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ok i have a really bad problem with cheating on my gf weve been going out for like around 6 months and i can never see her out of school and i want to stop but whats the best way to do that im really not sure??
maybe think of why you cheat on her.. cuz chances are you cant care about her that much if you go and cheat, alot! just think of how worhtless your making her feel and how upset she must get. I honestly dont understand how she knows you hvae and you are and can still be with you. maybe when you have the urge to go be with another girl think of your girlfriend, maybe try sayin no, or hang out with your gf instead..leanr some self control.
Hello. I need some advice and knowledge here. I am worried and scared at the same time. I am 22 years old if this makes a difference. On the 11th of last month, I had intercourse for the first time. (long story about the condom) The following week I got my period. But it wasn't the full 7 days as I normally have. Anyway, all this week and all last week I have been sick. I have been nauseated, vomit every other day, tender breast, feeling lousy and tired all the time. Thirsty more than ever! I have been constipated, have ran a low grade fever for the last three nights. These last few days I have had light cramps like I am going to start my period but nothing ever comes. Today I noticed a vaginal discharge but it had a little blood in it. Not a whole lot. My Parents think that I may be pregnant. I don't feel pregnant. I was wondering if it was even possible to be pregnant if it has been a little over a month ago since I have had intercourse. I have taken a test, results were negative. I am supposed to start my period tomorrow. I don't know if I could be pregnant. It just don't seem to add up. Maybe it could be stress? My boyfriend and I broke up three weeks ago. Could it be an illness that I should be concerned about? I am worried and scared at the same time. Please don't say that my body is tricking me into thinking I am pregnant. I deny that I am, and I keep my mind off it, until my parents say something about it. I didn't even think of the possibility until my Mom pointed it out to me mid last week. I have already been having the symptoms of it before she pointed it out. Any advice or knowledge appreciated. Anything will help. Thanks in advance!
ok those are coomon symptoms of preganancy, nd they usuallt dont start to show up unill about 2 weeks later, so it does sound like you could possibly be, but you said you used a condom, was there an issue with it..? ANd just becuase the test came back negative doesnt mean too much take another and see what it says, test will shwo up negative sometiimes. It would probaply be best if you took another test and maybe went to a doctor, if your peroid is commin son wait untill it does/doesnt show up.
good luck!
Ok..my teacher and I are very close. He teaches art. Well..we have a very good teacher and student relationship. But..lately it seems like we're getting closer..like over the student and teacher boundary. I kno im falling for him..its difficult not to..hes soo smart and talented. He's 24..im 17..and..i think we both "know"..these feelings are real...is this wrong? and have u heard of a situation similar? HELP
k so that is normal. and yea maybe abit illegal..the whole age differnce and you being a minr, and the techer could loose his job, but thats only if you get caught! lol honestly though i think that the relationship would be kinda awkward.. but ya never know
I am 15 nad I really like this guy named andrew. well he talks to me every day but only for a minute but everytime we see each other in the hallways he waves at me. He has a girlfriend, but I lkie him a lot. does he like me????? what should I do???
please help.
you should just leave it be. Be friends. If he has a grilfriend respect that and dont pursue him, let him be happy. would you honestly want to be someone who breaks a couple apart?
14/f
SO me and my boyfriend Lets call him Cody were going out for 2 months and he made a promis to me to never break up with me in the beggining of our relationship, things were perfect. and he said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and that i was everyhting to him....but that all changed 5 days ago when he broke up with me......and i am heart broken and i just lost the love of my life. and did i mention he said we could be friends with benifits and he still wants to be bestn friends and hang out and go to movies together and yesterday after track practice we were hanging out waiting for our rides and he kissed me 3 times and he is all over me, he hugs me way more than he ever did when we were going out, but then i ask him if he still lvoes me and he tells me no,and he said he would give me anotehr chance near the summr and that i could count on us going back out and yesterday we had a track meet and i was crying the whole time, and he saw me crying and he just kept looking at me like i was some stranger in his world and he never came and said anyhthing to me like its gonna be alright or nothin like that, and after the track meet i asked him why he kept looking at me and he said because i wanted to know why u were crying and i was like well looking at me is not going to do you any good, you could of came and talked to me if u wanted to know, and he huged anoehr girl and i saw and i am really sad/hurt/heartbroken....i just dont know what to do? please help me figure it out.....and by the sounds of it, is he playing games? does he want me back? does he want me back but is scared to?
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thanx any advise would help. i am totally devidtated to the point were i am not eating bc i am sick to my stumach.
