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can a muslim female marry a christain male, (link)
Well you would have to ask your parents if it was okay with them first. But yeah a muslim and a christian can get married.


hi i've been with my boyfriend for quite a few years now, but unfortunately, everyday i start to think to myself that i should leave him. why is because every single time we get into fights, he never is willing to stay and work it out. he either hangs up the phone and ignores my phone calls/messages or says "just drop it" with an attitude. he also calls me names like bitch when he loses his temper, and personally, i've had enough.

but as you can imagine, i have grown emotionally attached to this guy. i fell in love with who he once was, a sweet, considerate, man. but now it's like i don't know who he is anymore and lately it's just the only thing i can think about is how the quality of our relationship is slowly crumbling beneath us.

i personally do want to call it quits, or at least take a break from each other for a little while, but he refuses. he says things like he can't live without me, and if i leave him he'll kill himself. in a sense i feel that i'm forced to stay in this relationship because i don't want to live knowing i made someone commit suicide over me.

it's a really sticky situation, and i don't know what to do anymore. i do love this guy, but i feel as though i'm falling out of love with him for the person he has become.

please help... (link)
Well maybe you should stay with him and try to get him some help. I know its kind of difficult for you right now but you just need to hang a bit and try to help him out. Maybe there is something going on with him. You should try and find out.


I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong? (link)
its true not everyone does drugs because they are dangerous to your body systems. Yes you shold keep telling them that they shouldnt do them and try to help them get help.


Tell me if this shirt is cute for a car chick, like me.
Its white and too big so i tie it in the back (i have a long tight black tank under) On the front ot says FORD with the blue and white letters. On the back:
"My daddy drives a bad stang and i will drive it when i get bigger".

I need your advice..... I RATE HIGH (link)
That sound really interesting. I think that it is just fine that i maybe might make me one.


(13/f)
I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do? (link)
I think that with your situation you are being both, but anyways you should hang out with her because it doesnt matter if she is popular or not the thing that matters is that she will be a good friend. Dont let your other friends choose for your and if they want to dis you aff thatn that means that they are maybe not true friends.



ok i like this guy ALOT and were going out but my friend also likes him and shes not talking to me because im going out with him but she also told me over and over again go out with him he really likes you and i kept telling her no no because of you and he told her before we were going out that he didnt like her he liked me so now im going out with him and i dont know wbout my friend...

i need help! (link)
Just tell your friend that she needs to get over it. She will have her moment in life to but its just not now. You just dont worry about it besides she is the one who was telling you to go with him in the first place.


i crack my neck and my friend thinks that it will make my neck all messed up when im older...is that true? i dont wanna be messed up when im old!!! lol
will rate high (link)
NO its not tru you just need to take care of it until it is better


I have a "friend" that is sort of mean to my other friends. She excludes them and is very posesive of me. She gets angry when me and my 2 other friends do things together, without her. My other friends basically hate her, but i don't want to break the friendship off because i don't want to make an enemy. I hat being stuck in the middle!!!
~Stuck (link)
Dear stuck,
I think that your friend who is really mean to your other friends is kind of obsessed with you because she/he wants you all to herself and wants to do everything with you. Maybe you should tell her about it and spend some time alone without seeing each other until things get settled down.


Lately at night I've been having this weird problem. Like all of a sudden my chest hurts like in the middle and it gets harder to breath. It feels like I can't take a deep breath. Then I get this weird whistling noise in my nose when I exhale. Sometimes this happens for a little bit during the day too. It isn't really that bad but it's pretty annoying. At home I can usually try not to panic until it goes away because I feel more comfortable. The problem is Wednesday-Friday my grade is going to Washington DC. I'm not sure what I should do if I start feeling bad or begin to panic. Can anyone help? Thanks in advance. (link)
Maybe you have a stuffy nose or your allergic to something that doesnt let you breathe normally. You should visit your doctor and maybe he can give you medicine to help you breathe better.


I like this girl and we used to go out.
we had something really special before but some shit happened and the relationship went sour.
She had a b/f when we were dating. She doesn't have the some feeling for me anymore but i still like her. I think she borke up with her b/f now and going out with other guy.
I really like her but i don't think i should still thinking about her.
Anyone knows how can i forget about a girl who i like a lot??? (link)
First of all if you really like her and she was cheating on you with another guy then you should show her that you are totally over her. Second I think that you should try and meet new people and then see what happens. If she did that to you than she doesnt deserve any of your pure love for her.


My cat has no cat fod and shes really really hungry..i loooked for some tuna at least for her but no, and teh pet store is closed, and i found some sardines..can i give my cat some sardines?? there was sardines in mustard, tomato sause, and soybean oil, should i give her the one in soybean oil or will it make her sick?? i need an answer quick cuz she needs her dinner!! thanks! (link)
Dont give yoor cat sardinas in soybean oil cause it will make her sick try giving her the sardinas in tomato sauce that is much better.


how do you boost your self-esteem? mainly about your body image. i've been having a lot of trouble with my body image =\, and i don't know what to do. whenever i eat i regret eating. when i pinch my stomach i have about 4 inches of fat (and thats standing up!).. i try to keep myself away from food, but then that's all i think about & i eat alot.

thanx in advance. (link)
I think that your mind thinks that you are fat.But your really not cause there likes millions og gurls out there that want to weigh what you weigh. It would be better if you exercised more like at least 3 times a week like you might want to go jogging or just plain walking. You could also try a healthy eating diet were you can eat what you want but make sure its something low in calories.


