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so okay, i cut. and well i dont see anything wrong with that. i mean its not like its that serious. its just like getting a tattoo. or getting a peircing so why is it so "bad". people always say dont do it blah blah blah. its not hurting them so why should they care? i just dont get why its like considered so "bad" doing drugs and drinking is a wholee lot worse. so does anyone know why people think its so bad? any other opinions?

Ok they care about you and they dont want youto die! Cutting yourself can kill you. My best freind was taken to the E.R. because she had cut to deep and almost blead to death. I used to cut i still do sometimes so i understand. but listening to them will make it better. So hey try and heal yourself. But they care about you.

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Ok Take Me Serious..I May Sound Selfish But I Dont Care..
Im relaly considering giving up life, ive nearly died so many times. Someone wants me dead..
My ex tried to kill me..
Everyone walks over me..Hurts me once comes back for more and hruts me again
I cant handle life any longer Its killing slowly id rather get it over and done with :'(

OK never neer never never give up they get what they want! And just try to forget about them they are jerks. I will be alright. I know that what your going thruogh is only tempely. and there is always something positvie in something negitve. So hang in there and maybe those that have hurt you will regret it. I know that you do't think that they wont but trust me never never give in. Keep fighting!!!! Life is the greatest gift God has givi you and you should keep it yuntill he wants it. He needs you for something and I think that this is it.

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I am getting obssesed with the idea of commiting suicide. I am not a teenage girl by the way, I am a 40 year old bysiness man. I take pills so that I can sleep at night but i just wont help but anyways I dont want to bitch about my life. I just dont want to think about killing myself anymore.it is always there, the thought. Crazy thoughts, how to do it, will it hurt, make a big fuss and....that is all.
I think also that if I start doing heavy drugs things will get better.

hey ive been there and if you realy dont wanna commit suicide then the vitaims B12 and B6 work great. Thats what I did. The sleeping pills could also be the problemtheyare known to be the main cause of depression so if you try to get a different sleeping pill it may also work.

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OKay well im 14/f... lemme give you some backround... my dad has cancer and he gets chemo every other week.... its realli stressful... i have a nice house and a loveing family... but for a while now i have been a cutter... yes i know it pathetic... but i havent done it to often anymore... ive been thinking of suicide alot.like how i would do it... is this normal?? ive gotten to the point in my life were im not afriad to do it anymore.. like before i would have never gone through with it cause i was to scared.. i dont wanna get profeccional help.. i cant let my family know whats going on.. im just realli confused and i dont know what to do anymore..please help

ok frist your dad has it adand also your mom dose to. but i understand maybe just talk to someone anyone. it dont have to be a big counseler but a freind and teacher that will help and they all will. and your normal houney tust me. Now i can anwser your how would i do it question but i wont it wont help. look into yourself and if you still wanna commit suicide then get backto me I work over time. on this kind of thing.


LOL and Be Careful
Allie

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I didn't know which catagory to put this in so I just placed it here...I'm 14/f and i feel everyday like i'm making everyone's life miserable. Everyone says I'm a crybaby and too dramatic and that no one wants to hang around with someone like me. I feel useless and I'm wondering if I should just quit...leave...whatever way you wanna put it. I just dont want to bug anyone anymore...that's my question. Should I quit?...plz and thnx

no

never quit its normal to feel this way most people do.

But think about the future and what it has in store for you.

the people that say stuff like that are just tring to put up dawn anyway.

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people I need help. Im not a parent but I'm writing a project and I need to make it funny, so what are some weird ways of punishing your children when they've done something really bad, like smoke pot, or something?? And it has to be strict.

Got any ideas?
Thank you.

I would ground my daughter if I ever found out she were smoking or doing drugs. She would never leave the house, so she wouldn't get anymore of the drug. She would also be in counseling.

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Hey Im making a CD to go with my friends birthday presents with a song by each of her fave bands, I listen to most of them but not Nirvana, can someone tell me the best Nirvana song in thier opinion....thanks xx

Dumb is a good one

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ok so im making a warm up cd for our soccer games but im running low on the choices...

soooo any good songs?
they have to be clean like no cussing and whatever

black eyes peas. Pump it up is a good one. talk to the team they might have some they like also.

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I'm seeing a counselor on Friday. I'm not used to being open with other people, or strangers. What should I do to make it easier for me to talk about what is on my mind and my feelings. I don't want it to be a waste of time because I have half an hour. Thanks in advance.

seeing a counselor is not that bad i see one every day. but talk to yourself. it may help.

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Hi, I'm 14 and female. Just wondered if any of you could help me out:
One of my guy friends is kind of obsessed about his body and weight. He is somewhat short, 5'3", and weighs 150lbs.. I don't think that he looks fat; yet he is convinced that he is. He wants to lose weight to impress a girl in one of our classes. I've tried to tell him that he doesn't need to worry about his weight, and he looks fine, but he is stubborn and won't stop talking about it. He says he doesn't eat anything for breakfast anymore and he has cut back on a lot of food. I'm really worried that he might start starving himself or end up becoming annorexic. I suggested that he ask his doctor what kind of fitness plan(s) he should try, and he says, "no, they'll just tell me to excersize,".

