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Gender: Male
Location: florida
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Age: 16
AIM: tripp the ego
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MY EX BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME AWHIEL AGO AND I PROMISED MYSELF I WOULD FORGET HIM AND YET EVERYTIME I TRY I SEE ALL THE GOOD MEMORIES OF US AND WE STILL TALK SOMETIMES BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND NOW AND IVE HAD OTHER BOYFRIENDS BUT I STILL THINK OF HIM IN THERE PLACES AM I JUST PATHEIC OR WHAT? (link)
not pathetic... its ok....just work on getting over him -me


I have two beautiful Shih Tzu dogs who had puppies together. I adore my dogs and their puppies. I gave one of the little darling puppies to my friend and her daughter. Her daughter has health problems. I made it very clear if she was unable to keep the puppy, I prefer her to return the puppy to me. Less than a week after I gave her the puppy, she has given the puppy to her friend Heather, a woman I do not even know. She says that she gave her the puppy until it is housebroken because she does not want the puppy around her daughter. I gave her this puppy that I could have easily sold for over $500 and now she has given it away. How can I make myself clear that I want the puppy back? I made it a point to place these puppies with people I know because they are such important little animals to me. The parent dogs are like my children and the babies are like my grandchildren. I feel insulted, angry, and hurt that my friend went against the direct conditions of me giving her the dog and I want the puppy back so I can place him with someone I know. (link)
tell your friend the truth....she should understand did she know your reasoning behind giving her the puppy...that may be where this whole problem started misconmunication.....just comeout with it the sooner the better before the puppy get attached -me


okay im like with this guy on the net and stuff and we've like been 2geter for two months rite and i like really like him and like he's all like saying about how much he luvs me and junk and want to like sped eterinity with eachother and im like i don know and like what do i like do. (link)
well from reading this it sounds like you havent even met in real life..... he probably doesnt mean anything he says hes probably an old dirty man who wants in your pants...dont buy into it -me


Ok see here is the problem,I really want a boyfriend but I am afraid I will not get one because i am what some people call gothic and what other people call punk or a skater.I dont know what to do!I really want a boyfriend i feel so lonely without one what can i do to get one without changing who i am or what i belive in? Also i dont like getting rejected i think it is akward. (link)
hey i know what you are going through i too am what most people call "gothic" it has gotten me many look and stares but i have had no problem with finding people who belive in the same thing as me... keep looking look in places that you like go places that you enjoy and if you find someone there you guys obviously have somethig in common -me

p.s. where do you live i may know someone who is looking as well email me at yoyofire.cr@verizon.net


ok well I have known this kid for about 2 years right. and we would date off and on. and this year I started dating him again and I introduced him to my bestfriend because I wanted them to know each other but I didn't want them to start liking each other.ok well my friend came up with the idea that both of us would date him at the same time. and I love my friend to death and i would do anything for her even this so I was like I guess. so after like 2 days I was like to my friend if you like him that much you can just go out with him I odn't like him anymore hes all yours. but I relaly didn't mean it so now the go out but I wanna tell her how I really feel what should I do? (link)
first off ::slaps wrist:: letting your friend date the same guy as you at the same time is a no no..i belive there is a unwritten rule saying that you cant even date one of your ex's friends without there permission...its just not too nice..anyway...yes tell her how you feel let her know that you still care for him and you guys work something out...all in all i hate to say it but i think your relationship with this guy is done.....bad on your part -me

p.s. sorry if that came off mean


Ok, I don't wanna sound brutal or anything, but my BFF (let's call her Emma) is so freakin' boring. I'm getting into going to parties, dances, and other fun stuff. Emma is the total opposite. She'll sit at home, watching TV, or sitting on her computer for 5 hours. I really feel like she's holding me back. What should I do? (link)
ok well i have to say coming from a strict family i wasnt able to do anything when i was young...maybe she cat go because her parents said so and she doesnt want to tell you about it or maybe she doesnt like going to partys....maybe the atmosphere isnt for her....talk to her tell her how you feel about the situation and if she is your true friend shell compramise...but keep in mind maybe youll be the one making some comprimises -me

p.s. stay out of trouble at all those partys


I guess, any answer to this is just a matter of opinion, but here goes....Um...Ok, my ex b/f has a new g/f, and they seem to being going strong. But, in school he seems so unhappy. I don't know. I still really like him. And I'm not saying that I won't date other people for him, or not hang out with my friends to just sit around and wait for him. But, I don't know. What do you guys think? (link)
well its good that you sill show that you care about him dont be too strong with that though ask him whats wrong and if he tells you then youll know but let him know your there for him to talk to...maybe it has nothing to do with his relationship who knows...and your on the right track talking about dating others move on with your lie and youll see things go much more smoothly -me


I'm a 16 year old girl. Lately I have been really distant and detached from everything, and I don't know what makes this attractive or if the moons are aligned or what, but all of the sudden I'm getting all of this attention from guys at school. Any other time I'd be thrilled to death, but right now I'm just kinda like, "Eh." The guys that have professed their feelings, indirectly or through my friends, are great as friends, but I'm just not interested in them in a romantic way. A month ago I'd even be happy to go out on a date with whomever, but now I want to be boyfriend-less and have a good time hanging with my friends and concentrating on school.

The one guy I do have a little bit of interest in is currently into someone else.

How do I turn these guys down without hurting their feelings or making an awkward situation? I still want to hang around with them with my friends, just not in one-on-one sessions.

