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My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year 8 months. Everything was great. We were in love and always wanted to be together. We made plans to go to college together and we were each other's firsts. But for the last few months he has put me on the back burner for his schoolwork and the high school wrestling team, so we see each other no where near as much as we use to. Now lately I have been feeling very lonely and depressed. I cry all the time and I have no friends and everything seems to be going down hill for me. I didn't make the softball team after playing for the high school for 3 years, and that was always my way of coping with stress. Now I have to work to pay my bills and keep me busy. I feel so depressed because it feels like he doesn't want to spend time with me and he doesn't show his love for me they way he use to. Have we gotten use to each other or are we not in love anymore? Because honestly, I don't know. We argue more now, I cry to him all the time. Sometimes I feel like he'd rather be doing something else with someone other than me. Not romantically, but like he'd rather be home watching tv or playing paintball with his friends. But I use to be his number one. And now I'm not. I'm just his girlfriend that he has and doesn't feel the need to get rid of. I'm so lost and I don't know what to do. Things don't seem to get any better. I miss him terribly and like I said, I am so incredibly lonely. I would try to go out with friends but they work too. Am I just PMSing 24/7 or am I depressed? Or am I just over reacting, because I don't know. Please help me. (link)
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you are so not over reacting your man should put you first you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel you guys should plan a time when each of you are free and get togther then hope i helped
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iam 15, and i weigh only 100 lbs. im 5'4". so im inproprotioned. but im a lil puggy. i used to work out everyday. then i got into a wreck and couldnt,because of my medical stability. i want to work out again. but with physical therapy and school and cheerleading and everything, i dont have much time. what can i do to tone up a lot, with out taking too much time. ill rate high (link)
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well scice your in cheerleading then you prbbaly don't have a lot of time wat u can do is have one of your friends work out with you cause then you guys can do somthing together and you are working out plus you don't have a schedule then or you can join a sports team i know lots of sports teams that have one game a week and no practices hope i helped
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I have a terrible friend who thinks shes cool and hates me and my friends. She always hangs out with us and then talks about us behind our backs to US! I got into a fight with her(because Im the only one who will stand up for myself) and I hate having people hate me so i appologized and she just forgave me like that! (She said "I forgive you, HUG!") It bothers me and now were back to her using me and my friends and she thinks shes popular. What should I do? (link)
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ok i dono bout you but i don't think this girl is your friend at all there is this girl at my skool she is really nice to you until she finds out one of your secrets so then she blabs them all around the skool just tell your friend that if you don't stop talking about me and my other friends then you won't be my friend anymore but make sure she is talking about you beind your bac
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Well, there's this guy at my camp, and all my friends used to say how much he liked me, but nothing happened. Then the next year, (this summer), he told me he liked me, and i liked him, but we haven't talked since summer, cuz he didn't have a sn or an email. Well, now i sorta like this other guy, and all my friends think he likes me, but if he does, i don't know what to do because i still like the guy from camp, but i only see him for like a month out of the year, and i haven't talked to him for months, so by the time i go back to camp, he might not like me anymore, or he might have a girlfriend.
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well the guy you see at camp long distant relationships usually don't work out i mean the guy you see all the time likes you and you like him plus you see him all the time so i would go for the guy you see all the time tell the camp guy that it isn't really workin out because i don't see you very often and tell him you still wnat to be friends
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I have a question about this boy i like. he is 17 and i am only 15. i told him i like him and he said he liked me too. he is turnkng 18 this year. everyone who knows we like eachother say they have talked to him and he is going to ask me out. the only problem is that i am rly good friends with this kid and i dont want to ruin that friendship with him. he holds my hand all the time and he said he has a surprise for me on monday. i am kind of scared and i dont know what to say if it is that he is going ask me out. i dont know what to say if he does.
