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Q: ok so im 5'5 and weigh 170 i have alot of muscle so i dont look like it' but i would still like to lose 20-30 lbs. and i dont know how. i want to lose it as fast as possible but i dont wanna do anything that isnt healthy. thnx
well start eating healthyer cut the junk food if you eat it drink alot of water and stuff like O and exersize.
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Q: ok so sometimes at night i cant sleep and im up and i get the munchies i know its not healthy to eat junkie foods especially after like 5 o clock ive tried like nectarines and fruit but it actually leaves an empty feeling in my stomach any ideas? thanks bunches!
well you shoulde try eating something lite like some craker and chesee or drink a glass of milk or lots of water it does not sound like some thing filling but it works cuz i get them to.
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Q: I kinda forgot my moms birthday... what should I buy her? She's really athletic and she travels a lot. They don't have to be in those categories but if it helps... then okay. And it can't be too expensive either, like under 30 bucks.
well look for travle stuff like a bag to put her eprsonal stuff in it like her shampo and stuff like that those aren't that much or you could get her bath stuff to relax her or every mom loves this get her a manacure and a pedacure all moms love those!
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Q: im going to be moving into a new house and the room that i get is pretty small compared to the bigg room i had before, does anyone know any good idea to make the room bigger??
and also any good themes for my room, and if u do any good websites to check out for room decorating?
thanks so much!
well you could NOT paint it white because white is so bla you could paint it like black or like a dark color. and a good theem hummm let me think........ o you could do stripes or the american flag or do you fav sports team or stuff like that or you could do a red and black theem!
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Q: im sick..i have a lil bit of a fever and yesterday i got with my boyfriend a few times but i got cold beofre i did but like do u think he is ok. i dont kno how he is feeling but what do u think
i think you should call him and ask him that would be the smart thing to do!
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Q: ok i share a room with my sister.. i have limited space but i want to redo my side.... i just got a kewl new bed.. its a daybed... so.. i need a good comforter and accesories.. the room is green and pink.. so help out
go to wal mart or www.walmart.com
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Q: how come like in the middle of a kiss guys like to bite your lip a lil?..sorry if its a weird question. but please answer.thanks
because they are freaks!

Q: Where can i find a web site to help me look for an old doll i found. It is a Mattel doll made in 1964. has strawbreey blonde type of hair & is on red roller skates!!!! She takes batterys. Please give me a web site to see how much she is worth!& Please dont give me ebay!!!!!!! that site didnt work ! i tryed!!! thank for all the help !!!

I rate High!!!!!!!
google it

Q: im sitting her bawling. heres the story, ok well my friend (matt) was talking to my friend (susie) and they were both talking to me too, ok well susie ims me and shes like matt just said im pretty lol. then i say to matt you think susies pretty and it was all like a joke and everything but susie got mad b.c i told him and all this stuff, so i apoligize 43 times (literally) and she dosnet even talk to me i know it might seem like it is my fault but u have to kno my friend, she stabs me in the back alot and this one little thing didnt even matter i think she just wanted to get mad or something so im like begging for her 4giveness and ive never even like been mad at her or showed me being mad b.c i value my "friends" and i dont like confrontantions...well eventually she forgave me but acted like it was a privilagge or something but now i just feel so small and used like i should have stood up for myslelf, i dont really have a ? i guess i just need some guidance or soemthing

thank you
well if i were you then i would drop her i know it will be hard but if she is like that then i would.
good luck
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Q: why does drinkin cold slushy make u get a brain freeze?
i du no google it

Q: hi im 13 and i bought this one thong and i havent worn it yet because if i wear it it will have to be washed and if it gets washed my mom will see it and if she does i think i will bein trouble because i dont know if my mom is alright with me wearing thongs. Everyone wears them in my school but idk if my mom will be alright with it and im afraid to ask her. What can i do to wear one without getting in trouble?
wash your won clothes

Q: i was wondering if it is ok to have your horse as your best freind
well i gusse but i would think you would need a person who you can talk to but hey why not!

