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well,today is the first in a while that i've tried to make conversation.everything is coming off as very strange,and my train of thought is just jumbled up.i'm pretty much just talking nonsense and going on about things without even realizing it.what's up with that? (link)
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If you are a designer, now it's the best time to start your project. You are going to have THE best you ever have.
If you are not, try to do something, anything interested you, ex. photography, painting, writing, cooking, mix drinks, sculpture, carpeting...etc. The fun/craziest/most amazing moment should come out.
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ok so if you think a guy is like really cute, does it mean you fancy them?? bcoz i asked my mate do you think _____ is cute but then she said i didnt know you liked him!!
thanks
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In the way, we all have different type of guys we always are looking at (or fantasize to). The guy you think it's cute; maybe doesn't appear so for your friend. That's why she said, "I didn't know you liked him!!"
But Yes, for me, if I think a guy is cute, of course I fancy him. It's human nature.
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when a guy is kinda always asking you who you like and then you ask him back and he says " i like three people" and only names two of them, and won't tell me the third. does that mean he likes you or does he just want to know who you like. (link)
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What was your answer when he asked you? Was he one of the person you like?
if he wasn't, maybe that could be the reason he doesn't want to tell you who that third person is(in the case of the third person is you). He's a little bit embarrassed that you don't like him, but he likes you.
Or He likes one of the person you said you do, and doesn't want to get into some weird "competition" with you.
I hope it makes sense.
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OK i need all of your opinions! i have to write a story, and i'm deciding between two plots. I need as many opinions as possible please! thanks
1. about a girl, 15 or so, her mother died when she was very young, over the summer she is in a store and meets a woman in her 30's, 40's, the woman tells her about a place up the mountain where she is landscaping this whole big beautiful garden like thing. The woman offers to teach her to garden in return for the girl helping out. they start to do that and become friend. All the while the younger girl is kind of seeing this woman as a mother figure even though the woman isn't doing anything motherly, they're just friends. In the end, she puts too much trust in the woman, and is disapointed because the woman like goes away without telling her or something else bad that she knows a "mother" wouldn't do. And it's basically about that, just how when people want something so badly they see things that aren't really there. She wanted a motherly so desperately that she clung to anyone and was let down.
2. a girl in ny city, her mother dies and she finds an adress of a family member(she doesn't know any of her relatives) they live down south so she goes there to find them. She finds out that her "mother" is actually her aunt her took her away when her mother went crazy. So it's about her learning about the south and meeting family and getting to know her mom.
which should i do? i'm better at descriptions than big exciting course of events. which one is more original and crative, and what should i do? does the first one seem like boring, like it's been done before and is too disney, cliche, boring?
PLEASE HELP ME DECIDE
I really want it to be well written
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IT's funny that you said the first one is sort of boring. My fist impression was something actually happened between them; the woman could find out something made her out of the friendship or something supposedly so secretive that got discovered because they are getting close and trust each other........and that could be a really good plot for the story.....
Second one is ok......it does seem to be written somewhere already. Some girl found out the mom she thought wasn't.....there could be secret behind it, but it's somehow old.....
I'm really looking forward to read your story when it's done. GOod Luck!!
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oh my god og my god oh my god please anyone help i cant even type my best girl friend just committed suicide last night, i'm freaking out. i just heard this morning, she lives two streets away from me, i'm 16/m. she's 15/f. wow i really dont know what to say shes my only friend that ever listened to me and actually cared and i feel like im one of the main reasons she killed herself. she had tons of problems, and lots were with ppl i talked to and stuff. i duno what to do, oh my freaking god. i cant believe this. please help i seriously think i was the main casue of her wanting to die (link)
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You didnt really say why you think you are the reason she tried to kill herself. But you NEED to have a talk with her. Either to clear out the misunderstand or make up the mistake.
It seems like you really care about her, and I'm sure she does, too. So, talk to her. Don't let anything inbetween stop the friendship.
