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um this is a sort of personal question but i have to have an opinion on this.my boyfriend has been like my bestfriend since i we started really talking.we were friends before we got together and i was going out with other guys.when i wasnt talking to them or my bff/sister,i was talking to him.and i had one really bad break up & i cherished him for truely being there for me.it took a while for him to ask me but i ended up dating my bestfriend.we did have some times where things were sketchy but we never argued,since we were friends we had no problem telling eachother what was up.now we have been together for seven months.im going to a different school and im may be moving too.i told him and he almost cried and i did.(very girl-like of me,i know) so if i do have to leave him i wanted give him something important and precious to me.and this would be of my own will.we have talked about sex and he said it was entirely up to me.i just want to know how to make sure this is something i won't regret one day.i know he respects and loves me but how can i be sure this is the right thing? (link)
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Well, I don't think there is a way you can be sure its right. Its entirely up to you. If its what you want to give him then do it. But I think the only way to tell is to see if it feels right. you should sit back and think about how you feel about it, think of the consequences, just be sure its what you want to do.
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hi! ok.. this is my story.. wen i was lik in teh 6th grade i liked this boy.. lets call him Z. i really used to lik him.. and then i moved to a different town and didnt see him no more, when i moved i cried so much because i knew i wudnt see him no more. i was sad for leaving him. i kinda lost contact with him.. but i still found myself thinking about him once in a while.. but at that time i had another crush.. then recently.. (i just finished 8th grade..) i started talkin to him again on myspace and i hav a strange feeling that i never really got over him. & i think i still like him a litte bit at least. now this is where i.m confused..
im not sure if i like him at all because i like this other guy, lets call him A. and ive liked him for over a year now, & i definately lik him a lot more.. i know him too even tho. we aint really "friends-friends" < you know.. we aint really that "tight" but honestly think i love him.. even if people only think its a crush..
anywayz.. i used to be friends with Z and im not really friends with A. but i really love him. how do i kno if i still hav at least some feelings for Z even if i love A?
i.m sorry if i made this really long.. but i need to kno wat u think..
Thank You soooo much.. you have no idea how much this is gunna help me.. (link)
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ok I understand how you feel, it could be one of those things where you will always have feelings for Z. I mean sometimes thats just the way life is. I still have feelings for this kid I dated. and he treats me like crap. but deep down I will always have feelings for him. I think you shouldnt let your feelings for Z get in the way of how you feel for A. even if your not friends you can always try to get him to be friends, then later on maybe more. if you find yourself thinking about Z sometimes then you probably still have feelings for him.... and thats okay, just try to move on with life even if you do still have feelings. :]
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Now i like this boy lets call him Ryan and I like another boy lets call him Jay. They are both my best guy friends.
Now ryan is often mean to me and my friends say it is because he likes me. But i think he is too mean to like me. Let me give you an example:
I walk into class greeted by a pencil in the gut that flew across the room from ryan. Then i sit at my desk only to find that ryan has changed his seating just to sit by me,again. Then as we start work on our computers he sits on the one next to me(because thats our seating arangement) and am bagered by rude and inconsiderate comments and questions. But only when he is ONLY around me. At lunch he doesn't really talk to me. Does he like Me?
Now Jay. He is soooo nice! he always cares what i say and has good things to say about everyone. He is soooo shy also. I am like the only one he talks to besides Ryan(who is his BFF) and my BFF Rachel. Now he always asks how my day is and complains about our teachers(like every 8th grader does) and i listen then do the same. He is so nice to me, and i wonder if he likes me too...
Now i am just asking if you think any of these guys like me and if I should go for one of them.
PLEASE HELP (link)
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awww, I say go with the shy one.. the mean one sounds like trouble... I think the shy one could like you! if he talks to you then he is obviously comfortable around you which is always a good thing :] and if he asks how your day is and stuff that is always really sweet! I think you should look into him if you are interested in him like that :) try to flirt a little and see if it is returned! hope I helped you out
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ok well now Trevor (my ex bf) is being an ass.... but i love him alot.... we just broke up this morning and he ALREADY has a new gf!!! its really pissing me off! we r just friends but then just like an hour ago he said he still loves me but he loves his new gf too so its "hard" to choose between us..... should i just get over him or just wait 4 his answer on who he loves more? (link)
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well it all depends on if you still want him? thats really lame that he got a new girlfriend ... but if you dumped him it should piss you off that much... if you still like him then tell him you want him back.. while he still has feelings if you wiat to long he will move on... so if you like him . tell him that. if not then move on.