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-Ali Rae
maybe he just wants to be single and be able to do what he wants with any girl. Thats the joy of friends with bennifts. And if thats not something you want you shouldnt be letting him kiss you your hurt and hes being a bit of a tease. move on be firneds but i would keep the bennifts out.
ok i have a boyfrind that i love with him and he says he loves me to but i cant trust him i think he's cheating on me but i like his best friend and he likes me what do i do (sparkles)
if you think hes cheating on you then confront him, if you like his best friends your not inlove, and if you sem to think that hes cheating he prboaply doesnt love you.
Here is the deal.. Lately I've been thinking alot about if god is real or not.. I don't know if I should believe it.. I mostly think that life was created by mostly scientific reasons.. The bible could really be made up from along long time ago..Nobody really knows right? Has anybody ever been touched by god? If I do not believe in god what would I be?
well you could be either athiest or agnostic. Personally I am atheist I find most things revolving around religon hard to believe and i dont agree with many of the beliefs. And thats my own choice. In time you will decied on what beliefs are suitable to you and what you can belive as true. Now with the progressions we have made in science religion is becoming more questionable. And we are always learning new thigns that will contradict it. In the end it is all up to you. look into it and see what suits you best.
I think I might have to be put on birthcontrol because my piriod is always so irregular. I was wondering if I just had to go to the doctor or the gyno? Thanks. =)
you will need a docotr to perscribe brith control to you. you dont need to go to the gyno.
Okay here it is. Im the popular girl in school, and alot of guys think im hot. Oh yah,and please dont answer this if you are just going to say im a bitch or something.Yes,i am hot and pretty and im pretty much use to all the boys wanting me. But there is this girl in my school,a wannabe me. She got the exact same haircut as mine the other day!Can you say:BITCH!!! i know! Anyway,theres this HOTT guy and he barley knows her but he thinks she is hot.GRRR. This is a major problem if you are me! I dont share! Does any one know what i can do to you know well...get him away from her?Im so mad! Shes ugly but im not going to lie,has a nice body.I know people say you dont like someone because of there looks but,i mean come on! One thing i dont do is lie,and beleive me im not lieing SHES UGLY. Sad to day,for her anyway,a few people think so too. Im going to get this guy no matter how much it takes no matter how much clevage because people!, I had a dream that one day ugly people and pretty people(*Me*) do not mix! And i need your help. Maybe you think im concieded so what,if you are too you will probably be able to help! Thanks!I Rate!!!HIGH! ANSWER FAST! Time is wasting :/
soo let me get this straight.. you're supposed to be whats pretty and hot? cuz just from reading this question I think your a very ugly person. "I had a dream that one day ugly people and pretty people(*Me*) do not mix!" What the hell? are you seriously that concited? Your personality makes your ugly, get a life and grow up. If this guy likes the other chick let him be, thats his choice not yours. I hope she gets him. I thnk you should take some time to looka round and realize that this popularity bull shit isnt goin to get you anywhere in life. Whe high schools over your fucked. HAve fun with that. Adn as for the part with the hair cut, is it really that big of a deal? So what some one out of the billinos of people on this earth ahve the same hair as you? OH NO ITS THE END OF THE WORLD! This was an issue when i was in GRADE 4! SO in conclusion get over it and get a life.
how can i gain wait? im 15/f i have a fast matabolism and i cant seem to gain weight past 100. my mom said that if i dont gain weight than she is going to take me to the hospital for crazy people....no offence ok.....and i dont know what to do....i dont even know what foods fatten people up....can you help me? my mom is mean. lol. just because im skinny and shes not doesnt mean that she has to be mean to me.....so does anyone now any fattening foods
maybe you and your mom should go see a doctor and have him explain to her that a fast metabolisim is natural and takin you to a hospital isnt going to do anything. I have a fast metabloilisim too, I jsut reached over 100 pounds recently nad im 18, its nothin o be worried about or need to go to ahospitaly for, its just the way your body is.
My boyfriend is the best person I have ever met he loves church, Me, and his family and I love is personalitiy but he is not all that cut i mean he's cute but not sexy the thing i hate most about him is his eyes and lips there big big but i dont want to break up with him because his mom just died and he need someone to talk to more than ever now cause he is goin through a lot what should I do signed CONFUSED.
i hope he finds a better girlfriend. some one not as shallow. Just because his lips and eyes arent as nice as you would like doesnt mean anything, if he is really sucha great guy that shouldnt amtter. or thats usually how it goes, when people look past apperances.
i'm wicca and i'm gonna have a baby and well i was wondering if it's wrong if i make my baby learn and follow through with the wicca relligon i really want her/him to belive in what i belive in and i think of it as like the christans and how they make them belive in the whole jesus christ bible stuff no offence to any people who belive in that relligon so is it wrong? plez help
theres nothin wron with introducing your child to wicca, but what i personally think is a good thing to do is let your child form their own opinions on religion as they grow up.
