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I'm very straight foward. If I have something to say, then I'm going to say it. I'm like, different. When I give advice I put myself in the peoples shoes and then I say what I have to say. No one can stop me from saying what I have to say. I'm like really, really, really into giving advice to people and like I can always help anyone with anything! Trust me, I'm good that way! I can always give you sound advice which usually has 2 choices with explaintions to them.

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I really like this guy and we dated befor and are good friends now. Well i also dated his brother a few years ago too and he just came back to my school and I've been talking to him a lot and all the feelings are coming back but i don't think he likes me. Meanwhile he also dated my best friend for a long time, well she still has feelings for him but she doesn't talk to him. She knows how i feel about him and she doesn't care but i dont know if i should tell him or play it out or what. And i'm not sure if id want to date him because of my best friend and i still have a lot of feelings for his brother. wat should i do?

Ok, no offensence, but that's messed up! You like this guy and you went out but now you're friends, then you used to date his brother and now those feelings towards him are coming back but you don't know if he likes you, then your friend is in this!? What the heck!? Chick, words of wisdom, if you go outwith one guy, don't go out with his brother, nor should your friend like him! Because that's like backstabbing after backstabbing! You like this dude, then you broke up and went with his bro, then the dude comes back and your feelings are coming back, but you still like his brother, then your friend likes him also?! No, no, no, no! Chick, that is truely fucked up! Never go out and go out if they're both related or whatever! Never do that.
The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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there is someone who keeps logging on to my screen name! I think its one of my friends but everytime i ask her she denies it! the last question "i" asked i think she did. u kno the acting question. That question is totally inaccurate! I stink at acting let alone boast about it. She is in my acting class too so thats why i think its her. What do you think i can do about her cuz she wont admit it???
~Dani~

Ok, first, you can't do anything about her, just tell her that the two of you are going to be honest with each other or else. Then you go home and change your passwords to everything, so no one can get in your screen name! Simple doll!

The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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Out look express email; when I click on a link in an email I recieve, robo form instalation form comes up. I deleted it from my add and remove programs. robo form tells me for the uninstall to work all windows must be closed. Laying in the task bar is a file from my documents and I think that might be the reason the uninstall isn't working. the big problem is when I delete the file a new one takes the same position. What the hell do I do. also who would i report robo form to as they don't seem to care.
Duke

Ok, you need professional help! Like, since it's on a computer then go to like a place where they can fix it! Like easy, duh. If they can't help you with that, then, trash this computer that you have and buy a new one. Simple as that. Good Luck!
The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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Me and this guy use to go out. He broke up with me and I didnt see him for a long time. I was in love with him, we started talking again and we hug and flirt and talk but theres this other girl he does some of that stuff with too. I still have feelings for him, everytime I see him I always think god he's hot, and think about how much I care for him. But wut do I do? I need him back, he's like all I ever think about.

Ok, have you at least told him what you still feel for him?! Because if you truely want him back, then you have to tell him how you feel about him still. Like come on! Think chick! If you truely care for him and love him, then just tell him and like yeah! Just like try going into the deep water and get out of the shallow parts!

The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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Okay, so! I'm 15/female and I met this guy last week and he seems pretty cool. He likes me and all, and I like him too. It's just that, I dont like him like boyfriend/girlfriend. He's a great person and all, and I'd be happy with being friends but other than that, I'm confused. See.. I'm not hott or anything, I'm average, but he sees me as beautiful. And I desperatley want a boyfriend because I havent had one in over a year and I'm getting lonely. But I dont want to go out with this guy for the wrong reasons. Should I go out with him once and see what happens or what?

Well, honey, just go out on like a friend night out or something! It's not a date or anything, but the both of you are going to like find out about each others feelings and like yeah. From there, see what your hearts tell each other. Like, just don't play around with him chick! Good luck!

The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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Ok, I want to try to start wearing makeup, all my firneds do and im feeling kinda left out!
Any ideas on what to do, what brands, saftey tip,
Also I live with my dad so i could ask him
Help!


Ok, if you feel left out, then who cares!? If you want to then be careful not to wear too much! But like, I say just be you freaking self and don't care what your friends are doing. Just be yourself. Oh and if you ask your dad then be very careful about that.

