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so lost!
hey im the girl who asked about her bf wanting to have an open thing going on with another girl..remember? you said to not let him go if i really love him..here let me update you:
Since then they went to the movies this weekend..hes been putting her all over his myspace and info..and just last night he asked her out and she said yes. He seems really happy but i wonder if he is just rubbing this in my face on purpose? i mean he LOVES her?
So what do you mean dont let him go..what is there to do? He knows how i feel..i havent talked to him since friday morning..and maybe i should just totally back off and maybe he will miss me..but im guessing he wont cuz he ssoooo happy it seems
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I guess what I was trying to say about "not let him go........" is that I don't want you to have any regret about it later. MOst of time, walking away from the problem is the easiest way to deal with it, but we usually regret it later. Regret we should've kept in touch with old friends; should've studied more for exams.....What I mean is that be there for him when he needs it as a friend now, and if he's smart enough, he will go back to you.
But for now, stop being his gf (no kissing, holding hands, cuddle and sex), even he's honest to you about another girl doesn't mean he can have both of you as romatic relationships.
You need to ask him to choose between you or another girl as gf. Otherwise, stop being his gf. I'm not telling you to stop being his friend. You can still be there for him when he needs a friend,(remmeber, no kissing, holding hands, cuddle, sex)just NOT as his girlfriend. You have to let him know you are not willing to have "open relationship" with him. (even you said you are ok with it, but appearly you aren't)
I know you are afraid that you will lose him if you ask him to choose, but he has to, and it's not fair to you when he's dating anothr girl and still holding up your heart. (but still be friend with him, don't disappear from his life)
Does the girl he's dating know about you and him are couple?
I know you don't want to, but he suggested "open relationship", and it goes both ways, Do you think about dating other guys you like? (Although this is dangerous that you still are attached with someone, most likely you will hurt the person you are dating to............)
I'm not sure I help, but i'm sure all the sweet nice girls as you always find someone love them back. If it gets a point you are so tired about it, and he is still there chasing other girls and holding your heart in the same time. LEAVE HIM.
There's no right answer for love......the most important is you feel it good about what you decide to do, and don't have regret later.
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