Ugh. (link)
well either way if you hurt the guys or not your going to have to tell them...we dont catch on to things like that too quickly.... but just be straight up with them i know i like it better when the person doesnt make up some long fake stroy so it wont hurt my feelings as for the guuy you like just wait it out but dont wait too long you gotta move on for all you know maybe hes interested in you but if he thinks youll be waiting for him when his current relationship breaks up then it will never turn out good for you....move on and see what happens you never know you may find someone a whole lot better -me


If you're still stuck on an ex who has a new g/f, are you as pathetic as you feel? (which is very pathetic) (link)
pathetic? yea right.... no your not pathetic...if anything it just shows you how much the guy meant to you...no go out there and find someone who means more to you and wont leave you -me


ok i would like to know if any one knows some really good chat rooms i could go yo with out any type of messanger like msn,aim,aol,or yahoo cause i dont have those and i cant get them so some one help a gurl out


PLZ



*~!~!~*EMM*~!~!~* (link)
yes i do my favorite is www.bolt.com my screen name is tripptheego you enjoy -me


Why can't he see all the signs I try to make whenever he looks at me I try to look back and make eye contact but he always turns away too quickly. . i really love him! I cantt ake my eyes off of him. . and soemtimes I think he gets annoyed because I stare at him so much. . I just melt wheneerI try to go talk to him I cant do it. . im too nervous I dont have anything to say I men we could talka bout his football. . ugh and well I dont think hed like me. . and Im so negative. . Are his looks of anger? or for love? I dont understand if he likes me or not. . I rlly like him and I wish I could have a chance with him. . we never get to talk anyways except 4 lunch but he is with all his friends. . and so I just want to atleast be his friend! My life is so horrible MAKE IT STOP! HELP ME! Iw ant to ask him out. . should I I mean I have known him 4 4 or 5 months already. . but I only know that hes funny, sweet & really cute. .HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
ok many girlf will agree with me guys are dense just come out and tell him you like him...we have hard times figuring things out that girls think should be obvious....tell him and if that doesnt work then move on -me


Who said he had a GirlFriend? All I said was that he had moved on. (link)
no one but i was guessing that when someone says that there ex has moved on it normally means moved on as in "he moved on to another person"
im sorry for any incoinveince this could have caused -me


Ok My younger brother is driving me crazy. We share different views on just about every thing. When I try and talk to him he seems to just ignore me or think that I don't know what I'm talking about. I guess the same goes for me, because I don't know where he is coming from either sometimes. We're different like oil and water. I'm the conservative prep and he's the loud rock, bolt through every single apendage Manson kid. Our parents don't seem to help either. They always take his side and let him do what ever he wants. What do you think I should do? (link)
well just come out and talk to him ive got a feeling that youve already done this....he will probably go and do some thinking on this subject and let you know -me

p.s. love ya ted


My ex boyfriend dumped me over about 2 months ago and im still hung up on him. Even though he's moved on. I really want to get back together with him and I can't stop thinking of him, and he doesn't even notice me anymore. What do I do?
SL (link)
call him.... tell him how you feel...if hes got a girlfriend then either wait it out or move on he probably doesnt want you to feel bad over the situation....your best bet is to call him and tell him how you feel... i wish you luck -me


WHERE DO I FIND AN ALL HAPPY HARD CORE RAVE?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? (link)
in my pants ^^; i actually have no idea why dont you ask around and see if any one is having one....or the internet....that always works...lol love ya bro


i dont really have a question i just wanna know if you can guess who this is >^_^< luv ya (link)
couldnt be lindsey could it....love ya kittie ^^


ok so this is the problem a month ago tommorow i started dating this guy. he treats me like a saint. he says he loves me and his brother and father tell me how good i am for him.in fact that after his life went downhill, im the only thing to make him happy, but im unhappy. im not physically attracted to him. and i kno thats shallow, but he likes to be very physical. today this guy i really like asked me out, i said yes w/o thinking. i really dont want ot hurt the guy im with now. and i refuse to cheat. im so confused and hurting inside like u would not believe. he did nothing to deserve this, its just i felt like i was smothering. maybe im wrong. i kno i am, that i should be able to make myself love him the way he does me, but i cant... i just cant. god please help me, and tell me what to do. im soo confused (link)
well tell him how you feel unless this is some horriable joke to get back at him for making you feel like shit when he tried to be the good one and save you the heart ache.....oh well i believe you, you were in a bitchy mood

no worries and above all thanks hun love ya to death

^^ p.s. gotta love the girlfriend


WHAT SIGNS CAN U GET FROM A GUY TO KNOW HE WANTS TO BE MORE THAN JUST FRIENDS. ALSO SIGNS FROM A GIRL. (link)
hahahaha you just want all of us to do the work for you...thats half the fun of dating trying to find out whats going on...all i can say is goodluck ^^


WHEN TALKING TO UR CRUSH WHAT THINGS SHOULD U AVOID WETHER U R A GIRL OR A BOY. (link)
DONT start by asking if hes single that wont work....but i normally would ask about things that can branch off onto another subject like
"do you atch any anime?" which can branch off to "whats your favorite?" to "do you like j-rock/j-pop at all?" basically just talk about things that you know something about dont pick a topic tat you know too much about because that can intimidate whoever your trying to talk to...i know when my girlfriend switches languages in midsentence sure it sounds cool but im left feeling slightly stupid...hoped that helped ^.^


ok i am home all alone for like the next 9hrs (today is the 2 and its 9:30 in florida) any suggestions on wut i should do besides learn how to type rite?
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yea come on over to my house im sure i could give you something to do ;).....i have all kinds of coures and things ^_^...i actuallt have no idea surely ypou must have some friends give them a call and see what happens from the....Teo words "the mall"




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