Question Posted Thursday October 26 2006, 10:27 pm
Ok, basically i knew this girl because i moved into a house across the street from one of her friends. That guy that i moved across the street from is now by best friend. So in arlington where i live there is this dance company that holds dances for the public and private schools in the county. I hung out with her a lot until a while ago when we went on a real date. We went to a really nice restaurant and all this stuff. I told her i liked her but she was undecided. So a couple days pass and now shes going out with a guy that she went out with before and i dont kno what to do. Im 15(male)
Additional info, added Thursday October 26 2006, 10:28 pm: the thing about the dance company really doesn't matter except we always went out to eat with a group of people after and i always sat next to her and talked to her a lot. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheTeenGirl answered Friday October 27 2006, 1:34 am: As much as you want this girl to have feelings for you, she doesn't and it's something you have to just deal with.
Plus, she's probably not the only girl you have your eyes on lately. And besides, she's only dating this guy, they aren't getting married and they likely won't. Now who knows, she might end up liking you later on, but not now.
The best that you can do is live your life in the present. Everyone gets rejected and hurt, and they just move on whether they want to or not.
marybethO answered Friday October 27 2006, 12:57 am: I think she likes you only as a friend so far. She's confused that doesn't know how to react around you, after you told her your feeling.
She doesn't want to lose you as a friend, but doesn't want to be a couple with you(yet).
Give her some time and space. For now, still do what you always do for her to make her happy. You never know what might just happened after a while. [ marybethO's advice column | Ask marybethO A Question ]
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