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i got my hair bleached for the 20th time 2 weeks ago haha no really 20 but a lot.
i really dont like the way she did it so im doing it myself this time
how long should i wait before i bleach it again?
I really wouldn't want it to be damaged, (link)
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after 2 days i think u can but its not a smart idea and if u do bleach it get a bleaching kit from sallys that would be the best
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About a week ago my boyfriend fingered me. I was with him for at least an hour before this and I know that he didn't jerk off or anything. But I'm not sure if he jerked off before then and if he did he probably would have washed his hands. Would this kill sperm? Is there any chance I could be pregnant? (link)
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believe me when i say this YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT
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My ex best friend will do anything to get "revenge" on me when I didn't even do anything to her.. We got in a fight like 2 months ago and ever since then she'll do anything to make my life hell.. Any new friend I make she has to go steal them on me and then become "best friends" with them and then she tells them lies about me so they hate me. I'm losing tons of friends because of her! The worst part of all was yesterday. My best friends Sarah and Olivia that I had finally gotten sooo close to (because I have a hard time making friends so I couldn't believe I had made friends) were taken away by my ex best friend. She buddied up with them during school and she was telling them I was bitch and that I had talked about them behind their backs (WHEN I DIDNT BECAUSE I LOVE THEM AND WOULDN'T IN MY LIFE) and they believed her because she seems so innocent so my ex best friend got them on their side and they were telling people I was logging on to peoples screen name and making up schemes to ruin my life (while I was away from my computer) and when I logged on my computer my ex best friend and 2 other friends that she stole made up a group name called the "tempting three" when OUR group name used to be the "sinister six" and their AIM profiles said "omfgg i love the tempting 3 biffs for ever ever we've been through it all" and they had only talked like twice!!!.... later on when my ex best friend signed off i told my 2 friends that i would NEVER talk about them if my life depended on it and that i love them and my ex best friend has caused me trouble all my life.. and the line "see what she's doing to me? well think about what she could do to you guys!" made them believe me and we were friends again. they said they wont talk to my ex best friend again...
well as you can see my ex best friend breaks up all of my best friends in a sneaky way so i don't know about it till the damage is done.. and i am sick of being in a new fight every day because she buddied up with ANOTHER one of my friends and told them i talked about them when i didnt...
what can i do to make her back off and show her that im strong and i wont let her ruin my life?! because shes tooken away at least 7 of my friends. and shes put me through so much pain. ADVICE!
[sorry its semi long] (link)
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beat her up show her your not gonna take her shit well......maybe not but i would call her out in front of people and be like why you lying and then everyone will know what she does and not to believe her but if you wanna be more calm have a nice talk with her and maybe yall can settle this good luck
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okay, so theres this kid. I an aquintance with him but we're not actually friends. So a few weeks ago I saw him at a local baseball game while I was with my friend. I told my friend, "whatever you do, dont say hi to that one kid, nick." and she was like "NICK?! WHOSE NICK?!?!" very loudly. he obviously heard.
The reason I told her not to say anything to him was because me and er, nick kind of had a bad past. One friday night I sort of bribed him to hold hands with me infront of my ex to make him jealous. It was one of the stupidest things I've ever done, and it always comes back to haunt me somehow.
So anyway, over myspace, nick asked me if I liked him because he has "heard" stuff about me (about what I dont know, maybe me liking him? or past boyfiends). And by then I've developed a crush on him. I told him "maybe (which is an obvious yes) what did you hear about me? Is it badd? =/" and said it wasn't bad.
So me and my friends started going to him baseball games. By then, I liked him so much I was obsessed with him. My friends teased me by yelling "niickkk [me] likes youu, shes obsessed with you!" I was embarrassed but it was true so there was no hiding it. I learned to admit that I liked him.
Today I asked someone if nick had a baseball game and the kid replied "no." twice. So when I get on the bus my friend tells me that he lied to me because he didnt want me going to his game because i would annoy him. even thought I dont say anything to him.
So i dont like him anymore. But how do I clear this up? =/ Thanks so much. (link)
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i would talk to be him be like yeah sorry i annoyed you but just so you know i dont like you no more
just thought i would let you know and i think it will be good good luck
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the quote "here's a little something that every girl should know, it's okay to hold on, but eventually, you'll have to let go."
