I really think I am the only person in this world who is being in this position. I love my woman and I am so willing to spend every second of my life with her. The problem is that she moved away for a month and made it clear to me that it is all over. I love children I would love to make her tons of children, I am always thinking how beautifull she is and how beautifull would our children be. She has the most beautifull eyes in the world.
So anyways, I was very patient, made many sacrifices for her, did not cheat on her, did not even find another girl for a while because I had hopes that we will be back together one day and I did not want to give bad charma to it.
I tried to convince myself to move on but just could not, i had to wait for her. I had all this feelings that I am just not good enough so after she found another man... I started meeting so many new girls. I was dating all the time every night with a different girl for 2 months. Many girls a day. I was so high when I was with my girl and I just had to get there again, find another girl that will make me fly again. Of course most of them dates would lead to sex.
I got a new girl now, she is really good and cute and I got strong feelings for her. She is pregnant. Also 2 of the other girls are pregnant, I was seeing them for over a week each, this girl I have now wehave been together for about a month.
I know I still love my ex but I think it is about time to realise that we will never ever be together again. I am also a very wealthy man, and about those 2 other wimen I am scared that they are gold diggers. They must have messed up with the condoms cause I always use one unless I really know the girl and have been with her for a long time. I dont want no babies and I am in a really really ackward position.
I am cob in one of the biggest hospitals where I am from if you know what I got in mind. Should I tell everything to my ex and see what happens? should I use a tactic to win her back, should I focus on the girl I got now? I am not going to raise 3 babies from 3 different wimen. I am always carefull and I never wanted to put myself in such a place.
BitsandPieces answered Thursday October 26 2006, 11:13 am: You wanted to fly high..are you high now? It is time to stop looking back and start looking at the present and preparing for your possible future. Though I have strong doubts that you used condoms and that you are wealthy, you do have a responsibility to three women now and it is THEIR choice and not yours, whether or not to complete pregnancy and bear your children. We have all been dumped or left or something like that, but it is never an excuse to throw your life into total chaos of one night stands, and I don't care if you dated them a week, they were still all thrills without frills. Telling everything to your ex? How do you envision it? "Hey baby I never stopped loving and thinking about you, despite the fact I got three different women pregnant and had unprotected sex many times and may be infected with sexually transmitted diseases." You only have one choice, my friend. Reality Check!!! Keep a good paying job, you may need to support 1-3 children by law. Go to a doctor and get tested for all sexually transmitted diseases. They are rampant these days, and many are treatable. You never wanted to be in this situation, but that is exactly where your own actions have put you, and you must take responsibility. Hiding from the truth never works. Working with the truth always helps. I really wish you the best of luck, and hope that you will be man enough to do the right thing by the women you took to bed, and the unborn children that you have created with them.
Making the best of your present situation and stepping up to your responsibilities will start to fill that empty place in you with a fresh sense of self-esteem and lead you to become a better man. [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
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