Member Since: December 18, 2004
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I have this friend, and I love her so much!! (sisterly) And we are best friends, well, she just discovered boys and there is one that she really likes. whenever we're together, it's all she talks about and thinks about. all she wants to do is look at pictures of him and talk about him!! I love her so mucha dn i don't wanna lose her. I've tried talking to her, but she'll get all mad at me. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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okay um thats jusy natural me and my friends do that all the time all you have to do is talk to her about it and act intersted and she will get over it ..everyone goes thu a stage like that
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(Sorry if this turns out really long!) I've only been cutting myself for a little over two weeks but I'm already addicted. I told my boyfriend first because I vent to him a lot. I trust him and he can comfort me. Then later I told my teacher and she suggested for me to talk to my school counselor. My teacher told my parents, too. My mom talked to me but it wasn't about ME, it was about what my sister went through. It wasn't helpful. So I talked to the couselor. She freaked out and kept telling me, "You can't do that! STOP! You have to stop! If you do it again I'll tell the principal!" That is not what I expected from her. It wasn't helpful or encouraging. It was threatening! It almost made me want to cut! Later that day I was sitting alone in the gym slicing the skin on my arms and my Gym/Health teacher saw me and made me go alone in a room with him to talk. He kept telling me that even though life may suck now, it'll get better because I "have a good mind". I didn't think it was helpful either, but I started crying. Everytime I had to talk to someone, I wanted my boyfriend there holding my hand helping me endure it. I feel uncomfotable around everyone but him. One day my teacher actually tried to send me home because I was cutting and crying and miserable. I told her I didn't want to go home, I just wanted to talk to James. (James is my boyfriend.) She said she couldn't let him out of class. I glared at her and wouldn't talk to her. She called my parents and they took me home. The whole time I wanted to scream, "I JUST WANT JAMES!" When I got home I just reread old notes from my bf. He's the only one who can comfort me and it feels like he's the only reason I go on living. Do I depend on him too much? How can I stop cutting if I have nobody to talk to? Please comment or give advice! Sorry so long! (link)
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well first off . why are you cutting ? if its any of my bussiness.. and do you have any other frineds you could maybe talk to ..and i know this is the last thing you wanna hear right now but maybe you should go to a profesional counseler beacuse the school one is just yelling at you and thats not gunna do anything so maybe you need to talk yo someone who can really help you ..and it has to be you that wants to stop.. and another thing cutting is really bad ..it can lead to much worse things im hear if u ever need to talk
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well you see, my best friend constantly gets on my nerves ( whos doesnt ) but sometimes she really makes me feel pathetic. Ex.- i told her that i was getting my basement redone and she was like 'oh cool.' Well somehow the conversation switched to her basement (as always) and instead of telling me "Im excited about my basement, it's going to be really cool" She'll say "Im getting a bar, and a hot tub, and a plasma tv...ect..." And another time i said i was going to have a party...just a small one and she says "Im having a party..AND a graduation party" and she will ramble off about how expensive it will be. It just really gets on my nerves how the conversation always gets back to her, and it makes me really uncomfterable when she says how great her things are going to be...and im not as 'wealthy' as her so it makes me feel bad. Does anyone have some advice? Thanks (link)
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tell her eactly howyou feel or u need to ditch her shes not worth it
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I asked one of my close guy friends to prom. he said he doesn't know if he wants to go because he said he can't dance. he also said that dances aren't for him but he said he would think about it. how can i persuade him to take me to the prom?! (link)
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well i think you should just tell him ..i dont care if u cant dance i just really wanna go with u it will be fu everyones going
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I cant get a foundation to match my skin, because I am so pale. Does anyone know any good brands? (link)
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There is this guy and we always talk on the internet (AIM) and I always tell him to come up and talk to me at school, and he says okay he will and I say im gonna hold that up to him. When we are at school and I see him he never says anyting to me he just walks away. I wanna say somthing to him so bad about it but im shy too. I aways catch him looking at me what should I do?
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well i think you should just say hay to him in the hall u dont have to have a convo just say hey
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ill admit, we had our bad days. Me and will, well we went out a coupl of time over the years. I always ended up being the one to break it off. it never seemed right. Then he asked me back out and this time it was diff. i mean we got along SO MUCH BETTER then we ever did. then on 8th grade graduation night, he dumped me for no reason. he says he is over me and i swore i was over him too. now its like an old flame is being rekindled. he doesnt wanna try again but i think there might be something here we can build on. anyone have any advice for what i should tell him??? please help me if you do!! Love Kels (link)
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say honestly i really like you alot and i know you dont like me like that but i still havent forgot you and i just felt like i needed to tell you that because its been on my mind latly
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Say I have this friend. We get in fights a lot and I think it's usually my fault. I dont know what to do. Please Help! (link)
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tell her that your sorry for starting the fights and her that its not her fault its yours
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i'm 13 and i have this one guy who likes me alot i dont like him as anything other than a friend..now that he likes me i hardly speak to him because i'm afraid people will start talking about "us." i miss him a lot though because he used to be one of my best friends! hes also a really good guy but i just dont like him. i dont know what to do or how to act around him!