The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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hey,
well you know how my sis and bros are always getting me into trouble even with things i don't do,my dad always hits me for no reason and sometimes my sis does something bad and blames it on me and my dad hits me,sometimes for no reason..there's never one day were he doesnt.. he hits me about 4-6 time a day for things i didnt even do..i tell him i didnt do them but he doesnt believe me he believes my sis and bro cuz they are younger,i try talking to my mom but she doesnt listen or believes me anyways she is never home so she never sees how my dad treats me,i want to talk to someone in my school ,a counsulor(w/e its spelled) but i'm shy and scared i dont want my dad to go to jail or anything but i just cant stand it anymore when he hits me like mad for absolutly no reason..and also bosses me around i understand thats his job but...i mean he tells me to pick up my SIS OR BROS OR HIS stuff but its not fair why cant he boss my sis and bros around i mean its there mess sometimes i tell him 'why should i its not my mess why would i need to pick that stuff up'..but he just hits a bunch of time and i csnt defend myself cuz he might keep hitting me harder and that hurts....what should i do? (i sometimes think about cutting but thats not the way out of a problem so i dont i just hold in my anger?

Ok, honey, going with the counsulor thing is a really good idea! Don't be shy or scared, ok?! Get courage baby! I mean, just freaking stand up for yourself, ok?! If you didn't do anything then scream it at his freaking face! If he tries to hit you, then freaking scream your lungs out and make sure someone hears you or just freaking hit him back and then run out of your house. I mean, like hitting ou is like serious child abuse. A small spanking is all that is allowed here in the US! If he's hitting you 4 to 6 times a day for no reason then that right there is child abuse. That can affect a child's brain. He has no freaking right t hit his own child that way. Oh, if your mom doesn't pay attention to you then make her pay attention! If she's at work all the time, then go on over to her work or call her at work and make her pay attention. Like there's no excuse for your dad to hit you for no reason and for your mom to not pay attention to you. Oh, but they have time for your younger brothers and sisters! I'm going through that same thing. My parents and grandparents pay attention to my younger 2 brothers and not to me and my older brothers and sisters! Like we're outcast in our family. But we stand up for ourselves when we have to. So, just make your dad stop hitting you and to start believing you and tell your mom to start paying attention to you! Good luck my young child!

The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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hey um u have good feedback so i just have to ask you. well i have a question i like sumone lets call her Penny,and um lets call me Kevin, ok well shes reely nice and beautiful and i reely like her, but i dont think she likes me, she jokes around with me but i think its just playing around, i think its because im so ugly but lets see if u think so heres a link to my picture. http://unknown516.tripod.com/mypik/. tell me what you think bye.

Ok, first of all, you're so not fucking ugly, ok!? You're really hot and like if she plays around with you then like, no. If you really, really like her as you claim to say, then just ask her out or just say how you feel about her and see what happens. Things might feel uncomfortable, but that's normal! I mean, just ask her out and let her get to know you. Plus if you think you're ugly, then that's a freaking turn off for chicks. You have to love yourself before anyone else loves you, ok? Hope everything goes well!

The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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I've liked this guy for like, seriously, a REALLY long time, I mean we've been friends for longer than I can remember. A couple years ago my cousin was visiting from another state and I was takin her to hang out w. me and a few of my friends (including the guy i like). Now let me get this straight, I told her how much I liked him and how much he meant to me. Well, they meet each other and they decide that hey they like each other, so they start to go out (yea long distance n everything) and i'm like seriously, devastated, you don't understand how much i care for this guy. They broke up after awhile but i have never really been the same w. my cousin since. about a year after that happened, my guy started liking me, and he told me and so we dated for a few weeks and did some stuff n my cousin got soo pissed at me, and i think that i have a right to do what i please, considering she did like, almost hte exact same to me! even though i wasn't doing it to piss her off, i did it cause i really really like this boy. Well, me and my boy still talk alot, and he says that in a few years (i'm 14, he's 15) he thinks that we should get together again, but he doesnt want to right now, and i understand that. My cousins coming into town this weekend. I have plans to see a movie w. my guy and a bunch of my other firends and my mom told me i have to take my cousin, n i'm soo afraid that she and him will start likin each other again. what do i do.!??!

Ok first of all! OMFG CHICK! If you really liked this dude and then your cousin went and went out with him, then she should be banned from your family tree! Because that is not what family is for! Also, what the heck is this?! You and your guy went out, broke up and then you two might get back in the future!? No, no way! You stay together now or like end it completly! I had to do the same with my ex - boyfriend and we're still friends! But no, stay now together or no! Because soon it's going to turn out to be break up, after break up, after break up! Plus, if you have to take your cousin along with you and your friends, then good luck, because if they start liking each other then you should forget the dude and stay friends. Because soon he's going to want you back and you're going to be "eh?" and like that just shows he's like deprate and like a player and a man slut! No offense. Just stay friends, if nothing happens with him and your cousin, go ahead and like him, and see what happens, but if you two brea up and brea up then like forget him and move on.