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age doesn't matter if he does ask you out say you really like him and say that your scared of ruining your friendship with him so tell him to make a deal wit you that if you guys break up then you will still be friends
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I'm 13 and in seventh grade. one of my best friend has a boyfriend. her boyfriend told me that his friend liked me. i didnt even no who he was but then i got to no him and he is so cute and nice and always is making me laugh. i really like him a lot. just last friday we had a dance. and before i got there 2 of my friends went up to him and was like "do you like lor?"(me) And hes said "yeah but.." and then just walked away. when i got there they go up to him again (when im not with them) and was like "are you going to ask her to slow dance or something?" and he goes "i can't i have a girlfriend.." there just like "what? i thought you liked her" and hes like "i do i just have a girlfriend" so my friends tell me what happened and i got pretty upset but of course i didn't show it. i am so confused. but instead of dancing i was just with him the whole night. i like him so much and one of my friends was with me and there like "omg he is so going to brake up with his girlfriend for you he keeps flirting with you" and i wanted it to be true but i dont no what to believe. i saw his girlfriend.. but the only commmunacation they did all night was say hi.. they didnt even slow dance together. im so confused and i dont no what to do =[ please help. (link)
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ok tell him you like him cause then he will probably break up with his girlfriend to be wit you
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I had this girl my best friend since iw as in 1st grade. i have 2 other best friends too but i havent known them for as long as i knew this one. i mean i knew them i just wasnt close to them... lately this girl is not being herself really. she would put all these people before me. all she wants to do is try to be popular. all she wears is abercrombie just to get people to notice her. shes dating a guy she hardly even talks to. its jsut not like her. so last night i told her how i felt.. i was just saying that shes never there for me anymore and idks tuff like that. and we just ended up yelling and cursing at each other. it was really bad. i got really upset and i just wnat things to go back to normal. my other friends are saying i should just forget about her because shes mean to me adn treats me like crap. and it doesnt matter how long ive known her because people change. whcih is kind of true but its just.. i cnat just ruin a friendship over this. right? i want to say something to her but i dont no what to say. do you have any ideas? please help =/ (link)
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well if she was truly your friend she wouldn't be tryin to be popular and she wouldn't be treatin you like dirt if you realy want her to be your friend still then talk to her have a heart to heart
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ok i am going out with this boy we have been going out for about a year. and we have been talking about sex latly and i was just wondering do you think 15 is to young to have sex? and is it a good idea?
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when you question if your ready or not then you are totaly not ready even tho u want to you are to young talk it over wit your bf and he will understand if he loves you he will wait until your ready
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Before almost all things where i have to stand in front of people or just be with a lotta people (dances, parties, answering questions @ school, giving presentations at school...) i feel like im breathing harder than normal and sometimes i get a really upset stomach. i feel my face getting all hot, and even after the moment where everyone looks at me passes i still have to look down for fear someone is still looking at me. sometimes i feel that i would rather die than stand in front of everyone...is that normal? do i have like, social anxiety disorder or panic attacks?? (link)
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i think you just get really nervous a lot of ppl have that you start to shake sometimes my teeth start to shake and your heart beats really really fast and its like you can hardly stand up you just get nervous when i am doin somthin like that i just think of that when your nervous you can't live life to the fullest don't care about wat other people think about you
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Hey i wanna lost 7 pounds. I weigh about 135-138 pounds. I work out and stuff but then I go and weigh myself a few days later or even a couple and i still haven't lost any weight. Its like impossible for me. Anything i do i cant lose weight. Im in sports but thats not helping i work out 4 times a week. But i stay the same weight. Is there any tips on how maybe i could get more motivated maybe to wanna do this cuz im about to give up because im not losing or gaining any weight! (link)
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i am so many sports its not even funny i am really skinny but i am 5ft and 8in i also have a lot of muscle if you are trying to lose weight cause you think you are fat then stop tryin scince you work out and are in sports and everything u probably have a lot of muscle or your tall so don't work out cause u think you have to do it cause it is fun i do it cause it helps me with my emotions and its just fun so throw out that scale of yours and stop weighing yourself i have so many friends that think they are fat but there are worst things
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Well I used to like one of my best friends, I've known for 9 years so I had one of my friends tell him and it turns out he never thought of me as more than a friend. Now its like 7 months later and he's ignoring me and I miss him a lot.I dont like him anymore but I miss being his friend. What should I do? (link)
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i know exactly how you feel i have to boy neighbors rite and i liked one of them we were really good friends and everything but then i gave him a note that said i liked him now he is ignoring me now i would probably IM him send an email or even go face to face and say i thought it over and i just want to e friends with you and i hope that our past won't change our friendship now
i hope that helps
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hey everyone. Ok, my friends and I are all having a hard time telling if the guys we are into like us back. The two guys are a lil shy but not totally and sending mixed messages. can anyone give me some advice? Thanks a bundle! Luv Megz2009 (link)
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ok guys are always confusing ihave a guy tha like who is totally givingm mied signals wat you can do is makethe first move you can give him a secret admirer note you can email or IM him or you can do it in person doesnt matter see once i gave a crush a secret admirer not and he told my friend that it was totallt hott that i did that
i hope u like my advice plus remember wewill never ever understand guys no matter how hard we try
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I know this seems like a classic, but I'm in love with my best guy friend. We're both 16 and I don't mean puppy love. We tell each other that we love one another, but he is the kind of guy who wants to date you, but is afraid to. He flirts with me all the time. (e.g. holding hands, telling me that he loves me, hugging) I know he's a guy and all, but he is constantly starring at my breast. One time when he was giving me a hug, he "accidently" grabbed my butt. I know you're thinking that is is just a "accident," however; I though most people can tell the difference between your butt and your back. Anyways, I really love him and he knows that, but what can I do to get him?