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There is this guy I'm interested in, and I am pretty sure he is interested in me.
The thing is, he is quite rebellious. He drives fast, gets into violent fights, and pretty much questions and ignores all authority.
He acts like he doesn't like anybody, and acts like he is emotionally disconnected from the world around him. Is this a macho act? I don't know for sure.
The thing is, I seem to be an exception to his normal rule. I want to be the exception (He is very hot). He seems to want to connect on a personal level with me, like I'm different from the rest.
What are your thoughts? (link)
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you should totally ask him out!!
rebel is sexy and especially you said he is very hot!!
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first of all. im 14/f
i've dated this boy billy for about 5 months. && we broke up about a week ago. and a few days ago i started dateing this boy john. well the problem is, my bestfriend liked john and she supposidly doesn't anymore because i do. she doesn't seem to care about it but now EVERYBODY hates me b/c of it. what should i do? (link)
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If you like John, and your best friend doesn't care you date him. Then I'll say go for it. It's really none of anyone's business who you date. HOWEVER, make sure your bestfriend REALLY DOESN'T care anymore. (you know friend, especially best friend always think to make others happier...) If your best friend still like him for tiny little bit, DON't date John. After all, it's not wroth to lose a friend over a guy.
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im being asked by so many people what career i want to choose. but seriously i have no idea!! i want to own a restaurant, i want to be a lawyer, i want to be a fasion designer but how do i know which to choose? dont tell me to follow my insticts or choose what i like best because its a huge choice and i just dont know. i need advice!! what are some other good careers?? and whats a website where you can take a quiz to see what career fits you best? (link)
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First of all, if you consider MAKING LOTS MONEY is the only way to enjoy the career. DOn't read below.
Otherwise, there's no good career; only the one you enjoy it.
Why don't you just try to do all of it, and find out what you REALLY like after you actually involved in that career.
Don't worry about age or wasting time. The only waste of time is never got to enjoy what you do, and found out what your interest of career.
Good Luck.
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okay, so, here's the deal: this guy that ive known for a while might like me. he used to be my neighbor when i was little, then i moved away and went to another school, but then i started coming to the same school 3 years later, i just dont live by him anymore. well, anyway, so my friends say he likes me, but hes to shy to say it. and i like him a LOT!! he sometimes talks to me, you know, he just says something to make me laugh, or to try to impress me. he always looks at me, and when we're at school watching basketball games with our friends, every time i look at him, hes looking back at me. i think he MIGHT have a crush on me, but i dont know for sure. i just need your opinion on if you think he likes me or not. (link)
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If you feel he is always in your sign every time you turn around, most likely he likes you. And it seems like you like him, too.
Just go up to him and ask him to do something with you after school. Go to the mall, get a cup of coffee just talked about when you were neighbor, watch games....etc. Then you will know him better and finger out if he/you really like each other.
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hey im the girl who asked about her bf wanting to have an open thing going on with another girl..remember? you said to not let him go if i really love him..here let me update you:
Since then they went to the movies this weekend..hes been putting her all over his myspace and info..and just last night he asked her out and she said yes. He seems really happy but i wonder if he is just rubbing this in my face on purpose? i mean he LOVES her?
So what do you mean dont let him go..what is there to do? He knows how i feel..i havent talked to him since friday morning..and maybe i should just totally back off and maybe he will miss me..but im guessing he wont cuz he ssoooo happy it seems
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Hi~~
I guess what I was trying to say about "not let him go........" is that I don't want you to have any regret about it later. MOst of time, walking away from the problem is the easiest way to deal with it, but we usually regret it later. Regret we should've kept in touch with old friends; should've studied more for exams.....What I mean is that be there for him when he needs it as a friend now, and if he's smart enough, he will go back to you.
But for now, stop being his gf (no kissing, holding hands, cuddle and sex), even he's honest to you about another girl doesn't mean he can have both of you as romatic relationships.
