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omgosh ok...me and this guy have lockers right next to each other at school and we barely talk...ok so he added me on myspace and i left hime a msg to see if wanted to go to the movies or hang out over thnxgivin break (just as friends)....he didn't answer my msg back so i started feeling omg was i too forward? then i sent him another msg joking about the whole situation and he sent me a "?" now i feel like such an idiot because if he read one msg without the other he's just gonna think i'm crazy or something and i have the urge to call him but i don't have his phone #...what do i do? (link)
if his locker is right next to your u should strike up conversation and when you both get comfortable talkin bring up the situation and if he says yes ask him 4 his # if he says no its probably because he might think u mean something by asking him to hang out even if it is just as friends. have a fOxY day!!!!!!! =]


well i have been dating my boyfriend for quite a whilue now and we have been doing stuff but not sex dont worry but i gave him head the other day and he ejaculated in my mouth and it was a lot i am 16 but in health they said not more than a tablespoon and it seemed like much more and i ended up swallowing some but it tasted so horrible and it was like foamy yellowish my throat kind of hurt in the morning . . . is that normal should we get tested to be safe? (link)
ive heard that if you get cum in your mouth an std is more than possible, not to freack u out but u shuld get checked. this happened to my friend angelica and she got an std so be safe and check it out!!!


i'll make this short, how do i break my cell phone, like to the piont of no revival? (link)
lol i did this drop it ALOT and it that doestt work drop it in the toilet lol


can some one please help me find a cute top for these shoes ? http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=442&itemID=45970&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=

i have NO IDEA where to look,i love them but i dont want to buy them if they dont match with anything i have! jeans would be a help to,like the color. links are really what im looking for. thanks! (link)
i would try a white shirt with a black beaded necklace like the ones being used alot today or the other way around. by the way love the shoes!!!! :)


im not really a happy person somethings
can really make my day but others let
me down. very low. like i always think
negative about things so i wont get
my hopes up.

i really want a boyfriend

im kinda fat. am in 8th grade and weigh 130 but pretty-ish and not to be concieted or anything but im pretty cool and stuff like that

and i am IN LOVE with
this guy. i mean its been 2 years now
that i liked him. what do i do.

my friend asked him who he liked and said noone
but i think thats a lie because everyone
knows who they like. im one of those people who like them for years and stuff. i just want to be with them every second of the day. and i don't wanna tell them i like him he will ingore me for
ever .. n i think about dealth alot too because its just the thought of me never gonna get him (link)
i think that you shouldnt think bad about youself or bad things in general life is something that is not long its short so if you spend all your time being sad you wont enjoy life to the fullest. as for the boy hangout with him just as friends hangout with him where he likes as a if you didnt know he would be there get close to him as a friend nd see if things pick up from there. this worked for me so i hope it works out for you to :) nd one more thing your beautiful no matter what you think everyone has something great about themselves, EVERYONE does so hav some confidence. luck!


14/f Ok, so for Halloween I'm going as a sexy kitty: black lacy tank top, denim mini skirt, and black knee high boots (they're comfy, but look really cool=] ) with a cat tail and cat ears. so I have a question: should I do any face makeup? (black nose and whiskers) I don't want to look like a little girl, but i want it to look cat-ish. also, if i should, what should i use? thank you! (link)
i think tht you should not do your whole face of makeup but do some whiskers in a dark eyeliner i thin that would be cute :) hope it works


Me and my friends are putting together mix cds for each other and my mix cd theme is 'songs about sex'. And I seriously cant think of any!

I need suggestions! Any genre, any artist, whatever! I'd really appreciate any suggestions!

Thanks! (link)
theres i wanna f*** you by akon, whats your fantasy by ludacris, smack that by akon, moneymaker by ludacris,sexyback by justin timberlake, you and me by e40, grind with me by pretty ricky, bojangles by pitbull,give it up to me by sean paul,buttons by the pussycat dolls.

well hope i helped a little good luck :)


Hey guys.

First i'm going to start this, i am 15/f.
My boyfriend is 17.

Well, we started going out a month ago. Everything was really good, we had our ups and downs, but i really care about him.

Lately he has been really busy, and kind of pushing me to the side. It seems like he doesn't care about me anymore. He barely talks to me at all. One time i asked him to do something, but he went out with his friends instead. I would be mad about that if his friends weren't my best friends.

But yeah, everyone says to talk to him about it but i can't even do that! He will get mad at me, and i know he will; it has happened before.


