hey im molly (duh.. the headline thingy) lol anyways im a hardcore swimming.. those of you who know me know that.. i play guitar.. i love my friends TO DEATH! i couldnt live without um. i like to give advice so any question youve got.. ill answere!!!!
-- molly
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Age: 13
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Anyone out there know a good guitar out there. I really only want to spend $500 at the most. I'll rate. (link)
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i have a fender stratocaster but it was made in mexico.. so the mexican made ones are a lot cheaper then american made so if your getting a guitar make sure not to get american made.. or its SO much more expensive!
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OMG i need to know like right now! im going to the fall out boy concert TONIGHT and i have no idea what i should wear.. its at the palace and i think im in seats not standing.. so any help would be great!!! thanks!!!! (link)
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okay maybe just wear like some jeans and a cute t-shirt so that your comfortable and comfy shoes like flip flops or your favorite shoes that you could stand on because chances are that you will probably be standing up not sitting down .. love ya.. molly
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well i have asked a question on how i can be more outgoing cause its affecting my ability to be able to make friends. well i try to be interesting but no one seems to like me. like i see people in the halls at school saying "want to come over my house" or "Want to go bike riding" no one ever asks me that, is it because i'm boring? what can i do to make people want me as their friend? and how can i keep friend? i am really desperate for help. :( i have like one kind of best friend and she never even asks me to do stuff! she doesnt even invite me to her parties! and please dont say "why dont you ask THEM" (link)
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you just seam shy.. try to talk more and get into things like teams or after school things so that you can hang around people more.. maybe if you dothen you will be less and less shy! maybe try asking someone else to go over to your house and just talk a lot and put yourself out there.. hope i helped =]
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ok, so i like this guy. (dont worry, thats not the problem) lol. but like lets just call him frank. and we'll call me friend julie. ok, so like we'll all be watching a movie together and frank insists on sitting next to julie, and then he like finds a way to share a blanket with her. and then he will start touching her uh... lower private area, i guess, and she keeps telling him to stop, and one day he started unzipping her pants and so me and julie both got REALLY mad at him and hes just acting like nothing happened. hes a really good friend of mine and i like him as more than a friends, but lately, hes turned into this major jerk that i like never wanna talk to again. but he still sits at the same lunch table as me and talks to me in the halls and comes up to my locker to talk and stuff and i dont wanna like freak out on him or anything. well, i guess it would help if i could just stop liking him in that way, cause ive tried and i keep on liking him again, even thought hes a jerk. so, any suggestions on how to stop liking him in that way?? (link)
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maybe focus more of your attention on another guy instead of him to like. when you start thinking about frank just think about something else like the other guy and also think about how much of a jerk he is. hope i helped =] if you need anything else just ask =]
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hey... yeah so theres this guy and ive liked him for about 3 years now. (yeah pretty pathetic i know) and i think he might know that i like him and how long ive liked him for. hes a really good friend of mine, but he seems to only like one of my best friends, and he keeps on going out with her. ive tried liking other people instead of him but i always end up back to him, and its getting really annoying. soo basically, my question is, should i keep on liking him? talk to him about it? or what?? HELP!! (link)
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dont worry if youve liked him for that long! thats okay its totally natural and cute. we all go through those phases where there is taht one guy who we just cant stop liking and it bugs you to like him and you dont no why but you still do. you can keep on liking him if you want to no one is to say whether or not you should because that is your own personal desicion. if you do talk to him about liking him dont tell him how long youve liked him because that could kind of freak him out. so i hope i helped and good luck!! =]
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okay so i like this boy. hes really cute. he says that he wants to hang out but whenever i ask him, he says maybe then we never do. i cant really tell if he likes me or not. i really wanna hang out with him to get to know him better but i dont want to sound desperate. what should i do? (link)
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okay so that you dont sound like you like him then be like oh hey were (ur friends) hanging out this saturday you can come.. so it doesnt sound like your like omg come! but instead like its his choice and if he wants to come cool if he doesnt then ok thats fine too. when your with a group its also not as akward... so yeah hope i helped!!!!! -- lyl -- molly
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hey... um yeah so i think im loosing one of my best friends. i never see her anymore because we live kinda far away fro eachother and its really hard to hang out with each other.i really wanna hang out with her more and ive told her like "oh my gosh! weve gotta hang out sometime!" but we only talk about hanging out and it never actually happens. so, what should i do to save my friendship?? I havnt seen her in like 2-3 months at least! (link)
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okay..... i think i might no who this is but im not sure so i wont say anything.. but i am going throguh the exact same thing! i have this best friend only i havnt seen her in forever and we talk about hanging out all the time but never do anything.. so maybe call her or online be like okay we not just talking about it this is what were doing! u and me over the weekend are shopping or seeing a movie or something! and then plan it and it will be set, and youll see her again! hope i helped -- molly
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heyy im 15 years old and i know this sounds wrong but i have a crush on my cousin and he likes me back!............i kno that sounds bad but we can't help our feelings for eachother and like yesterday it was a family day so my cousin and i went for a walk and we kissed. And when we came back our parents are totally suspicious about us, what should i do? I don't want my parents to be all mad! should i break up with my cousin?