i know its time to let go , my brain is ready to but my heart just wont give up . i still talk to this guy all the time and he always says he loves me and junk , but i know he doesnt mean it . i have tried to stop talkin to him &nd it works for a couple of days , then he starts callin &nd sayin he misses me &nd junk . i just give in . i dont know what to do . someone help me ! (link)
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i could say a million words but nothing will change how you feel about someone if you love them then you love them your gonna have to take it step by step and eventually you will move on ive been in love with someone for a while now he dont like me what so ever we dont even talk much but i still love him and always will but im working on moving on and its hard but i know it will all work out how God wants it to and im ok with that and you should be to it will get better i promise good luck
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So since about the beginning of May i've liked this boy and we talk all the time on the phone. Since like May 4th hes called me everynight (except for friday and saturday nights) and we talk for a MINIUMUM of an hour 1/2 each night. And i really don't think a guy would call a girl everynight for what 2 weeks unless he felt something there. and well so far thats really all hes done to make me think he likes me. but i really wanna find out if he likes me but idk how to. next time i'm on the phone with him should i ask him who hes likes or should i just come out and tell him or what? any advice would be greattt. thanks! (link)
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i would ask him who he likes if its you great but if it isnt then act happy for him and stuff like that and if he doesnt tell you i wouldnt push him to and remember if its meant to be it will happen good luck
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15/f. my boyfriend is 17, a senior in high school. this is a long one...
my boyfriend and i have been dating since march 26 (you do the math). we've seen each other approximately 3 times since then. we've hooked up 3 times; twice while we were going out and once before. we've been to second (his hand under my bra).
we were very close friends before we started dating. we acted rather like boyfriend and girlfriend. we only needed to make it official. so we did.
he said "i love you" very early on. it took me a few times to answer. he was amazing, the perfect boyfriend. when we saw each other or even when we spoke, he treated me like gold. when i couldn't sleep, he'd answer his phone at midnight and talk to me until he fell asleep (i'm a bit of an insomniac). we had great conversations.
last time we saw each other was a week ago from yesterday. it was a perfect day, except that he was supposed to drive me home and my mom ended up not letting him and made me take the train home alone. he paid for my train ticket, being as perfect as he is, and i left. and things started to get weird that night.
about a month ago, when talking about another couple, i compared ourselves to them, not thinking it would stick with him. superficially, we were similar. however, the other couple broke up. the statement that i made started to haunt him this week. he was acting weird and he stopped saying "i love you" and every time i tried to hint to him that i was noticing, he'd ignore me. finally, i confronted him yesterday. we talked out the statement, but there was still something wrong.
we ran out of things to talk about. we always joked about that before, but we seriously did. i fell into a depression last night and for the life of him, he couldn't figure out what to do.
i still like him. hell, i think i may even love him. i don't want to break up. but he and i are both confused and a mutual friend is not making it better by telling us to break up with each other. i know he wants to stay together, but it's just so weird now. what do you think i should do? (link)
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seems to me you rushed into to things and u ran out of stuff to do i would put everything in the past and yall start over and dont listen to no one but your heart and you will get it right i promise good luck
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im 15 female..the first boy i gave my heart to was in october last year..its been about 6 months and we're not together but we both love each other. i have another boyfrined right now that im not really into, he doesnt treat me right.
anyways..all i seem to think about is my love everyday every second every minute...and he doesnt call me everyday and that gets me mad/sad and he doesnt have a cell and he knows i dont have his #. i was just wondering why i cant get over him i know he loves me and cares about me and i appreciate that soo much from him .....im going crazy lol i love him soo much. (link)
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honestly i dont think you ever do get over your first love its been a year and a half ive been in love with this boy and no i havent gotten over him
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ok I have this bf thats in a whole different grade then me so I barely ever get to see him and I feel like i dont get to talk to him that much and whenever i give him like a note he never writes back, should I just break up with him??? (link)
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talk to him if he dont change then yes
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okay so theres this guy that i like alot.
&&i want to go out with him so badd !
but besidess that i think i'm in love with him.
how do you know when your in love?
thanks
--Ashley (link)
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when your in love you know it you will have no doubt its this feeling you get that only that one person gives you and to you that person will be perfect no flaws at all and its where you cant see your self with no one else and that persons all you think about but look its nothing i can tell you its just something you know and if you love him you will know i promise good luck!!!!!!!!!!
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Hello...im 16/f
Ok, cutting right to the question. There is this guy i like in my class and i want to get over him. (ASAP)
We're complete opposites. I'm known as an angel, and he's the devil. He's completely dark and twisted and thinks really evily. He's also moody. Gets pissed off easily. Yet i like him. And i worry about him. (Opposites attract)
And i'm just very calm, sensitive and very innocent. Hehe, but i really like him and i need to get over him. Because i think he would never be interested in me. And i don't think anything would happen between us. =(
Any advice? Thanks in advance. (link)
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never know unless you try you could be the one to save him go for it if it dont work find someone more your type..........if its not meant to be you will get over him
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I am in love with a boy. I have been in love with him for the past 3 years. Yes i know i am in love. Now I am 100 percent sure.
I see him every day. We do a sport together. We are on a team together. We are a small team, and we are all like family.
