HeLLo! My name's Alyssa! And I'll be and 8th grader this year (yes I'm young, but I'm a person and still can give advice!=) So here's tha scoop:
NaMe=AlYsSa
B-DaY=7/23/91
StAtS=SaDlY SiNgLe =*(
HeIgHt=5 f00t 6
SeX=SeXy LaDy
LoCaTiOn=NoRtH KiNgStOwN RhOdE IsLaNd (rocq on, lil rhody!)
ScHoOl=DaViSViLlE MiDdLe ScHoOl
Well, enough about me, ask your qeustions, I'm listening!
ASK AWAY!
Gender: Female
Location: *Rhode Island*
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
AIM: xswtie0alyssax
Member Since: July 3, 2004
Answers: 45
Last Update: July 11, 2004
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hi my friend has been really mean to me, they are starting to beat me up when there in a mood help xx (link)
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poor hunn!
That's unacceptable, you HAVE to get a parent involved, you're NOT a punching bag that makes a solution for pplz problems
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ne one kno ne really cool but diff. sites i could go on? im wicked bored (link)
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Hey hun, bored.com and geocities.com are my faves. Bored.com because they have different (random, interesting!) websites, and geocities becasue I LOVE creating webpages. For my family, friends, it's fun starting with s black page and creating and personalizing it!
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why do girls wear bra and thongs all they seem to do in my appen is make girls and their moms spend money (link)
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Well, thongs, because..their so commercial, but also some people think their comfy-er than underwear. Bras are because, well, without them, people can see *everything* under you shirt! It's true that they're way overusd as a sex symbol, but they're a part of life!!!
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hey i was just wondering do guys prefer straight hair or do they like curly/wavy hair? also which one do u think is "in".
thxxxxxx (link)
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Well, guys tend to go for straight hair, but wavy hair is just as sexy! especially hair with volume, and if your straight hair gets too-too long, you get split ends...ugh!
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its not really a mental illness but im sick and my throat hurts and nose is stuffy and i dont wanna bug my mom 2 get medicine cuzshe gets in a bad mood, so any home remidies? (link)
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Well there's not really one, a girl in my school died from untreated illnesses. Your infection could get worse, but drink TONS of liquids and stay away from acidic food and drink (hurts you throat!!!) Also, you can take (with your moms permission of course ) nyquil, i use it, it works, trust mee!
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me and my brother are always arguing and i hate it. he always calls me names and im older wot can i do (link)
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Yikes, sounds like my life! =) what i do is ignore him, after a while he gets ticked and leaves me a lone, also, i (i know its bad to) bribe him, saying th9ings such as: "you can't borrow my cd if you don't stop," or "i wont pay for you movies anymore" It's not right to, but thats a desparate situation. Also, you can pulll a classic thats gaurenteed to work: MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!
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im tryin to make a long story short it mite be hard to make out, and if it is, go to my column...im southern_chickety, and ask me!!
i've wanted to be an actress for the past 2 years
i love acting, and i take theatre classes, my mom wont support me in it tho, because the said it's a hard career, and it wont be easy to find a job, and it wont be cheap, and we dont have the money to spend, i mean my parents are raising 3 kids, and they have one in college
i wanna go to acting skool and stuff, but now every1 is sayin if i go to acting skool ill just become a broadway actress, and i dont wanna do broadway, i wanna do movies
i'm really confused, should i follow my dreams,and try to be an actress or listen to the family¿¿??
im 14/f/nc (link)
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Acting is the way to go! MY friends have started out small, like community and school drama plays, then, look up a talent search (barbizon was recommended by a few of my friends) It's expensive, but modeling and acting agencies do get you into movies, talent scouts are everywhere too, especially in malls, and they love actors and actresses who have brght personalities.
sry i dunno much about the subject.
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i write really good poems and i want 2 get them in a published book but i dont kno how, can sum1 help me (link)
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Hey hun, my mom wrote a book, so I'll do the best I can to give you the scoop:
You need to find a publisher, and make a due date for your book to be completed.
If you're getting pitures, hire a publisher
Write away!
Edit CAREFULLY
send your book in
they'll send it back if there are more errors
there is a whole nother process after that, so it depends who your book is being aimed towards
my best advice is:
TYPE EVERYTHING!
SAVE ON A DISK (just in case)
PARTNER UP (makes the job EZer)
Good luck!
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I'm about 5'0, and way 100 lbs.13/f/ny. am i over weight? (link)
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Check your BMI, it was made by doctors (smart people!!!) so it will know for sure
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Hey,my situation is prolly a pretty common one,but i'll go into it anyway. I'm an 18 year old guy,who knows this really nice girl for over a year. The reason i never made my move on her was that she was always going out with one of my friends and still is. I am under the impression that i'm her friend and nothing more,b/c she tells me things prolly only her bf should know and i feel bad about this. I dont wanna wreck anybody's relationships,but it seems like she's more comfortable around me then him. What should i do? (link)
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WEll, wait until something happens between them, you don't want to lose a friend, after a while, go for it! If she tells u porant stuffz, it means she trusts you enough to! Also, though, she might not be a worthy girlfriend if she keeps things from her boyfriend, think about that! She could be dishonost, and you just don't know it since you've never dated her, be careful!