Should I back off? Should I help him? How do I help him? What should I do?

Thanks, I'll rate you with a comment or two if you post!

diet and exerice is a big part of looseing weit. tell him he needs to eat breakfast or he will never ever never loose waight. if this dont work then talk to a counsler about it.

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Are them rumours true... the one about the thing where apparently soon you will need to pay for msn? or is it just a silly tale?

its a rumor. dont worry about it

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I think I have depression, and I want to see a counsellor. I walked passed the room today but i couldn't go in, i just felt like i would be wasting their time and that I don't really need any counselling.

I have been feeling like thi for about 3 years, i used to self harm about 2 years ago but i got that under control - i still want to when i get wound up.

I often think about what it would be like when I'm dead, I wonder who would miss me, who wouldn't miss me.
A few months ago, I was going to commit suicide, i started to write a letter to my mum, but I couldn't finish it, I jut burst into tears.

I need someone to talk to. But I can't bring myself to walk into that room.
How can I overcome this?? Why can't i bring myself to walk into the room?

Please help me. x

tell a friend then that friend could help you go in to the room. Talking to a councler can help. I know this because I have been though it. If friends wont help talk to a teacher that you trust. When you get sad or feel like commiting suicide what i did was tell myself what i have instore for me in the future. So that helped me. Slowly try to talk to the counsler. Just do what you have been untill you get better. Talking to a doctor can help also.

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i am 15 years old and i am a female. i have bean dating this guy, that ive liked, for a while now. well, when i go to his house he likes to give little kisses and stuff. well, he simetimes would try and go a little down, like to my boobs or my tummy, and i would/will get nervous and turn away.what should i do about it? how can i stop being so nervous?
thank you for answering my questions
sincerly,
babyzaboo

take it slow and tell him that u dont want to move to fast, but one day you would be glad to "please him." just try telling yourself that its fine when he dose do this. control your breathing in though you nose and out though your moth. I hope it helped

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My room is very plain.
let me give yu an idea what it looks like

blue walls, wood floor a larg wodden cabinet for my tv and computor, a pretty good size book shelf. wooden drawers for my cloths and 2 plastic drawers. Also I have a boxing bag. I get really depressed in my room because it seeems so depressing to me

what can I do to my room to make it look nicer and happyer?

Use rugs and make it bright. Mardygrow beads always helps me. Make them into a ctrtin or over your window.

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What is the difference between a walmart brand skateboard and a pro skateboard?

walmart statebords are for kids. pro boards are better and last longer.

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I'm a 13 year old girl. Why do I want sex. can you help?????

13? Ok it just hormons. Perpresser is also a part of it. Don't give in to it. It will do more harm than good. But when you do decide to then use condoms and use birth control.
~~~~~~~~~~~*** Hope I Helped ***~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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hey i want a haircut
1.that makes my head appear bigger and that emphasizes my jawline and cheekbones.

2.that looks good curly or straight , straight mainly

3.that looks good in a ponytail at the front and the back

4. where the overall length to just goes past my shoulders.

has anyone got any pictures or suggestions to how i should have it cut?
thanku luv rach xxx

ok i just got my hair cut and i went to www.1001hairstyles.com hope it helps.

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So for the past 3 weeks my life has been very stressful. My dad was sick and was in the hospital for 10 days. I might fail one of my classes for the year. My boyfriend and I of 15 months are fighting and I don't know what we are anymore. My friend called me a slut today and asked my other friend to uninvite me to a party tomarrow night. Which she did to "keep the tension away from the party" Its werid I'll be happy and confident one minute then the next I'll be crying my eyes out. i don't know what's wrong and its stressing me out because I don;t when I'll gret into one of my extremely sad moods. Do you know what is causing this and any ways I could help to get this is stop any help is very welcomed

well thats what just rensonly happened to me. I talked to teachers I trust and a coulserlor. My mom just had a blood clot in her lung. and my dad has been sick for a while so i cant talk to them. so id just talk to some one you trust,

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Okay Well A Few Days Ago I Was Doing 4 back hand springs and on my 4th i bent my finger back. It really bruised now and It hurts. Its not broke or prained but it hurts! And My School Tryouts for Cheerleading are REally soon and I want To Tumble For Tryouts! Any Ideas PLease Help. I Will Rate!

ice- and dont do anything to hurt your hand.

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Is it possible to make a new part line in your hair? If it is how would I go about this to make a new one?


I've had a straight down the middle of my head for about as long as I can remember so a new part would be nice.. Please and Thank you :]

take a butter knive( thats what i use if i dont have anything else.) and run it down your hair were you want a part and that gives you a temp. part. side part it enough(everyday) you will end up having a side part.

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