Anyone know what i should do? i'm woried i will loose him and i really don't want to. (link)
if hes pushing you to the side and not giving u any time or attention maybe it would best if you hung out with new people i noe its hard but everyone needs someone to luv them nd hes not givin u dat luv so i hope this works out nd everything goes ok good luck :)


I was always against abortion. I am 16 years old and pregnant. I have a boyfriend for 5 monghs now and we never had sex. The problem is that on a night out with a friend of mine "girl" I got raped. Somebody must have sleeped me that ruffy cause I do not remember anything and woke up the next day feeling like my head is going to explode. That happen over 45 days ago.
My parents now, we told them its my boyfriends and it is my fault cuase my parents have been through a lot and I really dont want them to know. I consider myself mature enough to battle with my own problems and mistakes. I consider it to be my fault since I was not carefull enough. Plus, them knowing would change a lot.
I definately do not want to keep that baby, I definately am not ready to become a mother especially on such an occasion and already too many people know. My parents want me to keep it even though we are not wealthy at all.
I know that after 3 months you can now longer have an abortion so I am running out of time. How do I convince my parents to let me do it? And...if they dont allow me to, I ll do it myself. What could change then? How will I be able to make them, accept my choice. My boyfriend has been really understanding with the hole situation and really helpfull. He is the one willing to give the money for such an...act.
I am ready to do anything it takes not to have that baby, If I have to punch myself in the stomach, I ll do it.
People from my church also know. They will never take me back after such a thing. My boyfriend sais he could move far away with me were we will work and go to school at the same time. (link)
tell them the truth i also dont belive in abortion its not ok but in your case there is an exeption this wasnt yoour fault and as far as the church thing goes i am catholic and tak my religion VERY seriously but i also have disagreements with the church so stand up and challenge your faith to become stronger goodluck :)


I really think I am the only person in this world who is being in this position. I love my woman and I am so willing to spend every second of my life with her. The problem is that she moved away for a month and made it clear to me that it is all over. I love children I would love to make her tons of children, I am always thinking how beautifull she is and how beautifull would our children be. She has the most beautifull eyes in the world.
So anyways, I was very patient, made many sacrifices for her, did not cheat on her, did not even find another girl for a while because I had hopes that we will be back together one day and I did not want to give bad charma to it.
I tried to convince myself to move on but just could not, i had to wait for her. I had all this feelings that I am just not good enough so after she found another man... I started meeting so many new girls. I was dating all the time every night with a different girl for 2 months. Many girls a day. I was so high when I was with my girl and I just had to get there again, find another girl that will make me fly again. Of course most of them dates would lead to sex.
I got a new girl now, she is really good and cute and I got strong feelings for her. She is pregnant. Also 2 of the other girls are pregnant, I was seeing them for over a week each, this girl I have now wehave been together for about a month.
I know I still love my ex but I think it is about time to realise that we will never ever be together again. I am also a very wealthy man, and about those 2 other wimen I am scared that they are gold diggers. They must have messed up with the condoms cause I always use one unless I really know the girl and have been with her for a long time. I dont want no babies and I am in a really really ackward position.
I am cob in one of the biggest hospitals where I am from if you know what I got in mind. Should I tell everything to my ex and see what happens? should I use a tactic to win her back, should I focus on the girl I got now? I am not going to raise 3 babies from 3 different wimen. I am always carefull and I never wanted to put myself in such a place. (link)
first not good u used bad things to mak u happy second dont leave the women! thats what a coward does. third do you no for sure they are yours??


ok here is the deal. i am a flat out procrastinator. no matter what i do i always do it last minute! from anything like waking up in the morning for school, doing homework, or even cleaning. no matter how hard i try i just cant get them done until the last minute. how do i stop? please help me (link)
i had the same problem but heres what helpd me so tell friends, reliable friends to remind you. write it somewhere you will see it for sure like your hand nd make lists of thngs to do hope it works bye :)


There this boy and i think he likes me like more than friends and i only like him as a friend and im afraid hes going to ask me out and i wont have the heart to say no... he told this kid that he liked a girl in our school in our grade i think its me... ohto... watta i do

Merissa x3 (link)
you should hangout with him and give him a chance then if u still dont like hm like that then tell him


(Sorry if this is a little bit long...)
She was my very best friend. Well, for the most part she still is. He was too, but of course we had our differences. My friend Danny (a boy) was great to talk to, and I loved walking home from school while chatting with him. My friend Lea (a girl) was my best girls kick ass buddy. We had the best time together, and I helped her with all of her boy problems. Then, one day she tells me she likes Danny. I serioiusly couldn't believe my ears. How could this be happening? Well, she asks me to talk to him about his crush and to find out who it was. She assumed he wouldn't be nervous about it with me. Well, turns out Danny likes her back. To be percise, they've liked eachother for 2 years! At first everything about this was a-okay with me! Accually, it was a great opportunity for all of us to hang out together. Sadly, eventually they left me all together and just went off in corners together talking with thier heads really close.
I got scared. How could they leave me? Would they start getting too close? I don't know what to do! I can't just leave my friends and get new ones, and thier relationship can't last forever, can it? How do I deal with this?!?!

P.s. I am 13, and a girl. :) (link)
hi first of all i think that you should think about this and put yourself in how they are feeling u noe??? friendships are hard but the more struggle the stronger the relationship will be so give it some time and meet new people dont forget about them just hang out with others to :) have an awesome day and hope things go ok




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