I am 16. He is 16. I don't know who he likes. He had really liked a girl on our team, and they went out, but she broke up with him. He was depressed for a day, but he is back to normal.
He is the kind of boy who doesn't like to show he likes a girl. He is pretty touchy feely with all the girls on the team, including me. (but like a brotherly kind of thing, he will "fight" us, "pummel" us, and cuddle with us. I love him)
The girls are his best friends. I am not however a very close friend of his. I am a "friend." When he is with the other girls he will do all the things listed above (pummel, play fight, cuddle) with me, but only if there is at least one other girl with me.
When we are alone, he is very silent and not at all touchy feely. If I ask him a question, he will give the shortest possible answer. Almost like he is a little afraid it seems like to be alone together.
I am confused on what to do. I have tried multiple times to forget about him, to move on (I've tried dating guys, etc) but I just can't. I love him. He's perfect. I think we will be perfect together.
Please tell me what to do. I am really grateful to you if you have read this whole thing. I know it gets tiring after a while to read these "i like a guys what do i do" questions, but I really think this is important. This is not some guy I have a crush on that will evaporate in a few months, this is someone I am in love with deeply.
I also forgot: he seems to be teasing me a lot more lately (in a good way). He will sometimes be the one who starts talking to me first lately. While we are fooling around at meets he will do some optional things like putting his arm around my shoulder when he put it somewhere else (or on someone else). (link)
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i say go for it you will never know unless you try he could be the one but your to scared to try to find out and maybe hes just shy so u gotta be the one to tell him how you feel good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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15/f
So on satuday may 5th, i had sex with my boyfriend
that ive been with for a longg time. Now it went fine. I lost my viginity to him and he lost it to me. Now we did it in the woods which is strange but we arent supposed to be doing it and it was fine i didn't mind. So he left his pocket knife out in the woods that day. A few days later him and his 2 friends went out to the woods to get it. His friend lets call him Jay saw the condom and accused my boyfriend lets call him Ryan. He refused because we promised eachother we wouldnt tell anyone that we did it. If certain people found out somehow it would get to his brother and we would be forced to break up. Blah Blah but that not important. When "jay" and "ryan" and lets call the other guy "joe" were out in the woods jay said there was a hole in the condom. Now this was 3 days after we did it and we left the condom in the woods. We thought jay was trying to be a pain in the ass and get a reaction out of us but we had to ignore him because he couldnt know we did it. So i didnt care anymore. Then ryan told me he was still bothered by what jay said. now im scared because if there was a hole i could be pregnant. im not buying a test to dont try that. i know im supposed to get my period this week or the beginning of next. if i dont have it in 2 weeks then theres deffinatly something wrong. I hate to sit and wait though. Im getting the symptoms that i usually get a day ahead of the day i get my period. But what if its not that. I had these pains last nigth and all day today. Which is not normal. Maybe i should just wait. But is there anything i can do to tell sooner? If im pregant im fucked! my mom would kill me and "ryan". And reminder pregnancy test arent available for me wats so everr.
Please help me
Sorry it was soo longg
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ok having sex will make you period come late just calm down and if you dont get it get a friend to take you to a drug store and get a pregnancy test they will sell them to you honestly its all probably from it being your first time and if the condom was out there for 2 days theres no telling what got a hold of it so calm down and see what happens good luck
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Alright. I'm 17 and I just need to let someone know and get someone else's advice because I can't say anything to my friends. So, I met this guy a while back and I've seen him a few times. I've always thought he was cute, but he's been dating this girl for a year and a half.