Q: ok so today my dad invoted me and my bro to go the the batting cages. I went for fun and plus i love baseball. SO i was doing awesome on hitting the baseball and everything but my dad never even payed attention to me. Then he was like why dont you try the softball. and i didnt want to but he made me anyways. But it serioucly screwed up my baseball hitting and i sucked at softball and he was encouraging me there. But like i said he never watched my hitting the baseballs... he was totally ignoreing it. Is he one of those dads that thinks girls cant do sertain sports? i mean i hate softball... but its like he doesnt give me a chance and theres no way im a girly girl... plz help!! sorry that its so long..
well you could say next time if you go again while your hitting the base balls say ''hey dad whatch me!''
hope i helped. and good luck
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Q: okay well tomorrow or thursday this guy that i like is gonna come down to my house .. i only have one thing planed and that is watch a movie.. because we won't have to talk because well i won't say he's shy but he's not good at making conversation.. so i realised it would be a good way to just like chill and cuddle :-) but what else can we do because that only takes up like 2 hours or less of the time! any answers would be gladly appreciated.. easy 5
well you could play a bored game or something like that.
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Q: 14/f
Is this just life?
Like almost all my friends has a boyfriend and i have not even had a good relationship with a guy. i feel like im not too good enough for other people. Is there going to be someone there? Is there any way i could do to make someone like me? Please Help!!!
well if i were you then i would just wait becuase im sure there is some body just waiting for you smoe where out there because god a perfect plan for you.
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Q: I'm having a party soon. Dose any one know any good truth and dare questions.
I rate high!
well one could be to kiss your crush/boyfriend on the lips or something like that.

Q: Okay, so I have this shirt that is just right lengthwise but the width of it is too wide. do you know any tricks that i can do to the shirt to make a smaller, without sewing. thanks in advance.
well you could get a pony tail holder and pull some from the side of the shirt and put the pony tail holder around it.
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Q: my cat is breathing hard and his mouth is partly open. and hes just lying on his side a lot! he went into the bathroom and just layed there under the sink for a long time. is he dying? or is it because of the hot weather? When my hamster was dying, she was just lying around and breathing hard. please answer imidiatly. i love my cat.
are you sure your cat is a boy?

Q: ok heres the deal, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months, and in the past week, i havent talk to him, so i talked to this boy lets call him "john" and he called me everynight out of that week and we stayed on the phone till like 6 in the morning and hes so my type, and he likes me, and i know i like him back, last night he told me i love you, and i told him it back, and hes on vacation right now so i wolt talk to him till monday, and the two people i trust the most one told me, that i should leave my boyfriend and go out with john,the other one told me to follow my heart,i dont know what my hearts saying, i tried so hard to let him know how i feel, but all he wants is to be together becuase he said he likes me more then this one girl he went out with and he liked her ALOT, and hes not a very good boyfriend, he doesnt call me, i never see him, the last time i heard his voice was at least two weeks ago, and i feel like ive cheated on him cause i told john i love you back, but i tell alot of people i love you, but i think i really ment it when i told john, i seriously like love him,hes everything ive ever wanted, he tells me how pretty i am out of no where, he listens when i half soemthing to say, hes there for me when im upset, and hes so sweet,we've never gotten in a fight, he said dont break up with your boyfriend until your ready and ill get my chance, but the thing is, i dont know when the time is right how im going to break up with my boyfriend, he thinks we can work on everything, i feel so bad, did i really cheat on my boyfriend?, ive never cheated on my boyfriend before, please help me, i dont know where to turn, and i dont know what else to do, thanks so much
no i do not think you cheated becuase you were just talking to him but i think you should leave your boyfriend because if he does not call you and stuff like that then you should break up with him because if hes your boyfriend then he should do all that stuff and you should see him like every day in stead of 2 weeks apart.
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Q: i feel like i should exercise more but i don't know what to do, i'm really bad at sports and i'm not into running, got any ideas?
try swimming i don't like doing those either or into sports so just try to go swimming.
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hi my name is rachael i like giving advice i think god has given me a special talent i also like surfing the net. my fav movie is either napoleon dynamite or lotr the triligy (i know big difrence). o and i like being random and i like googling things be that is the best place to find all you answers!

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