((i think i should but i need a back-up supporter)) (link)
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okay is this someone i know like trying to trick me? well if its not YES you should break up with your cousin.. ew
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There is this girl at school who i like but she knows i like her and she likes someone else. Should I find someone else to like or wait for her to not like that person anymore? (link)
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well if it hurts to like her when you know she likes someone else you may want to try and get over her with some one else but its okay to like someone that likes someone else.. its totally natural.. so just keep liking her if you want to it completely normal
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I am going to my 8th grade dinner dance and its supposed to be totally formal but not like im going to the prom and im so picky and i dont want to spend too much money where should i go what should i wear? (link)
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you can go to www.promgirl.com i know you dont want a prom dress but its not all really for prom and they have some really cute stuff that isnt very expensive
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im having a bit of make up trouble. some people wear tons of makeup, and look really good, and some people just plain over do it. I know i dont over do it. sisnce i only put on:
lip gloss
foundation
concealer
& thats all. but i want to look pretty. without looking like some circus clown. and ideas on what to put on and how to do it? no web sites please :) (link)
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if you want to you can go to www.stilacosmetics.com then go to the top and click ask the artist then ask the question you need=]
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My mom workshift has changed, so she is no longer able to take me to school. So now I have to ride a bike to school. And I just feel so embarrased. People in the car when they drive by sometimes laugh and point. So I just want to know how does everyone else get to school. You know do you take the bus, ride, walk, bike, etc. (link)
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i just take the bus.. so you should do that because its a lot faster! that is if you have a bus that comes to pick you up.
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My guy is mad at me because he thinks it's fun to be mad at me . This is totally not cool by my rules. What can I do?
THanks soooo much ! (link)
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well you shouldnt be with a guy who thinks its fun to be mad at you. thats just not right and sorry to say but i think it should be over between you two sinse no girl should have a guy like that.. its just not fair to her.
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ok so my friend was talkign to this guy. she said that he really likes me and that he was goign to ask me out. im still not sure if i like him or not. how am i supposed to tell him no?
thanks (link)
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well maybe if if you do like him a little maybe even as a friend you can say yes and then like him better but if you want to say no just let him down slowly. i havnt had experiance with saying no so i cant really help you there sorry
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i've been friends with this girl, lets call her lulu, since 1st grade and last year we met this other girl , she'll be suzy, and now they're acting like best friends this year. At the last dance as soon as we got there lulu and suzy and they're two little followers left me and my friend alone. they ignored us the ENTIRE dance! they also don't seem to care about me at all. i want to tell them that i am feeling left out but i don't know how. how should i tell my best friend lulu how i'm feeling? (link)
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okay well it seams like this must really hurt and so you need to tell her. just be like lulu i need to tell you something. and then just tell her.. and if you two are the friends that you think you are then she should understand and she will be more aware or how you are feeling the next time you are all hanging out together. and if things dont change then just keep telling her. eventually she should get the message but if she doesnt than maybe shes just not the right friend for you.
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ok so this guy asked me out. and i dont know if i like him or not. he is really nice and cool and i dont want to hurt his feelings by saying no. but i dont know if i like him!
i dont really know him. i only hung out with him once. im so confused. i dont know what to do!!!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!! ill rate 5's for anything. (link)
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i think you should go out with him because once you are going out you can get to know him more and hang out more and you have a reason to. then you can get to know him better and maybe like him better. hope i helped =] ..molly
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well, thank you for answering my question about my friend that totally turned his back on me. but 1 thing is that i DID tell him i liked him. and he said he liked me too. so i reeeally thought that something was going to happen between us.
o yeaa howd ya get the cool background?? (link)
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on your site click column settings and right above where it says Page background color click the link. that will take you to a page with different backgrounds you can pick from. on that page it will also give you instructions on what to do next.. and thats how =]
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sorry i didn't know what catagory to put this in.
ok i'm 13 and i just got a straightener. i heard that if you use it too much your hair gets really dry and it's unhealthy...so for people that straighten your hair...how many times would be too much? like how many times could you straighten your hair in a week without it becoming unhealthy? thx! (link)
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i have a friend who straightens her hair every single day and her hair is still beautiful! and shes been doing this for a loong time.. i do think that it frys your hair though so maybe dont do it that much.. you can also try scrunching your hair so that you can wear it down more often instead of having it up all the time =]
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i have this guy friend, first we were just friends then we wnet out for like 2 days but he broke up w/ me but i still have feelings for him so now we are just friends. Now like 5 monthes later, i was over his house and he had last years yearbook and he didnt let me read it.the next week he was over my house and i let him read my journal so he'll let me see his yearbook. He read this part were i wrote JAMES FINALLY GAVE ME A HUG, yay! (the date was AFTER we broke up) so now he NEVER gives me hugs anymore after reading that :(, i miss that and i want hugs! help, i still like him, & the hugs were the only thing i had now, nothing (link)
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sorry hunni but he doesnt like you and to be honest.. you never should have let him read your diary in the first place.. you dont want a guy to everything about how you are feeling.. thats what girls are for.. confusing guys and getting them to try and guess whats going on inside you.. if you just put youself out there it ruins everything.. so next time i suggest not letting the guy u like read you diary. and i hope he hugs you again.. just give it some time and maybe gain his trust and become really good close friends.. but you need to get over him first.. lyl
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I find myself having a crush on my older brother. I feel really bad about it but I can't stop fantasizing about being with him.
Is there any way to stop these feelings? I know it's wrong. (link)
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sorry hunn but that IS very very wrong!! try to get a new crush and just focus on him instead of you BROTHER!! because that HAS TO stop!!!
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