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Have you ever thought that you liked someone when you were going out with a different someone (that you love soooo much!) and sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with the other person?

I know its wrong, and i told my boyfriend {of 1yr and almost 2mos.} but i dont know how to stop. because I don't truly like these other people. I Love my boyfriend tho. I hope this isn't too confusing!!

Anyone experienced this?

Help me to stop please!

Oh, I would never cheet on my boyfriend or break up with him. So your probabaly wondering, "whats the problem them?" well I still dont want to think these things. i mean i know im a teen (freshman/female) but I have a great boyfriend and I know this isnt right! so, anyone??

Thanks In Advance!

-*KeLs*-

p.s.=if this doesnt make since { how i worded it or if you need to know something else}, say so in your answer, and i'll re-ask the question to you differently!

Thanks!! :)

Yeah, I have gone through something like that once. But what stopped me from loving the other person and almost breaking - up with my boyfriend, was like, if I broke up with him, then it would soon haunt me in my future. So, if I were you re - think this like hardcore! If you don't really like the other people then like forget them and stay with your boyfrined. I mean, it's the best thing to do.

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I'm a 14-year-old girl. As I was leaving school the other day, I was walking with a casual male friend. As we were talking, he developed a
very large, very obvious erection. I was so embarrassed for him! I pretended not to notice, and didn't say anything, but he seemed
mortified, and left in a hurry. What should I have done?

Well, you couldn't have done anything. I mean, staring at something is like freaking normal! If he was mortified then like let him be, but like I guess you may say sorry for looking or whatever.

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soccer is coming up soon.... i need to get in shape... really bad. whenever i run now i feel i get out of breath a lot easier. and i think my leg muscles decreased, i lost a lot of weight. what can i do do get in shape, and increase my muscles (mainly leg muscles.. although arm muscles would help for my throw-ins)?

thanks..

Well, exircise duh! I mean, I'm in track and all I do is lift weights for my arms and legs and I run! Just do that and like don't over do it of course!

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Ok I have problems trusting people..especially guyys! everytime I put my trust out there fully someone always smashes it... twice I had been cheated on, I have been lied to and ditched and I can't take it... but yea I want to know how do I trust guys more? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years....at the very beginning of our relationship he cheated on me but we moved on... I can't seem to fully trust him, I tell him I do and I believe I should but I can't help question him after he has gone out... he is really annoyed of it ! and me to, I dont mean to question but my head is filled with them... how do I learn how to trust him ?? (PS pleasse dont go saying how i should break up with him because hecheated, or because i dont trust him, IDO trust him...i just cant show it)

Ok, honey, well, like whoa. Cheating is something serious and like you shouldn't break up with him, but man. Learn to show your trust, because that's what a relationship is all about! Trust and honesty is like the ain keys in everything. So, just like see how he's acting and everything, if he acts strange around you then you may quetsion him, if he's not, then like forget it. Just like go with what your heart says.

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I purchased a pair of jeans off ebay on February 19, 2005. When they arrived, I was dissatisfied with them and requested a refund. On March 6, the person emailed me back saying they recieved the jeans and would send me a refund the next morning. After a week later, I emailed them back asking where the refund was. They said they never recieved the jeans. I emailed back saying I did send them the jeans. Today, I got an email from ebay saying I never sent payment! How is this possible if I recieved the jeans and requested a refund??? It's almost a month since I purchased these jeans and the refund isn't here! What do I do?

Ok, first of all, never buy anything from the freaking internet unless it's from a store that you shop at like from the mall or something! Second, you got really screwed with that. Remember never buy something over the internet, go shop at the mall or something!

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i recently cleared my hard drive so i lost everything, including the program i had to burn and copy cd's. now i dont know how to make cd's. i have a whole bunch of cd's that i want to put on a cd. i have WINDOWS MEDIA PLAYER (and windows xp if that matters), so how do i do it with that?

Ok, well, try sdufing the net if you can find a program that does what you want to do. If you can't then be lucky you ahve Windows Media Player! Because, there's a part of it that copies the songs from your cd and like you're able to ahve it there on the computer! So, like if one of your friends or you want to have like a copy of that same cd then just pop in a blank cd and copy all the songs that can fit and just copy them there. It might take a while, but it works. If you can't do that, then go buy the same cd again!

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