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Could both of them leave me for each other?


Question Posted Thursday October 26 2006, 6:42 pm

(Sorry if this is a little bit long...)
She was my very best friend. Well, for the most part she still is. He was too, but of course we had our differences. My friend Danny (a boy) was great to talk to, and I loved walking home from school while chatting with him. My friend Lea (a girl) was my best girls kick ass buddy. We had the best time together, and I helped her with all of her boy problems. Then, one day she tells me she likes Danny. I serioiusly couldn't believe my ears. How could this be happening? Well, she asks me to talk to him about his crush and to find out who it was. She assumed he wouldn't be nervous about it with me. Well, turns out Danny likes her back. To be percise, they've liked eachother for 2 years! At first everything about this was a-okay with me! Accually, it was a great opportunity for all of us to hang out together. Sadly, eventually they left me all together and just went off in corners together talking with thier heads really close.
I got scared. How could they leave me? Would they start getting too close? I don't know what to do! I can't just leave my friends and get new ones, and thier relationship can't last forever, can it? How do I deal with this?!?!

P.s. I am 13, and a girl. :)


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NinjaNeer answered Friday October 27 2006, 5:18 pm:
It sucks when friends do this... I had one friend in high school who would abandon us every time she had a boyfriend, but when they broke up she'd come back to us crying and expecting us to take her back. It gets really annoying after a while.

Well, all you can really do right now is try to form stronger bonds with some of your other friends. Be there for her if she needs you.

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nena92 answered Thursday October 26 2006, 9:19 pm:
hi first of all i think that you should think about this and put yourself in how they are feeling u noe??? friendships are hard but the more struggle the stronger the relationship will be so give it some time and meet new people dont forget about them just hang out with others to :) have an awesome day and hope things go ok

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