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what can i do?!?!?!?!?!?
i am 15 years old and i am a female. i have bean dating this guy, that ive liked, for a while now. well, when i go to his house he likes to give little kisses and stuff. well, he simetimes would try and go a little down, like to my boobs or my tummy, and i would/will get nervous and turn away.what should i do about it? how can i stop being so nervous?
thank you for answering my questions
sincerly,
babyzaboo
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take it slow and tell him that u dont want to move to fast, but one day you would be glad to "please him." just try telling yourself that its fine when he dose do this. control your breathing in though you nose and out though your moth. I hope it helped
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How can you stop being nervous? Good question. My suggestion (because I think you really want him to kiss you in those places otherwise you wouldn't be asking for advice) is to just take it extremely slow. Guys get excited quickly, as I'm sure you already know, so tell him to just slow down. If you decide you're really not ready for him to do that, stop him. He might get aggrivated (or start flat out begging), but don't let him intimidate you. I'm sure he's a good guy and he'll understand. If he pressures you all the time though, you should start to consider finding a new boyfriend who will treat you with respect.
Shade
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It absolutely makes sense that you are feeling reserved about your boyfriend touching you in certian areas. I think that maybe you should really try to think about why you might be so nervous. do you really feel comfortable with this boy and the things that he is doing. Do you trust him? Sometimes theres a reason for why we react the way that we do . . . . just something to think about.
Good luck!
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Hi
My first thought is that you're nervous, because you're not ready.
If you were truly ready to take the kissing farther you wouldn't be extremely nervous. When you are ready you will still be a bit nervous, but it will feel more natural.
Take your time, and explain to your boyfriend that you don't feel you're ready....if he doesn't understand then maybe he's not the one for you.
Brenda
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I had the same problem haha.
I kinda just let him do it, then i was fine with it.
gosh now i feel a little whoreish. hah.
but yeah.
or maybe put your hand on his to make sure he doesn't do anything you want to.
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Dont worry most people are like this the first time this happens. I know i was shaking and scared my then boyfriend to death. just go with the flow, if you feel nervous hold on to his hand while he does it, that way you will feel like you have some control. if its just way out of you boundry lines, then maybe your just not simply ready for it.
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I think you have nothing to worry about I think it is normal for a 15 year old girl to get nervous when a boy tries to feel her boobs and tummy.why don't you try talking to your boyfriend about it if he really loves you he will stop making you so nervous.
I hope i've helped.
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