There this boy and i think he likes me like more than friends and i only like him as a friend and im afraid hes going to ask me out and i wont have the heart to say no... he told this kid that he liked a girl in our school in our grade i think its me... ohto... watta i do
Merissa x3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? snickerzz11 answered Friday October 27 2006, 10:42 pm: If he asks you out and you say yes when you don't want to, neither of you will have a good time. You'll feel awkward about it, and most likely he'll be able to tell you aren't enjoying yourself. So if he does ask you out, you should try and gently explain to him that you really do like him and that you'd just like to stay friends. When you tell him this, don't expect him to act really happy. Chances are he'll be hurt, but he won't want you to see that, so give him some space for a while. Don't try to force him back to the way your friendship used to be. Just give it some time, and see how things turn out =] [ snickerzz11's advice column | Ask snickerzz11 A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Friday October 27 2006, 5:49 pm: Well, you never know, you might wind up liking him.
I would tell him you'll think about it, and maybe you guys should go on a little date thing to see how it goes and everything, and just think of if you could possibly like this guy later on in the relationship or if you feel you're already developing feelings for him. Because you've only had friend feelings for him, you don't know what boyfriend feelings for him could be like.
But if you still find yourself only liking him as a friend and nothing more, you just got to be honest with him. Tell him you had a great time on the date, but you really only felt friendly vibes coming between the two of you, and you wouldn't want to ruin that, and you hope you saying no won't ruin the friendship you guys have. Even though you don't have the heart to say no, which is understandable, you can't go out with him as a pity thing. That'd only hurt him more in the end knowing he'd then be so much more emotionally involved, and knowing it's been this huge, pitiful, lie.
mooch789 answered Thursday October 26 2006, 10:38 pm: well I'd give him a chaance. If you don't like it, and he continues to press you, just say no and let him be
nena92 answered Thursday October 26 2006, 9:22 pm: you should hangout with him and give him a chance then if u still dont like hm like that then tell him [ nena92's advice column | Ask nena92 A Question ]
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