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Best Guy Friend
I know this seems like a classic, but I'm in love with my best guy friend. We're both 16 and I don't mean puppy love. We tell each other that we love one another, but he is the kind of guy who wants to date you, but is afraid to. He flirts with me all the time. (e.g. holding hands, telling me that he loves me, hugging) I know he's a guy and all, but he is constantly starring at my breast. One time when he was giving me a hug, he "accidently" grabbed my butt. I know you're thinking that is is just a "accident," however; I though most people can tell the difference between your butt and your back. Anyways, I really love him and he knows that, but what can I do to get him?
~!Thanks!~
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well first of all if he grabs yur butt and everyhing then he must like you lol so don't worry about him saying no cause he will want to go out wit you but the thing is if he is one of your friends like a really good friend and somthin oes wrong in your relationship then ubreak it off then you mite feel really awkward being around him i am just sayin if somthin goes wrong and u break it off then your friendship prbaly won't be wat it was like before
me i wouldn't really want to go out wit a guy who grabbs my butt and looks at my breasts i mean he has to have a little bit more respect for you that is my opinion
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I think that the one thing you have to do it talk to him and tell him how you are feeling. odds are he likes you to but is nervous to tell. i hope that helps you.
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talk to him about going a step further in the relationship .. or one day when hes hold you, just ask him out .. make the first move .. guys are shy a lot, and dont know how to communicate with the oppositte sex *
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If i were in this situation i would tell him"" Look we have been good friends for along time" and we know how to treat each other" I know your probably afraid that ill hurt you" but i want to be with you"! hope i helped! but you have to remember that hes not the only boy out there!!
good luck!!
---->> x0x Kayla
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I remember my younger years and look back at them now with a smile in my heart. They were so 'charged' and alive and vibrant. I honor that a guy can be in control of some of his physical needs, perhaps dating you would bring out that 'man' in him and he'd pursue you more as that 'female quest'. And in my humble opinion you're a bet young for that. I think back and I could have gotten pregnant when I was 15, yukkkk, and I did when I was 18 and had my first child at 19.
He is inquisitive, he simply wants to know what a female body is like, what it feels like, the contours, and he probably also knows the 'dangers' of going too far with you. You have to honor that.... and at your ages, I feel it would be extremely wise and well thought out to just be really really really good friends, hang out and do fun things and neck and kiss and hug... but respect the fact that the direction both lives take are dependent upon the wisedom of your very choices.
I at this age am only now spreading my wings.... which the wiser ones do right after highschool, before or during college.... but I raised my three kids and get to do that search for myself now and I can tell you it's not as much fun. But it is what I chose and I am perfectly OK with it.
It sounds like you two are a great combination, good friends and that you enjoy exploring life together. Enjoy this time for in a few years, the world will consider you those adult people who have responsibilities and should 'add' something positive to the human experience. Now you can simply enjoy adding something to each other's lives... and keep your grades up and your choices good for both of you and both your futures, humanity needs good people like you forthcoming!
Good luck and take it slow, easy and create as much fun as your imaginations can bring you.... and if it comes to choosing to move away from the experience or complicating your future.... you can always find a new friend to experience the fun with... but remain in control of your own destiny and I know that's alot for a young mind to think about.
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