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this happend to me and my best guy friend to i think you need to tell him that ..hey i really like you alot but ur my best frined and i dont like u that way can we please just go back to the way it was
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I think i messed up majorly with my crush. we danced last night at a monthly dance our town holds and it incredible. the thing is, we got bumped into, so we kinda broke apart, and he asked me in a sad way "oh is that it?" and i didnt know what to say. i should have let him know how much i love with by saying someone like "does it have to be?" but i didnt. i feel like i lost him completely. he said he really really likes me as a friend. im in love with him and i think he knows that but my problem is that i dont know how to go about talking to him anymore. i dont know what to say or what to talk about. im so confused. i feel like i screwed up big time. if you want the whole story about what happened, i posted a question called "heaven for me, hell for him?"
thx everyone
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well .. i think u should just be like honestly i just wanted to tell you that i like you alot and i know u dont like me like that but its been on my mind latly and i felt i needed to tell you
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ok well there is this boy at school that i like a lot! but ive already gone out with him and his brother. I havent seen his brother, Randy, in 3 years.but his brother,Travis, goes to my school.his brother hasnt even talked to me and its been 3 months hes been going to the same school as me. but if i ask him out and go to his house and Randy is there how can i tell randy that im with his brother and not him?i want to let it down easy on him, ok. **** i rate**** 5 if really good (link)
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well ..maybe u shouldent go out with him at all... if its gunna be soo much trouble
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Okay, I have a problem. I don't know if it's normal or not. I guess I'll start out by saying I'm fairly outgoing and loud. Anyways, my friends and I and some other guys went to this guy Micheal's house today. Micheal's a 9th grader (I'm in 8th) and we were there for like 4 hours without his parents home. Anyways, when basically everyone except one other guy had left, we started cuddling on his bed. He was holding my hand and like rubbing his hand on my stomach and stuff while we were watching a movie and earlier we held hands while I was just sitting on the bed and he was on the floor (his matresses are on the floor) and I don't know, I liked him being there with me and doing stuff with him, but I got so nervous! I don't know why, I just felt kind of awkward. Do any of you get this way too?
P.S. Micheal likes me if that means anything for details.
-Christeena (link)
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u should tell him to stop if u dont like it but if u do i dont see the problem
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ok im best friends with this girl i knew her before but this year we are best friends. but whenever we make plans they'll either change or she'll blow me off! i dont know why! and we've been best friends all year and i have never been inside her house but shes been to mine so many times, and she says its because shes self consicous about it but do you think shes lying? SO my question is... why do you think she is being like this and is she using me?
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i think that maybe this girl is embaressed of her house i dont think shes using you ..u should ask her why shes blowing you off
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I like one of my friends [who is a qirl by the way] as more than just friends. She knows I'm bi, and we joke all the time about hooking up. She also said that after she gets her first boyfriend that she'll go out with me because she hasn't figured out if she's straight or not. Should I wait for her to make up her mind while she's totally crushing on one of her guy friends, or should I get over her and find someone new? Help please! xox (link)
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you should find someone new right now but u can always go back to her after she gets her 1st bf u never know how long they will be together
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Ok, there is this boy named David in 1/6 of my classes. He sits in the last seat in the row next to me. My friend sits right behind me and whenever I turn to talk to her, I catch David staring at me and we suddenly make eye contact. Out of that infomation ( I might add more ), do you think he likes me? (link)
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you should try talking to him like ask for a pencil and then get into a convo and then u can prolly tell if he likes you are not ... sorry i know thats not great advice
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Ok so I'm 15/m, and I was at a school function, and some girl that I didn't know danced with me. So after I left she got my AIM screen name from one of my friends and went home and asked me to the prom and and asked if I would go over to her house Friday to have dinner and a movie and all that stuff. Problem is, I really don't like her, and I don't really know her at all either. What should I say? (link)
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you should tell her that shes a really great girl but your just not looking for a relationship right now but you ahd a really fun time dancing with her
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tomorrow is the last competition and i have missed two of them already my coach was so mad. Im not particepating but im still in the team so as she says i have to go. I have no ride or anything my mom says i cant go if i dont everyone will hate me what should i do? (link)
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why dont u just tell your coach that your mom doesnt want you to go and i dont think people will hate u beacuse you didnt go to the last competition ..i mean you missed a few before what one more
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ok my bf and i hav been going out for out for 8 days and we went to the movies he didnt act like he was going to break up with me but he has not called me today and he calls me everyday so what do i do i have tried calling him and he didnt anwser on either his cell or home phone and i dont want to seem like an obesive gf so i dont want to call again what do i do and how do you think i should wait b4 calling again plz help i rate!!!! (link)
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dont call him he will call u if he wants to talk to you dont bug him all the time u ahve only been going out for 8 days
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