to let him fingure me can anyone help me please?

Well the next level it depends how far you've went before.If you only made out the next step would be handjob and fingering. For a handjob you just grip not so tight but not loose and go up and down until the guy busts.Fingering is when the guy sticks finger/fingers up your 'area'. it feels good and you dont have to do anything just sit. THe next step after is head and eating out.Head is when you just go up and down using your mouth and let the guy bust in your mouth. For a bj you can use your hands too it dont really matter. For eating out a guy pratically just eats your "area" and it feels really good.Hope i helped!Anything else leave me a inbox.

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i`ve never shaved 'down there'..i`m scared i`ll get razor burn, but it really bugs me and i want it all gone..without getting it waxed. Does using shaving cream keep it from no razor burn? what else could i use so i dont get it, because i`m in a swim class at my school..and i really dont want red bumps to be visible. i use a venus razor, if that counts for anything..

You can take sissors and trim before you use a razor ..then use shaving cream and shave it in the shower

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Well valintines day is comeing up...and its my b day on valintines day i know im special jk. Anyway theres this boy i wanna ask to be my valintines. Hes been my friend since pre k and i dont know if he likes me. I have a boyfriend but since the last time i saw him well its been 2 months and he just disapeared. I guess he moved. But anyway i said to my self its time to move on and i really want a valintine. Ive never had one before. And any ideas pleez? gracias.

WHOA. you 'have a boyfriend that u havent seen for two months or heard for him' MOVE ON sorry chicka.um..for valetine get him some chocolate and a card or something. gl

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what does IM mean??? i've been told to IM someone... i'm confused!!! lol. is it some american thingy??? coz i'm australian.

instant message

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okay im with this guy. i REALLY like him a lot and everything and im into being active with a guy like making out and everything. i've given head and been fingered and made-out with a guy before all in one night and it was my frist time for everything, but im not sure if my boyfriend right now is into all of that. He said he's eaten a girl out,fingered, and made-out, but i was talking to this other guy (that im kinda interested in) and he said that he probably wouldn't do anything with me. BUT my problem is..i really want to do stuff with this other guy and we've talked and everything..and decided that if we do mess around, neither one of us is going to tell anyone else. Im not sure what to do. I really like my boyfriend, but i REALLY wanna mess around with this other guy! Would it be bad for stuff to happen and noone find out? ahh.

Well talk to your boyfriend about doing sexual things. Otherwise yes it would be really bad..unless u keep it a GOOD secret and let no one find out..but thats going to be hard to do, your just horny. iM me and tell me how things go!!!!!!!!!! i know your situtation ive been put in it before. hope i helped

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ok well my bf and i have been dating for about 3 months and valentines day is around the cornor and i don't know wat to get him! i don't want to get him something really stupid that hes not gonna like but i want to get him something that shows i really love him! so if u have any ideas! let me know! thanks a bunch

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You can get him a chain.braclet.chocolate.tshirt.if you write in a diary about him, usualy ; hed be interested to read it.cologe of all your pictures together.cologn.Hope i helped

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People are always saying not to do anything until you're totally and fully ready. Well, my boyfriend is ready to finger me and I want him to and i want to be ready but like..how can i become ready?

Well for the h/j part. I was kind of scared the first time i did it so like as a joke id be like "what percentage are you at" so hed tell me and usually if you dont want it on you roll up your seleves and go under a blanket. if he doesnt mind. And to be ready just make sure u really like him. hope i helped

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In your opinion, is 13 years old too young to be fingered? If you really can't get any STDs then what's the harm?

If you think you ready go for it. but believe it leads into things. Like sex.

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hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?

thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY

You should definitly tell him. If he loves you enough, it wont effect the relationship if anything hed care for you more. hope i helped

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OK. See me and my b/f have been going out for a little over three months...everytime i see him all we really do is make out. i mean he has gone up my shirt, but he hasnt tried to go any farther than that. im starting to get tired of the same old thing everytime i see him. why wont he go farther with me? another thing is... i want him to finger me and i know he wants to because he told my friend he wanted to but he never has, and he told her this when we had only been dating a month. if he does finger me tho im scared that he wont like it because i have hair... down there... should i shave it? what do guys perfer? does it really matter? plz answer ill rate sincerely confused

Okay well you should talk to him. Tell him you want to move the relationship a little bit further see what he thinks. If he wants to finger you ask him if you should shave.. and if your embarresed to do that like make it into a joke belike.. DO YOU SHAVE... because when i give u a hj i would noe and just laugh and he would prob. ask u the same question back, or be like do you want me to. and laugh about it. hope i helped

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Hey, im really scared about doing stuff sexually with a guy because of some of the stuff with my body..do guys care what a body looks like? i have stretch marks on my boobs because they grew so fast..and i have little dots on my but..and i dont know why? i just wanted to ask you if a guy cares about what his girlfriends body looks like to do sexual stuff with her.. i havent done anything yet...but im scared of what might happen when we do stuff..thanks!

well a guy might care it depends what kind of boyfriend you have, if u ever do do something. try it in the dark? tell him you'll be more comfortbale doing it in the dark. hope i helped

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well, i had this boy that was a close friend when i wasn't single. When i did become single, he fell in love with me, and he wants to go out with me. I like him as a friend.
But me and one of my other exes has been talking lately. He asked me on a date to a valentine's ball, and i was going until my close friend said that he wants to come to my house and we'll spend time together on that same day. I don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings, and i wanna spend time with both of them, but I don't know who to spend time with for v-day! Who do you think?

