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teacher and student?
Ok..my teacher and I are very close. He teaches art. Well..we have a very good teacher and student relationship. But..lately it seems like we're getting closer..like over the student and teacher boundary. I kno im falling for him..its difficult not to..hes soo smart and talented. He's 24..im 17..and..i think we both "know"..these feelings are real...is this wrong? and have u heard of a situation similar? HELP
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yes it is wrong so dont get envolved
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Ok , almost every teenager, is attracted at one point to one teacher, you kinda spend alot time together and all thru the year you surely get to talk and share lots of conversations. Yes, most people will believe that this would be wrong, especially since you are still a minor, it would be very wrong of him to be involved with you, since HE MAY LOOSE HIS JOB and ALSO GO TO JAIL for it. It is very often a teenage girl falls for her young teacher, normally a 24 year old does not have time for a 17. He has better things to do. But, if he is looking at you that way, you should consider all the consequences and the fact that next year , he will be looking at someone else. He gets to do this every year! Word of advice, find another teenager or at least someone under 21, it will probably last longer. Avoid the temptation!!!, good luck, have fun in your Senior year!!
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I know this must be difficult and as someone who has had crushed on teachers before, I understand that it's sometimes hard to hide your feelings but the bottom line of this situation is that he is your teacher. If you had a relationship beyond that, he could (and most likely would) lose his job. You would also be expelled.
I don't know how much longer you are going to be attending your school but if you really do care about each other and it is more than just a crush, please don't do anything until after you have left school. Even then, there may be difficulties but as far as I am aware, a teacher cannot be persecuted for dating an ex-student.
For the meantime, I strongly recommend that you push your feelings for him to one side, as you need to focus on your education anyway and no good can come from your feelings right now.
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k so that is normal. and yea maybe abit illegal..the whole age differnce and you being a minr, and the techer could loose his job, but thats only if you get caught! lol honestly though i think that the relationship would be kinda awkward.. but ya never know
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Hi
Your feelings are normal...there are alot of students who have crushes on their teachers.
Your art teacher could lose his job if he starts a romantic relationship with you. That is TOTALLY against the rules.
I don't know what the laws are where you live, but a romantic relationship could also be against the law.
If the two of you are truly developing feelings for each other, then you need to wait until he is no longer your teacher. With that being said, even if he isn't your teacher, but you are still a student at the school, that is also against the rules.
He is the adult in this situation, so he needs to stop anything before it happens. You are old enough to know that this should not be happening. Between the two of you, you should both be able to take the "proper" path.
Take care,
Brenda
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ok, nothin is wierd about this. you cant help it if you fall for someone. so dont worry about that. i wouldnt go with him cause that WOULD be just a little wierd. if you think about him often do somthing. do somthing this weekend. something that would get your mind off of him. and on monday i wouldnt look at him like you usually do or talk to him as much as you do. dont change yourself just dont get any more closer than him than you allready are. before you make a mistake that you will regrete.
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