You need to ask him to choose between you or another girl as gf. Otherwise, stop being his gf. I'm not telling you to stop being his friend. You can still be there for him when he needs a friend,(remmeber, no kissing, holding hands, cuddle, sex)just NOT as his girlfriend. You have to let him know you are not willing to have "open relationship" with him. (even you said you are ok with it, but appearly you aren't)
I know you are afraid that you will lose him if you ask him to choose, but he has to, and it's not fair to you when he's dating anothr girl and still holding up your heart. (but still be friend with him, don't disappear from his life)
Does the girl he's dating know about you and him are couple?
I know you don't want to, but he suggested "open relationship", and it goes both ways, Do you think about dating other guys you like? (Although this is dangerous that you still are attached with someone, most likely you will hurt the person you are dating to............)
I'm not sure I help, but i'm sure all the sweet nice girls as you always find someone love them back. If it gets a point you are so tired about it, and he is still there chasing other girls and holding your heart in the same time. LEAVE HIM.
There's no right answer for love......the most important is you feel it good about what you decide to do, and don't have regret later.
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OK this is the hardest thing i have ever been through.. :( and i have never felt this way about someone before..we have been through so much and shared so many good memories..well the story goes like this...
A girl comes out of nowhere and starts flirting with my bf of 9 months on myspace. They wind up hanging out at a football game with friends and he tells me he has some feelings for her. This was heartbreaking. However..i wanted to work it out with him so when he suggested 'open relationship' as in he dates her(not go out) and maybe kisses/hugs her and i agreed to this and to still be with him. I decided it wasnt fair to me..because we had 9 months..i dont desserve this and it hurts..so i break up with him..He says he loves me and sees a future with me as in marriage..that it wont get serious with the new girl but how am i supposed to know? (i mean he might go out with her he says..what do i do then?)They are hanging out more..they call each other..shes driving me nuts with her shoutouts to him and comments..and hes putting her shoutout in his info..its just too much and it breaks my heart. I dont know what to do..isolate myself from him..like not talk to him or hang out or anything so he makes a choice? (like if hes away from me maybe he will miss me..or maybe he will decide he wants her) Or do i be his friend? do i kiss him still and cuddle? i really want to..but this is very hard for me. Hes a sweetheart though. he told me everything..he was honest about her..and we made an agreement that he tells me everything and he has. they were talking together by the lake..they might go to the movies tomorro..i flip flop back and forth though..be his friend and hang out/talk/cuddle/kiss him...but sometimes i feel so sad and hurt i feel like i should back away completely. what do i do? is this worth the wait? (link)
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It's so hard when you really are in love with someone and need to make decision to leave or forgive them because the mistake they made.
(this is for yourself, don't tell him you made this decision)Just be his friend. A very very close friend that hug and listen to each other. (no more kiss though......) Be there for him all the time.
(this is the part you tell him)He actually NEEDS to figure out who to choose to be his gf. It's great he loves you and wants to have furture with you, but not every time when another girls he has feelings with show up, then he can go out with them. (Even he's honest with you)
There's always going to be better persons than your other half show up on the road, but we all have to stick with the one we really love. (for example, spending future with it)
Don't give him away, if you really LOVE him.
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well me and this boy were getting pretty close and i let him kiss me like with tongue. And so one of his friends told him i have a boyfriend and i dont but he wont tlk to me wat do i do (link)
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All you have to do is pretty must telling him you don't have a bf.
If he likes you enough, and really care about you, he sould listen and talk to you.
If he just doesn't want to hear you explaining, I'm not sure he's even wroth/good for the relationship anyway. He might be just playing, and happy to find the excuse(someone said you have bf) to get out it.
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i'm going to italy to visit a guy that i really like, he told me not to fall in love with him, but at the same time he is taking me to venice for 3 days, how can i not fall in love with all the romance he is going to give me, we already had sex. what does this mean? can he be confused or am i? he acts like he really likes me. (link)
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I think he likes you, but maybe he still gets something on the side not resolved? So, he told you "not to fall in love with him" to avoid you to get in too deep and get hurt.