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One of my friends is very rude! Now when i say rude i don't mean burp in your face, potty-mouth rude. I mean this: she never listens to me...like if i tell her a problem of mine she turns it into a joke, even though i listen to hers. She also constantly puts me down by saying "youre dumb" or "retard!". Also she leaves me when the "populars" are around even though she isn't popular! This is so annoying and really hurts my feelings! I don't know weither to leave her or what! I know that scince we are just entering highschool it gets tough but it shouldn't be this bad! You know with the whole "clique" thing but, i just don't know what to do!!!! (link)
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wow.. that realy doesn't sound like a "friend". if shes making it hard for you then shes not a good friend at all. friends don't ditch you for "popular" people... you can either ignore it and just go along with it ( which I personaly do not advise) or if you want her to remain a friend, be open about it and tell her what she is doing that hurts your feelings. if your just starting high school you will meet so many new people, its great, you want better friends then that, and you deserve better, so talk to her about it, or find friends who treat you with more respect then that. :]
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ok hi im jenny
im 15 years old and i have been having a terrible 5 months.
ok so i dated this kid who is 2 years older than me for 2 years. He also lives across the street from me. I also would like to believe that we were in love once or so I thought. He really seemed to love me and i sure as hell loved him. Then after about a year and a half of dating i felt like i was kind of getting tired of him and so were my friends, so i broke it off. I dated another guy that was his age and it made him terribly jealous. He would still call me every night and I would talk to him. Every night he would tell me he loved me, even when i was dating someone else. But the bad part about that was i told him "i love you" back, because I really did. Your probably wondering why I did'nt just break up with the boyfriend I had then and go back to dating the one that I really loved. Well, I thought he wouldn't take me back and that he was just messing with me. So I dated that one guy for a few months making my ex jealous and then I finally broke it off. When i told the guy that i like that I broke up with that one guy he seemed happy, but that was it. After that we didn't hangout as much as I would have liked to and he didn't call me every night like he used to. I was so depressed. We kept talking occasionally and sometimes we would hangout, but rarley. Then one night I was going to introuduce my friend to him so we went outside and met up. He was acting VERY strange..he didn't give me a hug or even say hi to me, he was in a terrible mood. So my friend and I were not going to stand for it so we went back inside. I was SO MAD! I stayed up all night waiting for him to call me, but he never did. Then the next day he called, but being stubborn I did not answer thinking that i would call him back later. And yes i did call him back way later that night, but no answer. I kept trying and he never answered, so then i knew something was wrong. Now on this very day I still love him and want him back, and it has been 4-5 months. Oh by the way he has a new girlfriend that he is in LOVE with and he wont talk or even look at me. I REALLY NEED ADVICE and im sorry if this is confusing or too long but please read it all.. i want advice. just answer me back or email me if you have any questions. BUT PLEASE DONT TELL ME TO MOVE ON..TRUST ME I HAVE BEEN TRYING BUT HE LIVES RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET I SEE HIM EVERY DAY! (link)
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oh :[ that makes me so sad to hear, I know how you feel, its so hard to stop loving someone like that. I never did. sometimes someone can be so mean to you and you still love them.. why? well thats just how it its. I understand how special he is to you, I really do... it must be hell to see him every day.. that is so hard. well I think the only way to really solve the problem is by talking to him... you have to make him. find a way. call him non-stop go knock on his door, write him a letter, somehow you need to get him to listen to him, and when he does you need to express all the feelings you still hold for him. I know how hard it is to move on. so I think you should talk to him and try to get some kind of understanding, even if you don't have a dating relationship with him, any relationship is better then what your dealing with. so I think you need to attempt to gain back some of what you lost :] im really sorry, I hope I helped you and I really hope things work out for you. let me know if you need any more advice
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can someone please tell me how to get makeup like this? like the eyeliner? i can NEVER make the upper lash eyeliner to look like that.
http://s209.photobucket.com/albums/bb102/volleyball4lifexoxo/?action=view¤t=l_9997abf82b0b0a951a53d561115dfcfb.jpg
thanks! (link)
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well when I do my top lashes, I always make sure my pencil is really sharp, and its hard to get it even, but take the pencil and get it as close as you can to the lashes and begin to brush it along your lashes try this out I hope it helps!