Well your x asked u first you should really go with him, or who do you have feelings for more?.also maybe if their at different times hang out with him earler..then tell him ur going sumwhere else and go to the dance.hope i helped

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well, Im super scared for my friend. She asked me thia question. "If you're giving a guy a hand job, and he whipes some of the stuff away, and then fingers you, can you get pregnate?"

I have no clue, and i wanna help her and be there for me! Please help me (well, i guess it would be my friend)

If you don't know dont answer, because I only want to tell her the real truth!

thanks!

Theres a slim chance...he shouldve washed his hands

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I know we really aren't supposed to ask homework questions but I really need help. I have Algebra finals next week and I do NOT understand how to do these types of problems: Factor- 2x - x + 4, x - 81, and 4x - 13x - 30 = 0. Whenever I ask my algebra teacher all he says is: "HOW CAN YOU NOT GET IT????" and then he just explains it the same way all over again and I still don't get it. I'm already at a C- in his class and I'm normally an A - B and nothing lower student so this is bad. I really need help. If I don't pass this exam I could fail. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Instant message me im in honor's math..SFTBALL SWTiE130..im excellent in math!

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The situation is as follows:
-I would like to buy a digital camera
-I would like fairly decent zoom ability
-I would like removable storage
-My budget is $200
I've been trying to do some research but I'm feeling pretty confused. There are so many options and I know so little about all of them. Any advice from people who actually have a digital camera or know a fair amount about them would be fantastic. Is it possible to get what I want within my budget? What brands should I look for?

Okay well i bought a digital camera for i think 300 dollars. But with that your going to need a case, a memory stick cause the one your camera would usually come with is only limited 10 pictures. and memory sticks are exspensive. and all this other junk. so your going to need to get one for about 100 150. hope i helped

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It was about 11pm and i called my mom at the train station when i was walking home. I asked if she was even home, she said she was at her friends house. Okay, that was a lie. I have never seen this women go out 4 times a week with the SAME people. So being a smartass i am i said, "Oh, are you with your boyfriend?" She was in shock! She dosnt know that i know she has a bf:

Actually i guessed. It was obvious. Reason 1) Look at her Cladagguh Ring 2)I see her sneeking out after midnight way to many times 3)When i told my brother, he said he met the guy.

Anyways, when i got home she was nowhere in sight. This morning when i woke up, i was waking downstairs when something outside caught my eye, there was a red car in my driveway. "Oh shit, they're in my grandparents room!" I froze staring out the window and hearing a footstep downstairs.

How should I Confront my mom???

You probably think its weird or your uncomfortable with her having a boyfriend. you dont want him to replace your real dad. its okay just let her have some fun. and if its serious all step parents try to be extra nice..so you'll get something out of it

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what are some different ways to masturbate an for the pleasure to last longer? Thanks

if your a girl..you can buy some toys maybe..and watch some porn on tv

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Hi, I'm a 14 year old, girl Freshman. Recently this guy moved to my school. He is a Senior and he rides my bus on the way to school and from school. After a few weeks of being here, he started to talk to me. He got me to write him notes and I only like him as a friend. But quickly after that he began asking personal questions like, "Are you a virgin?", "What have you done with guys?", or "Do you want another guy to do that to you?" He doesn't want me to go out with any other guy. He wants me to go out with him. It is getting really annoying. He is the most perverted guy I have ever met and everytime I wear a skirt he is always peeking up it! I can't stand him! Now he wants me to sit in the back of the bus in the morning so he can do stuff or whatever. I said, "No!" of course and made up an excuse. Then yesterday he told me to skip 3rd and 6th period at school so he can 'do' me ith the bathroom. I am only a virgin and he is 18 I think! I don't know what to do. I tell my guyfriends and they say 'smack him', but I'm not violent.
Please help! This guy is so annoying. I don't like him anyway. He does drugs, smokes, and drinks. He is not my type and he has sex with all these girls! I don't want to have sex until I am WAY older! What should I do? Will this turn into something bad later? Thanks for the help!

Tell a teacher, tell a parent, an adult, tell your office, princable or tell him to leave you the f*ck alone.

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