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moving ( i wasnt sure what category to put this under)
(17f)I have the option to move with my dad to a new house in a new town and i'm not sure what to do. I don't have any really good friends anymore. My best friend just moved away so i dont really have anyone here that i am going to miss. It would be great to meet new people and to make new friends. I'm nervous though because I would have to start at a completely different school. i won't know anyone there. What if I'm a loner the first few days and nobody worth liking doesnt like me.. (hope that doesnt sound rude)what do you think i should do??
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i would go. it would be great to make a fresh start. and jusssst think. you won't be the only new girl. hey ;; go to a party and make some friends =]Hope I helped.
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i think you should move. it was the EXCACT same story for me. i used to live in texas and all my friends had sort of faded away. then my mom and i moved to florida and i love it here. i have alot closer friends than i ever had in texas. and ive only lived her for 5 months. and its alot more fun.
so take a chance, have fun on the way, and make it the best adventure of you life.
because once you get there you can be anybody you want. no one knows you
i wish you the best of luck.
♥ jordan
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I know it would mean a big change in your life but I think that you should take the chance and go live with your Dad. Until you experience it you will not know what to expect. You may find that at the beginning that people are a bit wary but if you put a big smile on your face I am sure you will be fine. You may find that you have a better social life and better friends when you move. Take a deep breath and dive straight in. I wish you all the very best.
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I would go for it. You can start all over if you move, and have the chance to make new friends. Before you decide anything though, make sure you think it through, just so you know your positive with what you want to do. Hope this helps and good luck with your decision.
-cindy <3
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hey! well ive moved a lot of times... 8 years ago i moved to the US from a completely different country and i didn't even know english. the point is, i did it and now i have a lot of friends and i'm really happy, so you deffinitely have nothing to worry about. if you have nothing worth staying for, then why not go out and meet new people? you might like it more, but you will never know unless you go for it and take a chance. after all, most really good things that happen to people wouldn't have happened to them if they didn't take chances! if you move to the new school and find that you really really hate it and don't think that you will ever adjust, then you could always transfer back to your old school right? i would assume that you can, but you should double check just in case. regardless, i think you will do just fine! it's normal to be nervous and anxious, but if you feel like you need to start over and meet new people, then you have nothing to lose if you move.
bottom line is, if you want to move because you aren't happy with the way things are now, then go ahead and do it! don't let being nervous stop you. but if you are happy where you are and don't see a reason to change things, then stay there! it's your choice... but don't let your nerves get to you and stop you from altering your life if that's what you want! i promise you you'll be fine either way! :) good luck!! let me know if you need more help!
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I think you should give it a try, just take the chance what's the worse that can happen? What if you go there and everyone likes you? And if NO ONE likes you, which i doubt that would happen, but you can always go back to where you live now right?. What i'm trying to say is just don't be scared of not making any friends. Take the chances. If you go to live with your dad just keep your confidence high, don't be so negative. I understand that your going to be nervous, who wouldn't be? Just think of if everyone gets along with you, how much better your life would be? Try not to think of all the negative things, think of the postive.
-hope I helped-
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