Lets assume you are seventeen, and youve been going out with your boyfriend for a while, who has been your best friend for 4 years. And you know you are ready and its the right thing to lose your virginity to him. You are completely prepared and use protection (both condom and birth control.) Do you think although you're ready, seventeen is still too young to have sex? (link)
no, at the age of 17 you can do it and if you really want to than it should bejust fine becuase you will be comfortavle with it. Well follow what you want to do and there is nothing wrong.


I'm 14 and I've never made out with a guy, but I think something might happen with this kid this weekend. I don't really know what I'm doing so does anyone have advice? Is it weird that I've never made out with anyone? (link)
not there is nothing wierd with not having made out with anyone. its just that your time hasnt come yet. but if you think that something will happen with that kid than you should try and make that moment special, because you would want to remember it as something special. Only do it if you want to.


Okay, I actually think I have ADD. I've secretly researched it for a few months now, and I have a lot of the symptoms majorly. I used to be really good in school, I used to be able to focus and concentrate most of the time. Now, I have SO many things going on in my head and I seem to act like I'm listening, but really my head is off in like, a million different places. I told my friend that I had it and she's the type of girl that will just not concentrate because something is "boring". She thinks that she has ADD too. Everytime we talk about it, she starts laughing ("I have ADD, lol!"). It pisses me off so much. How is anyone going to take me seriously after she tells EVERYONE she has it, and starts laughing after? Its kids like her who use out the term ADD. I bet many students like her go to their doctor and say they have it. But what about us who actually think we have it? I feel like the doctor is just going to turn me away and say "yes, you think you have ADD along with the rest of the student body at your high school...". I NEED to get help quick, but how am I supposed to approach help, and how do I convince my friend that she doesn't have it, and not everything in this life is "fun". I can't even concentrate on the things I enjoy anymore... (link)
well you should first tell your mom and then go to a real doctor and get some tests done. As for your friend tell her not to be playin with things that can harm other people. Just have confidence and i hope your okay.


Everyone is always saying "I hate tanlines" blah blah blah. Is it wierd that I actually like them? Like if you wear a tube top after wearing a bathing suit that ties around your neck, or if you had cris cross straps on your back. I think its kind of like a sign that you tan. idk, I think its kind of cool...is that wierd? I don't like tanning lines after you wear shorts, or a farmers tan... (link)
no that is not weird you just like to be unique and that is a very good thing.


what if I know this person and she was going to cheat on this guy and I was her bff and i ilked this guy but she just got asked to be his gf and I dont know what to do because she is going to play this guy and I want to tell him because he will be really sad, what should I do ??? I dont want it to ruin a long frendship
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well if you two are really best friends than you should tell her that its just not right what she is doing and how would she like it if someone did that to her.


Okay me and this guy have been "together" for about 8 months now...well were not technically going out but were kinda friends with benefits i guess...he said that he wants to not have a commitment bc he is going through alot right now but he doesn't want either of us to hook up with anybody else...just eachother...so should i take that as were going out or as were just friends with benefits? and also should i say we can hook up with other people or no? thanx ill rate a 5 to nebody who answers (link)
i think that your just friends with benefits. he probably does like you but he just needs some time if he is going through alot. Maybe you should wait until he feels alot better and gets his emotions together.


ok theres this boy i really like and i have a feeling he likes me to but he also seems as shy as me even though he seems to hide it bettr than me. But to the point. Ok i really like him and i want to say something to him even if its just "hi" but the thing is when i do see him my mom and my friends mom is there and they always watch us so its really embaressing and then i ignore him when i dont want to!! plz help!!!

P.S. i see him ocasionally but im homeskooled so it's sorta a different story... (link)
first of all try telling your mom to give a little ptivacy. also tell him to tell his mom that to. If you really like him than ask him out and just start things out slowly like holding hands or talking and taking walks out to the park or around your block.


WELL its kinda atight situation cause like we went out for 2yrs or so then i meet someone the guy i had a baby with things didnt work out for us so i came back home ended up hooked up with this guy again, now he doesnt really trust me that musch anymore says i might go back to him but i agreed with him if he is really divorcing he wife i can commit myself fully to him but if he gonna have antha life with he family then its too bad i move on but he doesnt agree with me wants me to go hes way with he rules. (link)
hey someone who loves you gives you time and not puts any rules for you to have to follow. First of all he needs to look at his own situation because if he doesnt even try to get a divorce that means that he just wants abit of fun with you and still have his family at his side. Dont do anything with him until he is divorced.




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