Now, I know this will sound ridiculous, but at the party last weekend I talked to him all night about a lot of different things. We really bonded and he kept telling me all night that he felt we had. He's a really great guy, but he cheated on his gf with me last weekend and I'm going to see him again this weekend. I mean. I really feel bad about it all, I do, but the more I think about it .. he wouldn't have cheated on her if he didn't have doubts or didn't want something more, you know? He says he loves her, but is he in love with being in the relationship with her or is he truly in love with her because obviously he can't completely be in love with her if he cheated on her. And just to clear a few things up, he has only cheated on her one other time before me so please just give me advice and what you think I should do or what you think actually on the whole circumstance. Thanks so much ya'll! (link)
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its best to leave someone like that alone think about if you were his girlfriend u wouldnt want a guy like that good luck
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ok so heres the thing. i know when i like a guy. but recently i havnt liked a guy for like 3 months. but many i have thought liked me. and when i think people like me i like them. but i never say anything because im never sure if i ever do. because i thought my best friend liked me so i s tarted liking him but then someother guy like a week later i thought liked me so i s tarted liking him and the same right now i think a guy likes me so i like him. but im nto really sure if i like the guy. and its really annoying me. i mean i might actually like them but im not 100 percent sure.and this is the first time that its been like that. and then also now if a friend thinks i like someone i start liking that person. like its really annoying. and ihaave no idea how to not or whatever. haha sorry if this is not able to answer. i jsut need on advice. (link)
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wow............ummm yeah just go after what u like now what likes you i mean hey it helps if they like you but it needs to be both ways
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ok..me and my boyfriend were doing perfectly fine and then today he was like.. i cant be with you i'm sorry..i still love my ex more than anything...and when i read that.. i just broke down in tears..we both fell in love with each other..deeply..and he did that to me..and i still love him no matter what..and i cant convince him to come back to me..what should i do or tell him that might make him come back to me..i tried telling him how i felt about him..and i dunno what to tell him now..he's the first person i've felt this way about since i was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years..PLEASE HELP MEE PLEASEEE!! :'( i've been bawling the past 5 hours!!! (link)
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ok what you do is you move on or you end up sitting home crying about him for a yeah and a half take your pick ok im not being mean its just i dont want no girl to go through what i have try to find someone else and if you still love him do anything you can to get him back
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Ok, well last weekend my band took a trip to san antonio and i hooked up with someone. i'm 14/f and a freshman and he's 17/m and a junior. On the bus ride home (about 5 hours) we sat together and shared a blanket, cuddled, held hands, leaned heads on each other, etc. And he did sit with another girl earlier on thr trip but he never acted like that with her. When it was dark I had my head in his lap and we started kissing and making out for the rest of the way home which was about 30ish minutes. It's been three days and he hasn't really taked to me much. He's in my first period class and lunch. He kind of talks to me during first period but only noticed me once in lunch. And after school I'll be standing in the hall and he walks right past me without even looking at me. I like him, but I don't know if he likes me because it's not really seeming that way right now. And I don't to be the naive little freshman who thinks there's a relationsihp there that's really not and follow him around and be annoying. Several of my friends have told me just to forget about him and find someone else, and believe me, I've tried, but for some reason I just can't. But does anyone think that he might like me? And if it doesn't seem that way how can I forget about him? Thanks!! (link)
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well call me crazy but i think he likes you but you do need to take it step by step talk to him more as friends then bring something up but that trip and if he doesnt its not the end of the world as for you not being able to get him out of your head i understand ive liked the same guy for about a year and a half and what u do is just deal with it go day by day it gets better good luck with everything!!!!!
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I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months, and I'm a big believer of not telling someone I love them until I really get that gut feeling. (I find it means so much more.)
He, to the contrary, has dated girls that are the exact opposite and say 'i love you' from day one; he was accustomed to saying it to me before I could tell him the same.
So 5 months have passed, and I really felt ready to tell him I loved him.. and I did. He was so happy, and I think he realized how much more it meant to him because I waited.
Here's the problem: now he never says it to me. I almost feel like he's scared to say those three words now that he knows I really mean it. Is this why he is hesitating all of a sudden? What's going on? (It's not fun to finally say i love you and not hear it back when he was the one saying it first) (link)
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maybe he was just throwing those words around and maybe now he sees how serious it is maybe he aint sure or maybe hes scared your best bet is to talk to him about it good luck
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Okay. For about a year and a half now, there's this guy I've had a HUGE crush on--I've never liked someone THIS MUCH. Anyway, I was talking to him on the phone and he ends up saying he met a girl at a track meet. Now he doesn't know I like him, we're friends. I faked a "That's great! Who is she?" as I punched the pillow on my bed. I was a little worried, but then he said he really liked her and was going to ask her out. And then what next? I practically died. I'm still happy for him though, because I want him to be happy, even if I'm not the one he likes. But it's been killing me. I don't want to tell him I like him--I don't think that would go very well. What should I do? (link)
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wow its weird ive been in your situation i know how you feel if hes already with this girl let it be and if and when they break up be there for him the best you can and then maybe you can tell him how you feel and while hes in this relationship be there for him it will mean alot to him you seem like a great friend good luck
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So, there's this guy... He's amazing =] I've been getting to know him and I really like him. I told my friend that I liked him a few days ago. He randomly told her the other day that he's starting to get feelings for me, and she told him that I liked him too and he was really happy and we've been talking and so it's all good. The thing is, I barely see him... I see him maybe once a day, not even. But I talk to him all the time like for hours about everything. Tomorrow we're going on a fieldtrip and he's going to, i want to hang out with him but I don't know we kind of have different crowds and I'm worried he might ignore me, you know? I really have no clue what's going to happen tomorrow. What I'm asking is, how can I make it so that I DO hang out with him tomorrow... I really want to, but I'm pretty shy. Any tips? =] Thanks. (link)
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if hes worth your time he wont ignore if he does he aint worth your time
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