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How can I stop eggs from cracking when making hard-boiled eggs? (link)
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In my cooking class we would poke a little hole in the top of the egg and it stoped them from cracking, just use a little needle and put a tiny hole in it
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hello there , i have this big problem! ok there is this boy and we have been "talking" If you no what i mean . and well he says he likes me and i really like him , but i jsut found out he goes out with this other girl and i dont no what to do! so i really what to know what i should do please help me ! thank you (link)
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well if he said he likes you but hes going out with another girl.. thats weird? is she his girlfriend or do they just sometimes go out? he might be dating her, but secretly likes you more.. so just play it cool and find out if there "happily together" don't make a move on him if he has a girlfriend, just wait and see what he does first :]
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you know how guys always call their girlfriend "my girl"?
well what would girls call their boyfriends,besides "my guy" because thats dumb (link)
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when I was dating my boyfriend I always refered to him as "my boy" it was cute, and my friends would always be like oh so hows your boy, it was really cute to me :)
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well theres this tottly hot guy that is in my class. i know he knowws who i am kuz he has my myspace cnad everything. but how do i get him to notice me as more than just some girl?? (link)
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talk to him!!!! I know its kinda hard but just strike up casual conversations, say Hi to him, smile at him, let him know your interested, be kinda flirty but not way flirty. talking is the key, let him get to know you so you can start something :]
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ok welll...one of my best friends(we will call her bob) hasnt really been talking to me lately then i was takling to my other friend(we will call her jo) today on the phone and she said that bob told her something and told me what it was...it kinda upset me that bob didnt tell me but she told jo...so i talked to bob and she said ya it was true and when i asked her y she didnt tell me she said well she didnt think i would want to hear...the thing is it had to do with one of the guys i have liked for a year and a half...and i told her a while ago that i hate guys right now because they are confusing so she said thats y she didnt want to tell me...because she didnt want to bring up guys yet she does anyway other guys i mean...i just felt really left out that bob wouldnt tell me because it turned out to be something that i should know...so we got in an argument and i dont think she is treating me like a true friend...i mean we are suppose to be best friends and she is not telling me things but she is telling our friend jo...who is in the wrong me or her??? (link)
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I think that she should have told you honestly. if shes your best friend there shouldn't be secrets... I think you should tell her how you feel, and make it clear that she can tell you anything, even if you might not want to hear it, just tell her you feel bad that she didn't come to you. :)
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16/f
this past year I have been through a lot in my life. I also lost my self-confidence and people's first impression of me is quiet and sad. Although when people get to know me there perspectives change. I don't have a lot of self-confidence and I have a lot going for me. What are some books that work on self-confidence preferabbly that are towards a teen.
If you know of any good teen books that deal with
- self-confidence
- personality
- boys/flirting
- friends
please let me know thank you (link)
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well, in twilight bella is a little bit like you, she doesn't have much confidence, becauase edward is a vampire and is like the hottest boy on earth, but he loves her, idk if exactly waht you want but I love that book its so good I think you should check into it, im not sure if its exactly what you want
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i got my ear 2nd pierced and the 2nd hole is right above the first one the first one on the bottom part of my ear. i got it pierced like 2 or 3 months ago, and it started bleeding a few days ago, so i took the earrings out, and i hadnt changed the earrings at all or taken them out before then. so i took it out and it was bleeding, so i left it out for a few days, and i tried putting them black but it started bleeding again. its been a couple of days since i had them out, and do you think the hole will close up? what should i do and whats wrong with it? (link)
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The hole might close up if you leave it out for too long. I don't know why its bleeding, just keep it clean try putting the earing back in and clean it out really well.
