ok i have a really bad problem with cheating on my gf weve been going out for like around 6 months and i can never see her out of school and i want to stop but whats the best way to do that im really not sure??
Additional info, added Wednesday May 17 2006, 11:01 pm: she knows that i have and am ive told her that much but i like want advice on how to a:stop and b:how to tell her like to fix things help if you can. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? redninja answered Thursday May 18 2006, 4:05 am: maybe think of why you cheat on her.. cuz chances are you cant care about her that much if you go and cheat, alot! just think of how worhtless your making her feel and how upset she must get. I honestly dont understand how she knows you hvae and you are and can still be with you. maybe when you have the urge to go be with another girl think of your girlfriend, maybe try sayin no, or hang out with your gf instead..leanr some self control. [ redninja's advice column | Ask redninja A Question ]
loves2shop86 answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 11:00 pm: hey! ok this is not exactly a direct answer to your question, but i think you are confused. if you are constantly cheating on your gf, then something is NOT right and you subconsciously don't even want to be with her. i'm speaking from experience here... i cheated on an ex boyfriend once, and a few weeks after i realized that i didn't want to be with him at the time. if you trulo care for someone and want to be in a relationship with them, then you wouldn't cheat on them. you wouldn't even WANT to cheat on that person! the reason i can't tell you how to stop yourself from cheating on your gf is because there is only one way to do it... and that is, find out if you really care about her and want to be with her. if the answer is yes, then you won't even think about cheating on her again, and just being with her will make you happy and content. if the answer is no, then break up with her! why stay in a relationship with someone you don't really care about? neither one of you will be happy in the end... she deserves someone who cares for her, and you deserve someone who you care for. let me know if you need more help! :) good luck! [ loves2shop86's advice column | Ask loves2shop86 A Question ]
livestrong answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 10:54 pm: The best way to stop cheating is if you care about your girlfriend everytime you get a feeling you want to cheat think about her. Think about how much you would hurt her if she knew. Think about the way shed feel. Then you should text her right after telling her you love her and then she will most likely text/call you or something and say the same thing. If its the girl who tries to kiss you tell her no and tell her that you have a gf. Let her know and if she still tries to kiss you shes a bitch no effence.
But anyways I hope I helped.
My ex boyfriend cheated on me after a week... and i was sad and you have been together for 6 months. Well Good Luck. And if anyone is gonna tell her make sure its you or she will be really really mad.
~.Livestrong.~ [ livestrong's advice column | Ask livestrong A Question ]
IhAvEaNsWeRs2104 answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 10:54 pm: First of all before you try to fix the problem you have to tell her to see if she even wants to still be with you because if she doesn't then you are just wasting your time trying to fix things. Then you should probably get a hold of yourself and ask yourself since you are already cheating on her is she even worth still being with no girl deserves that so you really need to figure things out with yourself. After all that then you need to find ways to see her out of school if you like her enough you will do anything to just see her. And in between all that you should really stay away from other girls so you won't get tempted.
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