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i am 15 years old and i am a female. i have bean dating this guy, that ive liked, for a while now. well, when i go to his house he likes to give little kisses and stuff. well, he simetimes would try and go a little down, like to my boobs or my tummy, and i would/will get nervous and turn away.what should i do about it? how can i stop being so nervous?
thank you for answering my questions
sincerly,
babyzaboo (link)
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It absolutely makes sense that you are feeling reserved about your boyfriend touching you in certian areas. I think that maybe you should really try to think about why you might be so nervous. do you really feel comfortable with this boy and the things that he is doing. Do you trust him? Sometimes theres a reason for why we react the way that we do . . . . just something to think about.
Good luck!
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ok im 14/fl
im suffering from depression and i dont know how to tell my mom with out her taking it like im making this up...ive taken many test's online dealing with depression and they have all said that i need help...my grandmother is a doctor and she knows i need the help... (link)
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Congrats for realizing that something is wrong . . . most people struggle with that. One of the best things that you can do is figure out when you feel more depressed and what may have triggered that. What do you enjoy doing?? Do you like running, walking, playing Basketball? Do you write in a journal the things that bother you throughout the day. All these things can help when you are feeling down. I do think that you should try talking to a guidance counselor at school or having your grandmother join you and your mom for a sit down. Mom's reaction might be more out of her fear rather than her misbelief that its a problem. Good luck!
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4 the past 3 years ive been feeling like i want to die and i have stress that just wont stop.i feel like everybodys like against me and i havent eaten in 4 days and i hope that im not turning anerxic.eveyday i get in arguments with my parents and teachers.i tried to commit suicide a few times but either the pills were old or it just didnt go through as planed.i think im adicted to cough medicine.i dont know what is wronge with me ill be overly happy one min. and they next ill freak out and start balling.i dont know what to do.please..HElP
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i'm really worried about you. It sounds like you are feeling pretty hopeless right now. The best thing that you can try to do is talk to someone at your school, guidance counselor, a teacher that you trust, or anyone. It sounds like you really need to find someone that you can open up to and trust without worrying about being judged or fighting with them. I don't know where you live but most areas have community mental health centers where you could meet with a therapist who would be able to help you with the concerns that you mentioned. The feeling of not wanting to live is a powerful one . . . . the best advice that anyone can give you is to really seek some help from someone that you trust. Take care.
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14/f I have been with my boyfriend since January. Whenever we go out, I can never eat in front of him. For instance, when we go to six flags together, I usually don't get anything to eat, just something to drink. Same with movies, mall, what have you.
Well. In about a month, we have a Semi-Formal dance coming up at school. This dance includes a catered dinner before they open the dance floor.
I'm afraid to eat in front of my boyfriend. I'm perfectly fine in front of most friends and whatnot, but I'm not the skinniest girl in the world so I think thats probably why I'm shy about eating.
Its not that I think my boyfriend won't accept me or something, because I know he's not at all like that -- but I still won't eat when I'm with him.
What can I do to resolve this problem?
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I'm sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time eating in front of your boyfriend. I know that there are a lot of young girls out there with the same concerns. Maybe you could try eating a small amount taking a bite or two and then gradually eating more and more when you feel more comfortable. I'm sure that your boyfriend has noticed so I'm surprised that he's never asked. When I was first with my husband I didn't really eat in front of him either . . . and I don't really know why. Now we laugh about the dates that we used to have where all I had was a soda. Take care.
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