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Ok i'm going to be 18 on July 10th and there is this dude named Jason who I like and he likes me too...he says that I have all the qualities he wants and in a girl and he just makes me feel real good...but there's a huge problem...He is 27!!!! ahhh I don't know wut to do!! I think when ur 18 ur legal, but still is it bad gettin involved w/him? I'm real confused! (link)
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Yikes! That is old! I wouldn't suggest it because you could get hurt in this situation, plus, even if you ARE legal, you and Jason's age differences will merge into something worse, like he has to work full time ans u have to finish college, stuff like that, you could end up regretting it.
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im really depressed and i dont know what to do with myself both of my best friends whom i hang out with all the time both have boyfriends, but me being the ugliest friend does not. i feel really left out the thing is no guy will notice me because im not pretty and im not fat but im not skinny im 5"8 and i weigh about 175lbs ive stopped eating basically, trying to lose weight. i just want to be happy again how do i get some confidence???? i have none at all... please help i feel like the ugly duckling of the group (link)
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Hey hun, well, as your parents and the rest of the world have probably told you, everyone is different, and it's true! Just because your not a twig in a string bikini doesnt mean your not pretty! Look inside yourself, what do you see? Your hobbies, personality, beautiful.
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How do you get ur hair to look wavey and a little curly with gel or other products...when I try it with gel it just makes spiral curls and I don't like it!! =/ (link)
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for that, All i do is shower, DON'T BLOW DRY! air dry, then you scrunch mousse into your hair, just put it in ur palm and scrunch it through your hair, it should stay that way.
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wat candy is your fave:
A)Hersheys (with or without almonds)
B)Twix
C)M&Ms (any kind of M&Ms)
D)Other (if you pick this kind wat is your fave)
thanx!! luv ya!! (link)
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Twix all the way!
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I just found out that my best guy friend of 3 years has a crush on me. At first I was so confused about how I felt about him... I told him that I didn't know if I liked him back. But after I thought about it, I realized that I do like him. I would ask him out, but here's the problem: He went out with my sister *she's only a year younger than me* & he was pretty jerky to her. He'd hit on me right in front of her, and as if that isn't bad enough, he broke up with her by calling her from another friend's house (who was a GIRL btw.) Then a day after their breakup, he came over to my house & starting apologizing & crap, saying that his friend made him do it. He was so mean to my sis, so I'm afraid to get involved with him. But I think he might've changed. Should I give him a chance? (link)
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Hey hunn, if your instincts say not to, and he was a crappy bf to a girl (UR SISTER!) then don't let him look at u from afar!
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Im anorexic, i dont know how to stop, i try to eat, but when i do i throw it up, i was on a diet to loose weight but i dont want to loose to much, im 13, 5'6, i did weight 122 pounds and now i weigh 78, i think im at the perfect weigh, but im feeling tired and lightheaded and my face is pale, i really need help and im afraid to tell anyone :( (link)
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=o wow, use the BMi index to see for yourself how underweigt u r, thei all over the internet, but you should check into a hospital too! Mhy friend is anorexic and she faints, but also if you throw up, you get tooth decay (*ouch x10*) and your hair falls out, what's better, being a bone and skin bald girl with no teeth? or a healthy person who is still beautiful. Also, when you check into the hospital, they'll probably moniter your health a whole lot, so you should be back on weight after a while (it depends how long) Here's another reason to start eating again (or put effort into it) because if you continue to not take in food, or throw it up, the doctors stick a tube into your throat, that forces it down. OUCH, but effective, I see that you want to stop, and that's a big start already. Some people have NO willpower, and die from being anorexic. 78 pounds is unacceptable, especially since the average 5"6 girl weighs around 125 pounds! Well, I'm glad that you have accepted that you're anorexic and want to stop, and hope that you gett better really soon too!
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If you stop eating will the size of ur boobs and ur butt go down and im just asking???>???? (link)
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erm, no not really, exersise is the key, since your muscles will tone upp majorly, if you stop eating, you'll just faint a lot (take it from my friend)
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my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of the month and i really like him but i dont know if i should break up with him..i live in new york..help!! (link)
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Hmmmm hunn, u should try the long-distance-relationship thing for a little bit, it's unusual for it to work, but my friend has a bf in hawaii and she lives in RI. If it doesnt work, pull the plug, a 12 hour ride isnt worth it for someone who, well, isnt worth it!
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I think im addicted to cutting.... and i like it but i want to stop.... how do i stop? (My parents know and im not talking to a damn physcologist)
~Kele~ (link)
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Hey there, well, that's sort of not an option if you like it and want to stop, you could start by creating another habit that's simillar (my friend used to cut herself and she would use a rubber band and snap it *owie, but jus a lil* to get that slight pain satisfaction, I'm not a phycologist though, so I'm not sure, but u definitly hafta go c 1!
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i hav a friend . lets say her name in mary . well mary has always been bad to me in the past. me n her hav gotten into a lot of fights in the past three yrs. . for some reason i always keep crawling back to her and we become friends again . shes stolen from me in the past about twice now and she denys when i know she did it and shes talked behind my back many times , even if were still friends . and she laughs about it like its no big deal . my parents have told me to keep away from her in high school next year b/c nobudy will like u for hanging out with her . i know there right , i havt had a decent friend treat me good in a looog time . since ive been frends wit this girl . i kno its time for me to let her go as a friend . shes hurt me n my family in the past and i dont want to have evryone hte me for hangin out wit her . please help . what do i do!!!! (link)
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Wow hun, stolen from you? If it was something big, definitly end that friendship, you don't need your stuff taken jiust for a friend. Maybe she feels she needs to be in control, or that you're easy to take advantage of. Start my become more aggressive (not mean though!) and if that does'nt work, use all of that aggressiveness that you worked up and end your friendship,
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