Why do atheists have a problem with Christian's trying to spread their religon? They seem to always get so defensive and mean. It really bugs me because they can't have an open mind to what someone else says without flipping out. Like Christian religon says "help those who don't believe in God" or something, and the atheists just FLIP out. I've been open minded to many atheists I know and listen to what they say about it calmly without saying their opinions are dumb, but then when I mention my relgion, they say it's so stupid and get mad at me for talking about it.
Anyway, to sum it all up, you basically just need to read the first sentence.
what athesists have you been talkin to? NOt very often do see athiests "fliping out" at people for their beliefs. Im an atheist and my very best friend is christian. Personally I am interested in religion, and all the differnet ones and i do enjoy learning abou it but when it gets to people tryin to convert me, I cant stand because they are tellin me things i find very hard to believe. every one is differnt tho and everyone is entitled to their own opinion and religious beliefs. And everyone should be open mined to all the diffrent belief systems.
well you can still get pregnant
umm yea you can get pregnant..... umm what is the question here, "well you can still get pregant" is more of a stament and is asking not paticular question at all.
Recently, the guy that I really liked told me that he felt the same way too. Right now we are getting to know each other by talking to each other. He keeps telling my friend all of this negative stuff and saying what doesn't like about me. He said that he doesn't like the fact that I'm too serious, I'm bad at giving advice, I have a low self esteem, no confidence, and I don't enjoy drinking or partying. That makes me feel like I have to change everything myself so he'll like me. so I'm really confused and I don't know what to do.
never ever change the way you are for some one esle. wether it be a guy or a freind or anyone. Be yourself. there will always be some one who loves you for you.
well im 14/f (15 in 2 monthes) and there's this guy that i like and he's 17 but im not sure he'd really be into me since he's 2 1/2 years older. people i didn't know have thought i was 15 or 16, because i just look older i guess, but i was just wondering if some guys out there (that are around 17 or 18) could tell me if you wouldnt mind the age gap or if it would make you feel uncomfortable?
ok, im not a uy but I am datign a guy thats2 years older than me. We areboth fine with i and it doesnt change things, unless he wants to go to a bar and i can get it in... :( Over all its really up to the guy on wether or not ehs comfortable with the age diffrecne.
Please dont be offended by this, it's something i have been wondering about, it sounds discusting (and it is) but i think it must have happend.
Did God only create Adam and Eve or did he make other humans too?
I ask, because if it was only up to them to populate the earth hen surely incest must have taken place :-s
Adam and eve could have lots of children but then when they died there would have just been brothers and sisters left so that means that they wuld have had to make babies with eachother to make more people.
Is that what happend? i know it wasnt illegal back then but it's just so icky.
i know its a wierd question to ask but no one else ever talks about how people were made.
assuming that the first people were "adam and eve" then yea, them adn their offspring would have populated the earth.
Were Adam and Eve the first people on Earth? If so what about the cavemen? I thought they appeared first? I am confused. I mean, are the cavemen really the "people" in Darwin's theory of evolution? And so not supported by the bible...umm..
ok there is scientfic proof to show the evolution of the creatures on earth. I dont know what dancergirl678 was sayin about there being no explination for monkeys or apes. over billions of years cell life forms evloved and adapted to their differnt enviroments to become what they currently are. It wasnt so much that we came from cavemen, we evolved from ancient apes. Through DNA and genetics we can see how closley each differnt speicies is to each other in relation. Humans and life in general is incedibly complex, the very idea of all of human life 1.l coming from 2 individuals and 2. Being created in a mere 6 days is aubsurd. The complex structures of life cant be made from dust and magic.
i'm a guy, and is it wrong to just want sex? honestly now, its what everyone wants
pretty much just make it clear that all you want is sex. theres ALOT of girls who think the same. just try to make sure no gets lead on or hurt.
The guy i like worships the devil..i think..he is into wicca and i'm totally the oposite...i love Jesus and God. But is it wrong to have feelings for someone like that?
ok first get your facts striaght, wiccans dont worship the "devil" and as for liking some one that has a different belief, I honestly dont get what the issue would be. People who have totoaly differnet religions and opinions can get along fine, as long as tehy dont make those thigns a problem. And you like him you cant help that. Most people cant control thier feelings. Maybe look past the whole belief/religon thing and see what you think of him then.