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oka i like my friend brother and well he just found out that i like him and well usaully i go over her house to hang out and stuff and this week im going over there but her brother is goin to be there and i dont know what to do.I mean he knows i like him and stuff and i just wanna know should i play it cool or what.(and by the way he his very flirtation).Or should i wait to see what he gonna do. please help! (link)
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If I were you, I would play it cool until I see what he does first. If he starts to flirt, then follow his lead and flirt back a little bit. don't make it like super obvious you like him, even if he does know. just act normal, be yourself and follow his lead :)
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im perty sure this question is probably asked alot but im just gonna ask 1more time! im 14(and a half lol) and hes 18.he gonna be a senior and im gonna be a freshman.i like him and he likes me.i wanna go with him but if i do he told me not to tell anybody cus it might be illegal!is it illegal to be with him?!? or is it only illegl if we participate in sexual acts?i just really dont want to get him in trouble if it is illegal! (link)
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no its not illegal at all for you and him to date! im not sure about the sex thing.... but im sure its not illegal for you two to date :)
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what are some good books for 13 yr olds?
like something interesting but it cant have anything about sex in it.i like stuff like mysteries and stuff like the gossip girl series but of course it has sex in it so im not aloud 2 read it .
and you no those fearless books?do all of them have sex in them or just the second one?
thnx sooooo much!
(i rate!!!) (link)
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oh! I have just the books for you. read twilight and new moon eclipse comes out august 7th. its a series. they are SO good they are my favoritest books on this planet ive read twilight 4 times haha. they are soooo good, its about a vampire and a girl and they fall in love but things are .. complicated. They are just amazing and there is no sex or anything. Also check out the book "id tell you id love you but then Id have to kill you" that was a GREAT book hehe its funny and really interesting! its cute as well. I really hope you check into those books I think you would really like them!
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Hi I am 16 and I am going to get both of my ears pierced in one day somewhere, I'm not sure where yet... I have been doing some research and I have heard that the piercing guns suck! and they screw up a lot... Do you think I should just get my ears pierced by a gun, or by hand at a professional piercing or tattoo shop? (link)
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I just got mine done at claires with a gun it was fast quick and simple. probably cheaper as well. but if you want you can just get it done by hand, im sure that is fine to. :)
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ok
so i finally got up the courage to ask this girl i've known for a while out, and she said yes!
so we're gonna go see a movie next weekend- she had to babysit all day friday and i left town for the weekend friday afternoon- and now i just am not realy sure what i should do...i think we're going to see the new Harry Potter film...but what do i do? do i put my arm around her? do i hold her hand? do i buy her ticket? i'm kinda confused...i don't have a whole lot of experience with the whole dating thing- i've only ever had one girlfriend before and she was kidna a slut and did whatever- but this girl's not like that, she's beautiful and has an amazing personality...
so what do i do? my brother keeps telling me i'm past the hard part (asking her out)...now i'm just worried i'll screw up on the first date...
thanks
S
btw 15/m and she's 15 (link)
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ok well first, definetly pay for her to get in. sorry it sucks for guys but its just the way it is. then, I think it would be really cute to hold her hand :) if it was me on a first date I would be uncomfortalbe with the guy wraping his arms around me, but if her had is availalbe... don't be afraid to take it :) I think its cute
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i care wut ppl think of me and i guess i wanna be more popular . i hav alot of friends but if anyone says anything to me like"ur being a bitch" i get rlly offended and hate them nomatter wut it is.i just weanna not care about wut ppl think of me. can someone help me?! (link)
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well. I think that you should just look more at yourself. are you happy with yourself? because if you are then thats all you need. personally I really never care what people think about me. theres nothing you can do to stop what others think. no matter what there is always going to be someone thinking negetively of you. that is called life. just let things roll off your back just remember things like that are natural. of course everyone cares a bit. but try not to care, just think about it. and what they are saying? does it REALLY even matter? just something to think about :) I hope you can really look into yourself and stop caring so much about what others think... :)
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