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well first of all if he grabs yur butt and everyhing then he must like you lol so don't worry about him saying no cause he will want to go out wit you but the thing is if he is one of your friends like a really good friend and somthin oes wrong in your relationship then ubreak it off then you mite feel really awkward being around him i am just sayin if somthin goes wrong and u break it off then your friendship prbaly won't be wat it was like before
me i wouldn't really want to go out wit a guy who grabbs my butt and looks at my breasts i mean he has to have a little bit more respect for you that is my opinion
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I'm not quite sure what to do. My "best friend" from last year is changing. We used to tell eachother EVERYTHING!! But this year she cheated on her boyfriend, broke up with him, and went back out with him and didn't even tell me. I had to find out from someone else. And she doesn't know about the guy I REALLY REALLY like. Its because she doens't take the time to find out. Every weekend I invite her to the mall, and EVERY time she says she busy and then calls me telling me how bored she is.. Also when ever I hang out with ehr myy grades drop. I dont know if I should stay "best friends" with her or not? Please help (link)
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i absoutelyknow how you feel i am goin thru th eact same thing see you need to talk to your friend if its hard to do it in person then IM her or email her you really need to talk to her ask her if there is anything tht is goin on n her life that is the matter
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I know that 13-year-olds shouldn't be wearing a lot of makeup. Is colored lip gloss ok? (mine is dark purple) (link)
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Ok i'm 14/f and i have this bf who is 15 and we have been together for like ever. like 1 year and months but i know i need to break if off because he is the main source of my sadness and why i am always getting introuble. i can't though, its way to hard for. I really wish he would to me, so that i didn't have to do it, but that would probaly make me more upset and my mind would be so mad at myself. but i KNOW i have to, any idea's of how to make up my mind or know for sure if were meant to be truly? i love him so much and he understands me and can always make me laugh ectc. but when he's unahppy, i can never seem to make him happy, so he makes me unahppy.this is like alll the time. i hate it, but i can't ditch him for making me unhappy and depressed, can i? please help me out with sorting this out and everything, write me and i will write back with more information on the situation if you need more info. i just need some other opinons on this, because all my friends say to end it and no advice on the matter. thank lots
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you mite not have to break it off if you talk to your bf about how your feeling he mite understand and you guys can work it out but if that doesn't work then tell him you love him but this relationship is to emotional for me tell him you still love him but its for the best that u break it off but first talk to him to see if there is anyother way you guys can stay together and be happy
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okay so i met this boy durning the summer and i felt that we had something though we never exactly talked, well we did just not in a way with actual words if you know what i mean. but i havent seen him in 8 months and i cant stop thinking about him. and i cant call or IM because i dont know the info. i miss him so much though and i think i may actually love him. but the thing is latly ive been really down. basically crying every night and i feel as if im falling appart. how can i get over this??
please help.
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well it could be love at first sigt but the problem is you don't even know his name he could be a total jerk so what i am trying to say it you will probably never see him again and if u do see him again don't get your hopes up beause if you meet him and he isn't wat you expect then you probably would be crushed
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i've been single for more than a year now because i still love this guy. i can't seem to get over him no matter what. sometimes i even cry myself to sleep at night or when some people ask me if i have a boyfriend i always have an urge to cry but i dont want to in front of them. i got in a bad situation with him so my parents arent that fondd of him even thought it wasnt his fault but they dont know that. he says he still likes me but he knows that i wont go out with him again (which im pretty sure isnt true) so he has been going out with other girls. im just confused and cant figure out what to do. thanks for any help!
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well you have to tell him that you still like him and tell him your true feelings you never know what could happen if he still likes then that awsome but if not then you have to move on if you are young like me there are goin to be plenty other guys that like you and you are probably goin to break a few hearts to
hope I helped
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