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i've recently heard people talking about how they "steam" their faces and it keeps their complexion clear. how do they do this? what do they do after they "steam" their faces"? what does this do for them and why do they do it? thanks. (link)
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You can buy the steam machine out on the market, which is pretty much a bowl-like machine generated steam by adding water.
Or the cheaper way is to put tower in Hot water for couple minutes; take it out and dry out the water; put it on your face for couple minutes.
Warning: Don't use boiling water, it might burn your skin.
The heat make your pore expanded, and it's easier to clean, and let your skin to absorb whatever the lotion/toner/facial treatment better.
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i DK what to do, i like a couple of people, and every time i tell 2 specific friends of mine(no names).. they always start flirting with him and being all over him right in front of me, but they dont start doing this until after i tell them.. and it has happened MORE THAN ONCE so i know that its not ajust a one time thing.. i dk what to do..
PLEASE HELP =[ (link)
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I have a question for you ---- Why are you stil hanging out with those 2 of you so call "friends"?
They are obviouly not your friends.
Friends don't do thing ON PURPOSELY to hurt others.
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First of all, PLEASE answer this question if you're reading it because most columnists are probably trick-or-treating.
Anyways, my friends were planning on trick-or-treating at 6. It's 6:45 now. I said I'd be late because I get off work at 6, and I don't have a costume yet.
So when I got off work, I called my friends. They said they'd call me back. Now, an hour later, still no one has called. I have called them about 3 more times since. No answer.
Question: I love Halloween and always have. What do I do about this? I want to trick-or-treat. And my friends aren't the type that would blow me off. =[ (link)
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GO TO DO THINGs YOU LOVE TO!!
If you love Halloween, but your friends just aren't into as you, GO out by yourself. You might just find someone other friends same as you love Halloween out there right now, too.
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My ex and I have been broken up for a month or so. It was a serious relationship, but we seem to be on a 'friend' level now where we talk/joke around. I love him and would like to get back together to see if things might workout, but everyone is telling me to play hard to get. The advice I get from my friends & family is to act like I don't care and he'll come to me. It has started to work, but I need to know if it will backfire? Does the playing hard to get for a guy or even an ex really work? (18/f) (link)
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I guess it's all depends on how serious you are to this relationship?
Hard to get is for player. It's for the game.
If you really want to be with him, talk to him and let him know how you feel. Also let him know if he somehow doesn't feel the same anymore about you, you will still be there for him (Would you?)
You just have to go to get what you want, so you will never regret about "you should've.....".
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15/M What am I supposed to get for my girlfriend's birthday? I know that you're not supposed to give money or gift cards because to them it says that you don't care. Any ideas? (link)
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Get her something related to what she's interested in it.
ex.
-nice/cute/fashion necklace (pick the one you think fit with what she wears most of time)
-a book related to the subject she's interested in it.(fashion, beauty, TV show, music, history.....)
-a pet....(bird, fish, dog, cat, rabbit, snake...etc.)
-show/broadway ticket
the most important is to buy ONE rose to go with the gift. Then no matter what the gift is, it will be safe with the flower. ^^
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Ok, basically i knew this girl because i moved into a house across the street from one of her friends. That guy that i moved across the street from is now by best friend. So in arlington where i live there is this dance company that holds dances for the public and private schools in the county. I hung out with her a lot until a while ago when we went on a real date. We went to a really nice restaurant and all this stuff. I told her i liked her but she was undecided. So a couple days pass and now shes going out with a guy that she went out with before and i dont kno what to do. Im 15(male) (link)
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I think she likes you only as a friend so far. She's confused that doesn't know how to react around you, after you told her your feeling.
She doesn't want to lose you as a friend, but doesn't want to be a couple with you(yet).
Give her some time and space. For now, still do what you always do for her to make her happy. You never know what might just happened after a while.
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